Providers that prefers older gentlemen

[dynomyte]

I too love seeing ladies post as well, however, I am always cognizant of the fact that this is their business. How much of what we read are their genuine thoughts and how much is their business speak? Regardless, insight to the provider or the business philosophy are equally valuable.

 

[Alison_xox]

tldr; see who you want to see for the reasons you want to see them. Clear communications will help you find the trysts you enjoy.

I cannot imagine the number of reasons a client seeks out the company of a SP (there are many), but for the purposes of this response I will group clients in two seperate groups:

1. Clients seeking sexual gratification; and/or
2. Clients seeking the companionship of an attractive (to them) SP

I can only speak for myself and will frame my responses below as such.

For the record, I seek both equally... a lovely lady to spend a brief interlude enjoying not just the physical; but to also connect with a person that piques my interest.


As a mature gent myself, this suggests to me the lady I am considering to meet is mature herself. I very much appreciate the company of a mature woman that can titillate not just my physical senses, but also my intellectual and emotional senses. I do enjoy "falling in like" every now and then.

Yep, I have dated below my preferred age/"maturity" level, 'cause damn that girl looks hot... but am soon bored as that is the only perceived connection. "Quickies" are not something I typically seek, so I don't want to be clawing my eyes out listening to inane chatter as I surreptitiously look at my watch to see when I can depart.

Although I do not drink wine often, but a lady that has experienced life, has views and opinions... and is able to express them; is a far more interesting person to spend time with: sexually and companionably.

Refinement may come at any age, but experience takes time to nurture.

I cannot speak to my "refinement" as I am still prone to bouts of gleeful immaturity... but am "old enough to know better and young enough to want to do it anyway.” ;--)

To hell with "political correctness".


Clear communications are valued by those that read and think critically, I sense these are the clients you seek.

Personally, I am wary of folks who may have daddy or mommy "issues". Please don't call me daddy lol

Not having met you (yet) Ali, I cannot speak to your refinement and genes, but I would not be surprised to discover you look 'youthful'... I can "hear" maturity in your words and the few pictures I have seen of you suggest a total fox ;--)


Hell no, you are a beautiful woman: intelligent, independent, funny and engaging... do whatever the hell you want... I strive to do that myself every day ;--)

Final thought: I can't thank the ladies enough who post to this forum... it is most insightful (and refreshing) to see conversations like this.

I think I just Felt in like with you

 

[Alison_xox]

I too love seeing ladies post as well, however, I am always cognizant of the fact that this is their business. How much of what we read are their genuine thoughts and how much is their business speak? Regardless, insight to the provider or the business philosophy are equally valuable.

I think you need to meet the provider in person and simply feel the vibe.
Some people are really good at perceiving the authenticity of an other person.
I guess when you click , you click & it’s hard to fake it.

Kisses
Al

 

[maj_hazard]

Alison, You will always be the woman who makes a Bishop kick in a stained glass window when you walk past.

I prefer being with a woman who has the bumps and bruises that life experience brings. I find that my outstanding sense of humor lacks it's punch when a younger lady does not get the references to movies from the 70s and 80s.

How is it that kids these days do not know who the 6 million dollar man was ?

Cheers

Hazard

 

[MikeO]

Being "not young", this is such a fun thread!! Makes one feel young again, and appreciated lol. Like we do have a lot of disposable income, and all the time in the world ... as long as it's before 9 pm lol Alison is a genius. My OAS and CPP are both for hobbying now lol

I love it! In the same boat... don't you think OHIP should pay seniors to travel to southern destinations in the winter, where we can live healthy, away from the perils of ice & snow and walk beaches for exercise? Oh, and maybe do an occasional FMTY with a lady whose company we particularly enjoy...great for our mental health as well! Walk the beach instead of 'run the river'.