... seeing how disrespectful some men on this board are they have zero respect for sex workers yet they want them pfft
How much respect do you have for a vacuum cleaner ? Respect has no relationship to your daily interaction with people, actions or objects - it's just personal preferences.
You don't want to live your life for other people's values, prejudices, etc. A lot of them are assholes and know it. They just crave at any reason - real or imagined - that would put their miserable life above someone else.
I'm not impressed by titles, where you work or how much you make. I grade you by your character. As for other's peoples impression of me - I'd rather be underestimated instead of overestimated.
As far as some of the customers that show zero respect - it's not uncommon to resent what you can't have.