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Even if Draper is a fictional I still think he is one of the coolest Terbites
Question for Don Draper about friends with benefits
- Thread starter Big Rig
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Even if Draper is a fictional I still think he is one of the coolest Terbites
some random thoughts
always dress and smell nice clean fingernails etc
she does not want dirty hands with cracked nails touching her body
if you do not care about your self she figures you will not care about her
be friendly and kind to all and show her you can be trusted for if she is interested with you as a FWB she will be watching
sensitivity and trust is huge if she is interested in FWB
compliment her in a non suggestive way, be careful not to make her uncomfortable until you get to know her boundaries
look for signals she may be into FWB
most girls will not be but there are definitely some who would be into it with the right guy
it would really help you out if you worked out and got some muscle, if she is into FWB she will be seeking someone who is physically in shape
I agree with BR. FWB does not always mean sex,. Few girls would be into that but more would be into massage, cuddling leading perhaps to nudity kissing HJ etc once she and you decided that was the path she wanted to go. That is why establishing trust is so vital. She does want to be pressured beyond her comfort and she may not even know what her limits are so she wants someone to let her discover without pressure.
If deep emotions get involved it will be messy
always dress and smell nice clean fingernails etc
she does not want dirty hands with cracked nails touching her body
if you do not care about your self she figures you will not care about her
be friendly and kind to all and show her you can be trusted for if she is interested with you as a FWB she will be watching
sensitivity and trust is huge if she is interested in FWB
compliment her in a non suggestive way, be careful not to make her uncomfortable until you get to know her boundaries
look for signals she may be into FWB
most girls will not be but there are definitely some who would be into it with the right guy
it would really help you out if you worked out and got some muscle, if she is into FWB she will be seeking someone who is physically in shape
I agree with BR. FWB does not always mean sex,. Few girls would be into that but more would be into massage, cuddling leading perhaps to nudity kissing HJ etc once she and you decided that was the path she wanted to go. That is why establishing trust is so vital. She does want to be pressured beyond her comfort and she may not even know what her limits are so she wants someone to let her discover without pressure.
If deep emotions get involved it will be messy
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Akila Besos
Honestly if I am wishing to be in an FWB situation it has usually been something that has happened organically.
I do have some friends who are male that I see when I am getting the urge for some dirty fun but havent really been doing that at all since the pandemic started. I also have females with whom I am open with and we are all fine with stating a relationship as FWB, we would go clubbing together and if we were all feeling it have some fun in the car or a nearby hotel.
Never pressure a girl/guy to go into the FWB relationship if you are truly worried about how it will messup a friendship.
We also may throw some signals to people we may be interested in and it is usually up to that person to understand what they mean and how to go about it.
I do have some friends who are male that I see when I am getting the urge for some dirty fun but havent really been doing that at all since the pandemic started. I also have females with whom I am open with and we are all fine with stating a relationship as FWB, we would go clubbing together and if we were all feeling it have some fun in the car or a nearby hotel.
Never pressure a girl/guy to go into the FWB relationship if you are truly worried about how it will messup a friendship.
We also may throw some signals to people we may be interested in and it is usually up to that person to understand what they mean and how to go about it.
If you pressure someone into a FWB situation you could be setting yourself up for a very embarrassing/uncomfortable/awkward encounter...it is why I'm not big on neighbours and co-workers for a FWB, I've done it and it has usually has had some awkward moments.
It's what I liked about my Ashley Madison encounters...you know a little bit about each other but not enough to damage one another...while knowing what the end game is.
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Akila Besos
I have tried Ashley when I was younger and honestly met 1 cool dude and the rest was a bunch of creeps.
Ashley is a site that has alot of hits or misses depending on the user
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Akila Besos
Still spamming, huh?
I stopped reading fairytales in childhood. Please don't make me read anymore of yours.
Yes...you got me...I'm a top secret spy for Ashey Madison promoting their site by infiltrating TERB by first throwing them off with 6000 posts on other forums to disguise my identity...good work Columbo.
I'm not disagreeing with anything you said but It was a lot of fun it an adventurous way to meet people this way...
You impressing a women without handing them an envelope with $300 is a fairytale.
You and Don Draper should hang out (assuming you're two different people). Together you can conjure up an epic tale of conquest that will live on forever in the annals of TERB history.
i thought that was Surferboy,s gig..or is it Surfer Dude....
I assume It goes both ways. All that effort to finally meet someone and she was lying
I would never trust a dating site as I think they are all scams
Once filled out their BS profile that makes site look legit. An hour wasted. then they let you in for free but once in you they tell you the upgrade is essential
i presumed the success they guaranteed with the upgrade was more BS so i never did buy it
seems like way to much effort and luck
