Question for Don Draper about friends with benefits

[TeeJay]

But how do you ask a friend to be a FWB.

If she freaks then you lost a friend who may start telling everyone

...???

Why would you ASK?

If it happens then after the fact I suppose you can inquire about having an ongoing relation but you need to bed her first lol


Or is this some weaksauce positive consent thing where you need to inquire into her willingness to participate in a meaningless relationship?

 

[Fun For All]

Please spare me. I'm not going to get mixed up in your web of tantalizing lies.

That remark proves to me that you are a fool...

 

[TeeJay]

Yes, ashleymadison.com was hacked...you are wrong to say that membership was 99.9% male...why does this make me a troll?

Although I agree with letter of what is written (not 99.9% male) we both know males vastly outnumber females (maybe 80-20? 75-25 at best)

Anyone using a website such as that is kinda sad... way too many SPs make up the bulk of the females on there

You probably have a better chance anywhere else


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The Fembots of Ashley Madison [Updated]

Now we know that almost none of the woman in the Ashley Madison database ever used the site. The question is, was this a deliberate fraud? Or was it just a dating site gone wrong?

gizmodo.com

 

[Fun For All]

Please spare me. I'm not going to get mixed up in your web of tantalizing lies.

Why would I lie...do you think I’m a top-secret Ashley Madison agent infiltrating TERB...you’re just jealous that it worked for me.

 

[Fun For All]

Although I agree with letter of what is written (not 99.9% male) we both know males vastly outnumber females (maybe 80-20? 75-25 at best)

Anyone using a website such as that is kinda sad... way too many SPs make up the bulk of the females on there

You probably have a better chance anywhere else

Maybe there are but I didn’t meet any SPs...actually, I had pretty good experience on it.

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

Why would I lie...do you think I’m a top-secret Ashley Madison agent infiltrating TERB...you’re just jealous that it worked for me.

They were all bombshells too, right???

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I am asking Draper as he claims to be suave but anyone can answer.

 

[Fun For All]

They were all bombshells too, right???

Hey stupid, that’s top secret...

 

[ogibowt]

You met 7 fake women from AshleyMadison???

Your fiction needs a little work. It requires too much suspension of disbelief.

Is Don Draper your other account?

not likely .....DD doesnt strike me as a lover of hard rocknroll lol

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

Although I agree with letter of what is written (not 99.9% male) we both know males vastly outnumber females (maybe 80-20? 75-25 at best)

AshleyMadison isn't a dating site. Your stats might be possible for some legit dating sites under the best of scenarios but it still unlikely. For a site like AM, it's closer to 100:1, if that. It's common practice in that world and many have been caught out on it: https://krebsonsecurity.com/tag/amateurmatch/

FTC Sues Owner of Online Dating Service Match.com for Using Fake Love Interest Ads To Trick Consumers into Paying for a Match.com Subscription

The Federal Trade Commission sued online dating service Match Group, Inc.

www.ftc.gov

 

[Fun For All]

AshleyMadison isn't a dating site. Your stats might be possible for some legit dating sites under the best of scenarios but it still unlikely. For a site like AM, it's closer to 100:1, if that. It's common practice in that world and many have been caught out on it: https://krebsonsecurity.com/tag/amateurmatch/

FTC Sues Owner of Online Dating Service Match.com for Using Fake Love Interest Ads To Trick Consumers into Paying for a Match.com Subscription

The Federal Trade Commission sued online dating service Match Group, Inc.

www.ftc.gov

You don’t know, you’re just making that up...your links are for other sites.

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

You don’t know, you’re just making that up.

The information was widely available after the site was hacked.

It's probably difficult for an average joe to conceive or accept how easily they're duped every day. The world is a cruel place but the smart opportunist makes out like a bandit.

 

[TeeJay]

AshleyMadison isn't a dating site. Your stats might be possible for some legit dating sites under the best of scenarios but it still unlikely. For a site like AM, it's closer to 100:1, if that. It's common practice in that world and many have been caught out on it: https://krebsonsecurity.com/tag/amateurmatch/

From what I read most women logged into AM exactly 1 time
So tried and disliked quality of men on there (or actually engaged with someone.... like I said even browsing free ads it was pretty obvious there were many GTA SPs using the site to fish for clients)

The 99 to 1 (or less) stats are based on REPEAT logins (excluding the Angels of course; Angels were the fake female profiles that AM created to entice people to spend $$$)


So like I said earlier the actual number of profiles is probably closer to 80 to 20
The profiles who logged in two or more times is where you start getting your 99 to 1 stats

 

[Fun For All]

The information was widely available after the site was hacked.

It's probably difficult for an average joe to conceive or accept how easily they're duped every day. The world is a cruel place but the smart opportunist makes out like a bandit.

It worked for me...I’d say get an account but you’re probably too cheap.

 

[TeeJay]

It worked for me...I’d say get an account but you’re probably too cheap.

If you aren't cheap send me $30
I can easily send you lists of thousands of emails
Better female percentages than AM would ever have

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

It worked for me...I’d say get an account but you’re probably too cheap.

 

[Fun For All]

From what I read most women logged into AM exactly 1 time
So tried and disliked quality of men on there (or actually engaged with someone.... like I said even browsing free ads it was pretty obvious there were many GTA SPs using the site to fish for clients)

The 99 to 1 (or less) stats are based on REPEAT logins (excluding the Angels of course; Angels were the fake female profiles that AM created to entice people to spend $$$)


So like I said earlier the actual number of profiles is probably closer to 80 to 20
The profiles who logged in two or more times is where you start getting your 99 to 1 stats

When I was active on it, men paid and women joined for free so I don’t doubt there was a ton more women than men.

Somebody like Mr Know-Fuck-All represents a large portion of the outsiders, they are skeptical about it, but I’m telling you from the inside, it can work and it worked great for me.

 

[Fun For All]

If you aren't cheap send me $30
I can easily send you lists of thousands of emails
Better female percentages than AM would ever have

Sure, it’s in the mail...

Ashley Madison costs more than $30 and they have a guarantee that you will meet someone.

 

[Zoot Allures]

...???


Or is this some weaksauce positive consent thing where you need to inquire into her willingness to participate in a meaningless relationship?

I think you should upfront and not a cad

she has feelings so respect them she may think she is starting a love relatioship


BTW, FWB does have the baggage of feeling getting hurt on both sides so grow up