question for the men
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Of course...
Then I could retire.
Seriously... Yes. I have dated dancers before and would do so again. Bottom line... I know she is only doing it for the money.
Getting married? No. But that is only because my current feeling is that I don't want to ever get married or do the common law thing again. I like living alone for one thing... and many other reasons not revelent right now.
Then I could retire.
Seriously... Yes. I have dated dancers before and would do so again. Bottom line... I know she is only doing it for the money.
Getting married? No. But that is only because my current feeling is that I don't want to ever get married or do the common law thing again. I like living alone for one thing... and many other reasons not revelent right now.
Theres way too many "ifs" in this scenario to answer accurately.
My age and her age are a big factor. If were both in our 20s and shes a student and does this part time and has plans to quit after school is done then its one story.
If Im older and not looking just for fun but a potential longterm partner and shes in her late 20s and has done this for 5-10 years and has no plans on how to leave the business then I dont think I would.
Youre also asking people here who likely have a closer connection to the sex business than the "average" man. So you will likely get answers which are skewed.
My age and her age are a big factor. If were both in our 20s and shes a student and does this part time and has plans to quit after school is done then its one story.
If Im older and not looking just for fun but a potential longterm partner and shes in her late 20s and has done this for 5-10 years and has no plans on how to leave the business then I dont think I would.
Youre also asking people here who likely have a closer connection to the sex business than the "average" man. So you will likely get answers which are skewed.
kat19 said:
Sorry, but I could not. The thought of my girlfriend or wife being groped by a bunch of guys, just doesn't sound very appealing.
"Hey Langeweile! your girl is quiet a hottie, she rubed me good last night...."
Call me old fashioned, but this is not what i want to hear about my girlfriend or wife.
"Hey Langeweile! your girl is quiet a hottie, she rubed me good last night...."
Call me old fashioned, but this is not what i want to hear about my girlfriend or wife.
I think you are right the majority do agree.kat19 said:
Still others would jump at the chance at the money.
And a few are capable of meeting a dancer and comming to terms with her choice. And can "be ok" with it for a defined period of time. I will bet this man will be damned attentive to her.
i don't know anymore.... i need to make a choice between dancing or love/relationship and its really hard. on the one hand the $ will take me really far in terms of personal goals, or if i choose love, the relationship i'm in could end up being "the one" or the guy could dump my ass later on, and i'd be poor and way behind on my goals.
kat19 said:
While we might think we are in control we are really not. You only have control over the moment. You have ABSOLUTELY NO control over tomorrow.
The question is, which decision can you live with?
kat19 said:
Never, ever be afraid to risk it all for love. Love is the one thing in anyones life that has no logic or rhyme to it. When love is strong both grow stronger with it.
misty,
i'm 26 and i do love this guy very much, however, there are many things working against us. one of the main things is he says i need to quti dancing for good before he can totally open up to me and be on a real serious level. so if i thought he was for sure the perfect man i WOULD give it up, but i don't know yet and thats why i need time. and i only want to have 2 more years max. in the biz. and i just wanted him to be paitient, but he can't and i understand, i just don't know if he is the one i should give up everything for.
i'm 26 and i do love this guy very much, however, there are many things working against us. one of the main things is he says i need to quti dancing for good before he can totally open up to me and be on a real serious level. so if i thought he was for sure the perfect man i WOULD give it up, but i don't know yet and thats why i need time. and i only want to have 2 more years max. in the biz. and i just wanted him to be paitient, but he can't and i understand, i just don't know if he is the one i should give up everything for.
