Providers that prefers older gentlemen

[Alison_xox]

Hey guys ,

I don’t know if it’s politically correct , but I am thinking of implementing an age limit on my clientele.
Let’s be honest, I am not 20yo anymore & I like my men like I like my wine. Aged and raffinés.
I enjoy the smoothness & the delicate touch.

I also am a mother and meeting guys that are the same age as my son is just a big NO for me.
I simply can’t.
I’m not old old , but old enough to be uncomfortable meeting 18 yo for sure.
In this industry it is a blessing to look young & I am thankful for my good genes , but it also brings a clientele that’s younger.
I usually tell them I am not available or that we are not a good match , but I feel it would be way easier to simply put an age limit on my ads & website.

I tried putting my real age (42 on September 26th) , but then I get clients that were expecting a mature lady and are disappointed that I look way younger.
I put a vague approximation now.Nobody can be disappointed

Am I the only one feeling like that ?
Would it be rude to refuse younger gents ?

Kisses
Ali

 

[johnnyonthespot]

Hey guys ,

I don’t know if it’s politically correct , but I am thinking of implementing an age limit on my clientele.
Let’s be honest, I am not 20yo anymore & I like my men like I like my wine. Aged and raffinés.
I enjoy the smoothness & the delicate touch.

I also am a mother and meeting guys that are the same age as my son is just a big NO for me.
I simply can’t.
I’m not old old , but old enough to be uncomfortable meeting 18 yo for sure.

Am I the only one feeling like that ?
Would it be rude to refuse a client for his age ?

Kisses
Ali

Your body, your rules. Absolutely no reason you shouldn't be able to set limits for your own comfort, and you have the ability to do so as an independent provider.

Better for the client too. If you're uncomfortable, it's going to affect the session, whether you intend it to or not.

 

[Burldude]

I don't think you are alone. I see many SP's have age limit

1) as you stated, guys that are the same or younger than your kids are a no-no... even for me. I would not see a SP younger than 25.
2) most of us get into this hobby after a long term relationship and much less headache, time and money than dating. These young guys entering this hobby at young age are socially awkward and lack of life and sexual experience.
3) if I were 18 again and seeing SP's I would try to get my personal record on how many SOG I can get during the 1 hour session. Maybe I could have done 4 to 5 of them.

 

[Frank Gravey]

Am I the only one feeling like that ?
Would it be rude to refuse younger gents ?

Kisses
Ali

What a delightful post. Can you tell what age range I fall in to? To your first question, I am thinking it's directed to your cohort SP's and I really hope that you will hear from them - either in the thread or by PM.
To your second question - I go with Johnny - your gig, you call the shots (er, pun intended, I suppose). That said, were I in your position, I'd be fascinated to know what specifically is motivating these Young Bucks to want to spend time with an 'older' woman. The more mature and well articulated the reply the more I *might* consider taking them on as a client. As Burldude said, if it's a bragging rights exercise in the making, then yup, move 'em right along.

 

[bruised]

For me, I think that an ad indicating an SP prefers older gentleman comes across as welcoming and will attract the demographic you seek. I'm in my 50s and I started this hobby just a few years ago. At first, I was self conscious about being too old, and with a dad bod perhaps disappointing an SP. And I've learned along the way that the SPs I've met love us! And you shouldn't concern yourself with offending anyone. Love you Alison

 

[JClay]

Hey guys ,

I don’t know if it’s politically correct , but I am thinking of implementing an age limit on my clientele.
Let’s be honest, I am not 20yo anymore & I like my men like I like my wine. Aged and raffinés.
I enjoy the smoothness & the delicate touch.

I also am a mother and meeting guys that are the same age as my son is just a big NO for me.
I simply can’t.
I’m not old old , but old enough to be uncomfortable meeting 18 yo for sure.
In this industry it is a blessing to look young & I am thankful for my good genes , but it also brings a clientele that’s younger.
I usually tell them I am not available or that we are not a good match , but I feel it would be way easier to simply put an age limit on my ads & website.

I tried putting my real age (42 on September 26th) , but then I get clients that were expecting a mature lady and are disappointed that I look way younger.
I put a vague approximation now.Nobody can be disappointed

Am I the only one feeling like that ?
Would it be rude to refuse younger gents ?

Kisses
Ali

I think you have every right to see who you feel comfortable seeing - full stop. As I've gotten older I'm similarly less comfortable seeing younger providers - if you're young enough to be my kid, sorry, it's just too weird.

 

[ABitHorny]

I think you have every right to see who you feel comfortable seeing - full stop. As I've gotten older I'm similarly less comfortable seeing younger providers - if you're young enough to be my kid, sorry, it's just too weird.

Same here. My nieces and nephews are in their twenties.

 

[Alison_xox]

For me, I think that an ad indicating an SP prefers older gentleman comes across as welcoming and will attract the demographic you seek. I'm in my 50s and I started this hobby just a few years ago. At first, I was self conscious about being too old, and with a dad bod perhaps disappointing an SP. And I've learned along the way that the SPs I've met love us! And you shouldn't concern yourself with offending anyone. Love you Alison

Oh yes indeed !
I love dad’s bod. They’re the best

Love you right back

 

[Hughlongly]

Oh yes indeed !
I love dad’s bod. They’re the best

Love you right back

We need to chat.

 

[Capital Amatuer]

Experience, wisdom and well-worded advertising should give you the privilege to target the market you want. You say you appreciate fine wines...is it then fair to say you outgrown tequila shots ?

 

[Alison_xox]

Experience, wisdom and well-worded advertising should give you the privilege to target the market you want. You say you appreciate fine wines...is it then fair to say you outgrown tequila shots ?

I am blessed with an amazing clientele that corresponds my target and I feel so incredibly thankful for them.

I just wish I didn’t attract the youngest gents as well.
I am not accepting under 30yo clients , but it’s awkward to have to refuse a client & I wish I didn’t have to do that. I think this thread made me confident & comfortable to set an age limitation & to openly mention it in my ads & website.

I’ll be tweaking my ads & website this weekend to make it official

Oh and yes I think it’s pretty fair to say I like wine better & tequila shots were never my cup of tea , even younger

Kisses
Ali

 

[Pinkpanther80]

I am blessed with an amazing clientele that corresponds my target and I feel so incredibly thankful for them.

I just wish I didn’t attract the youngest gents as well.
I am not accepting under 30yo clients , but it’s awkward to have to refuse a client & I wish I didn’t have to do that. I think this thread made me confident & comfortable to set an age limitation & to openly mention it in my ads & website.

I’ll be tweaking my ads & website this weekend to make it official

Oh and yes I think it’s pretty fair to say I like wine better & tequila shots were never my cup of tea , even younger

Kisses
Ali

As a guy in my mid 40s I am ok with providers wanting older men though I look much younger than my age so hopefully I wouldn’t get carded at the door!!

 

[Peter485]

I saw it slightly differently then the other guys (but in a good way). When I see an ad that says the woman prefers older men, say 35+, I always read it as 'don't worry big guy, I'm make sure to get you there'.

When I was 18, all a woman would have to do was lie down and I was ready. I always finished, and was ready again within minutes. Drunk, exhausted, sleep deprived, didn't matter, I was getting to my destination.

Being in my 40's, I'm still good, but I'm not 18. Seeing an age restriction is very comforting to me; it let's me know that she knows how my body works today, not 20 years ago.

To be honest, whenever I read it I thought it was a marketing thing. I am happy to hear so women prefer a guy my age. Sounds like a win-win to me.

 

[William St]

Hey guys ,

I don’t know if it’s politically correct , but I am thinking of implementing an age limit on my clientele.
Let’s be honest, I am not 20yo anymore & I like my men like I like my wine. Aged and raffinés.
I enjoy the smoothness & the delicate touch.

I also am a mother and meeting guys that are the same age as my son is just a big NO for me.
I simply can’t.
I’m not old old , but old enough to be uncomfortable meeting 18 yo for sure.
In this industry it is a blessing to look young & I am thankful for my good genes , but it also brings a clientele that’s younger.
I usually tell them I am not available or that we are not a good match , but I feel it would be way easier to simply put an age limit on my ads & website.

I tried putting my real age (42 on September 26th) , but then I get clients that were expecting a mature lady and are disappointed that I look way younger.
I put a vague approximation now.Nobody can be disappointed

Am I the only one feeling like that ?
Would it be rude to refuse younger gents ?

Kisses
Ali

I have a great time, every time, with Fabulous Fanny, who is 49 or 50. And I am almost 20 years older than her! I think it's a lot more about the chemistry you have with your partner, than the age. But I can see how it must be uncomfortable for you with men so much younger. I would state an age limit, and I don't think that's rude. You would not be the only sp who does that.

 

[Alison_xox]

As a guy in my mid 40s I am ok with providers wanting older men though I look much younger than my age so hopefully I wouldn’t get carded at the door!!

Hahaha !
That could be flattering as well , but I get it

 

[MikeO]

I saw it slightly differently then the other guys (but in a good way). When I see an ad that says the woman prefers older men, say 35+, I always read it as 'don't worry big guy, I'm make sure to get you there'.

When I was 18, all a woman would have to do was lie down and I was ready. I always finished, and was ready again within minutes. Drunk, exhausted, sleep deprived, didn't matter, I was getting to my destination.

Being in my 40's, I'm still good, but I'm not 18. Seeing an age restriction is very comforting to me; it let's me know that she knows how my body works today, not 20 years ago.

To be honest, whenever I read it I thought it was a marketing thing. I am happy to hear so women prefer a guy my age. Sounds like a win-win to me.

Hey, aptly named 'Peter', great attitude, but wait until you get into your 70's ... and there are some wonderful local young ladies who have no problem with that. It's a matter of the respect, how you treat them and the appreciation you show. (Or maybe it's that they hope I'll leave them something in my will?) As the country song goes, "I'm not as good as I once was, but i'm as good once as I ever was!"... at least on a good day. Maybe if I get senile, my d*ck will forget that I came once and will rise like Lazarus to go again.

 

[Alison_xox]

Hey, aptly named 'Peter', great attitude, but wait until you get into your 70's ... and there are some wonderful local young ladies who have no problem with that. It's a matter of the respect, how you treat them and the appreciation you show. (Or maybe it's that they hope I'll leave them something in my will?) As the country song goes, "I'm not as good as I once was, but i'm as good once as I ever was!"... at least on a good day. Maybe if I get senile, my d*ck will forget that I came once and will rise like Lazarus to go again.

I do have clients that are «appreciative & well aged »
I love them so much. They’re like candy. Sweet & fun.
One of them I never saw again after I came back from my 2 years retirement. He was my Tuesday 3:30pm every week. Your post makes me think of him.
I hope he’s ok.

 

[BuckJones]

I do have clients that are «appreciative & well aged »
I love them so much. They’re like candy. Sweet & fun.
One of them I never saw again after I came back from my 2 years retirement. He was my Tuesday 3:30pm every week. Your post makes me think of him.
I hope he’s ok.

I often wonder sometimes if I'd be considered cruddy and sour based on my age...I'm an ancient one. Whenever I cmmunicate with SWs, as a precaution, I state my age, in case it would be an issue, try to avoid the repulsion factor.

In any case, Thanks for the thread Alison. Its interesting reading

 

[Alison_xox]

I often wonder sometimes if I'd be considered cruddy and sour based on my age...I'm an ancient one. Whenever I cmmunicate with SWs, as a precaution, I state my age, in case it would be an issue, try to avoid the repulsion factor.

In any case, Thanks for the thread Alison. Its interesting reading

Haha !
I feel it could be a niche market.
I could advertise :

Are your joints rusty, your eyes foggy & your dick softer?
Do you sometimes feel like buying peppermint ?
Are your hair trying to emancipate from your scalp ?
Do you feel like buying a rocking chair & slippers to look outside and judge your neighbours ?
Well I might be the one for you… Let’s forget about numbers (anyways you forget a lot) & enjoy eachother in a very slow , soft & naughty way.

Do you guys have ideas of advertisements ??



I make jokes , but I truly love my clientele & they know it.
Sometimes , feeling a bit rusty is not the end of the world. It’s that connection that just comes naturally with older gents. They’re something else.

I also have clients in their late 30’s , in their 40’s , in their 50’s , 60’s …. I just don’t click with 20’s … It’s too young for my taste.

 

[MikeO]

Haha !
I feel it could be a niche market.
I could advertise :

Are your joints rusty, your eyes foggy & your dick softer?
Do you sometimes feel like buying peppermint ?
Are your hair trying to emancipate from your scalp ?
Do you feel like buying a rocking chair & slippers to look outside and judge your neighbours ?
Well I might be the one for you… Let’s forget about numbers (anyways you forget a lot) & enjoy eachother in a very slow , soft & naughty way.

Do you guys have ideas of advertisements ??

when I

I make jokes , but I truly love my clientele & they know it.
Sometimes , feeling a bit rusty is not the end of the world. It’s that connection that just comes naturally with older gents. They’re something else.

I also have clients in their late 30’s , in their 40’s , in their 50’s , 60’s …. I just don’t click with 20’s … It’s too young for my taste.

Your humour made my day! No.... I haven't deteriorated THAT much yet... although every day I find I have less hair to comb and more face to wash as my forehead grows. My Lazyboy chair has in fact been host to a few ladies that made me decide NEVER to get rid of it for sentimental reasons although I didn't wear fussy slippers for interaction. I caution you about marketing to seniors' residences and nursing homes. I did that after I passed my SNHU course on Brazilian waxing.... giving discounts to seniors... it was simply a bad marketing move... I cun't keep up with the demand! Oh, and them 80's ladies in THONGS! Ewwwwww....