AshleyMadison isn't a dating site. Your stats
might be possible for some legit dating sites under the best of scenarios but it still unlikely. For a site like AM, it's closer to 100:1, if that. It's common practice in that world and many have been caught out on it:
https://krebsonsecurity.com/tag/amateurmatch/
From what I read most women logged into AM exactly 1 time
So tried and disliked quality of men on there (or actually engaged with someone.... like I said even browsing free ads it was pretty obvious there were many GTA SPs using the site to fish for clients)
The 99 to 1 (or less) stats are based on REPEAT logins (excluding the Angels of course; Angels were the fake female profiles that AM created to entice people to spend $$$)
So like I said earlier the actual number of profiles is probably closer to 80 to 20
The profiles who logged in two or more times is where you start getting your 99 to 1 stats