kat19 said:please answer as honest as you can.
would you be able to have a serious relationship or even marriage to a dancer? if you knew she did lap dancing but very clean and had a certain goal in mind and a date she would quit?
I think you are right the majority do agree.kat19 said:thanks, langeweile. i wanted honest awnsers and i also believe the majority of men would feel like you do.
kat19 said:i don't know anymore.... i need to make a choice between dancing or love/relationship and its really hard. on the one hand the $ will take me really far in terms of personal goals, or if i choose love, the relationship i'm in could end up being "the one" or the guy could dump my ass later on, and i'd be poor and way behind on my goals.
kat19 said:i don't know anymore.... i need to make a choice between dancing or love/relationship and its really hard. on the one hand the $ will take me really far in terms of personal goals, or if i choose love, the relationship i'm in could end up being "the one" or the guy could dump my ass later on, and i'd be poor and way behind on my goals.
langeweile said:While we might think we are in control we are really not. You only have control over the moment. You have ABSOLUTELY NO control over tomorrow.
The question is, which decision can you live with?
Sometimes no decision is a decision too.kat19 said:such a GOOD point...the trouble is i don't want to have to make that choice.