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Outcalls vs. Incalls

alexmst

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I was going to say the same thing....it's not a good idea. One time when I was having an incall at the airport a client called me a couple of hours before our date and asked me for the room number. I told him I would give it to him when he arrived but he said because he didn't have a cell phone it would be easier if I gave it to him then. So I did and he knocked on the door about 25 mins. before our appt. time. Fortunately the previous client had left but I was not at all ready. The room was a bit of a mess, I hadn't showered or fixed my makeup etc. I will not make that mistake again.

5 or 10 mins. is not unreasonable but just be sure not to knock on the SP's door before the scheduled time. We need time to prepare the room, etc. I've also given the guy the room number about 10 or 15 mins. before the scheduled time but said that I wasn't ready yet. Then they knocked on the door 5 minutes later. If you show up early you should respect the fact that the lady may still be getting ready. I mostly do outcall and if I am early I would never think of knocking on the door without first calling and asking if it's okay.
I agree that some people abuse the getting of the info early and that there is no easy fix. I just like the info a few minutes before the appointment so I can write it down while in my car then park and walk in the building without waiting outside the street entrance for a callback in less than ideal weather. I would never go to the room before the set time.

Best solution is for the agency to answer the phone right away and just giver the info. With one agency I use this does happen like clockwork 80% of the time...but with another they say "We'll check with the SP and call you back" NOOOOO! Then 10 to 15 minutes goes by before the callback. Sometimes the appointment isn't readty to go at the set time. One time (nice spring day out) I had to wait 40 minutes out front, but I sat on a bench. In winter this wait would have not been acceptable.

Anyway, outcalls to the house (for the single client) are good as if they are 30 minutes late (it has happened) then no big deal. As for not ringing the doorbell before the time, yes, I never had an outcall SP do that - though if early the driver usually parks in my driveway and they sit in the car until the set time - once they sat there 20 minutes.

Most funny outcall moments - once the driver spent the hour session parked in my driveway drinking beer and tossing the empty cans out the window onto my lawn. Another time the driver left to do other things, and when my session was over and the SP called him to come he was no where to be found. So she and I had a drinks and talked for an extra 90 minutes (not on my dime of course) until the driver appeared to pick her up. He had gone to a friend's house and left his cell in the car and lost track of time apparantly). I am happy to say I have never had an crazy SP visit my house in the GTA - they all were sane and professional.
 

alexmst

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This must have been very upsetting to the porch people who witnessed the entire episode.
The houses where I live have big backyards with patios and swimming pools. The porch people around here have migrated to the backyards so there are no porch people out front, only patio people out back. Trouble is they sometimes listen to loud music which is annoying as hell if one decides to use one's backyard. On the positive side, the trees and large lots result in not being able to see the patio people in their yards, but one still hears them via their music. Fortunately my next door neighbor uses headphones when sitting in his backyard.
 

NorthernBear

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I had my first outcall this past weekend. Normally I do incalls because I live outside of town but I stayed in a hotel downtown Friday night so I thought I might try it. What clinched the deal was when I was bumped up to Executive Class and was given a gorgeous room on the top floor overlooking the city. The fact that I was able to shower and sit back and relax while I waited for the girl to come to me made the decision even better.

The session with the girl was nothing spectacular but I think I was just tired.. it was almost 5am by the time she left. I plan on staying downtown again soon but this time Iwill enlist the services of an agency and also make sure I am better rested for my experience. The extra money is well worth it if you have the choice of outcall vs incall.
 

freestuff

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By a whole $20. Less than 10%.
Isn't it usually $50?
Anyway, IMHO, outcalls make sense for guys out of town who will get a hotel room and incalls for guys who live in the city or can't/don't want to invite a SP back to their dwelling.
 

Rockslinger

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I had my first outcall this past weekend. Normally I do incalls because I live outside of town but I stayed in a hotel downtown Friday night so I thought I might try it.
I heard that some SP's hate going to hotel rooms because they don't know who is behind the door. Can you imagine if UNCLE FRED opens the door? Hee, hee, hee.
 

someone

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The only time I have ever done outcalls is when I’m travelling and saying in a hotel. I’ve never felt comfortable the idea of a stranger knowing where I live. I realize most SPs on this board are honest. However, most and all are not the same thing. I don’t want to have to worry any of my valuables or someone knowing where I live. Although they usually want unblocked numbers for incalls, with an unlisted number, that does not tell them where I actually live.
 

tf57

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Guys

Looking for some input here. Ive been hobbying for a short time (first encounter was about 3 years ago in vegas). I have mainly stuck to incalls here in Toronto (too busy/tired/scared of outcalls while on business in the states) and while I love Toronto incalls (when i can get to them early afternoon before the "rush"), I have never tried an outcall (basically limited to TP and a few indy's on my TDL).

I am a bit hesitant to go the outcall route as I'm just not totally sure if the experience measures up to incalls. Are the girls as "in" to it if they are in a new environment? Any thoughts? Love to get some input.

Thanks
I have had nothing but great experiences with outcalls to my condo. If the lady feels comfortable at your place, and you treat her like a special guest, you will have a wonderful time with her. The key, IMO, is to make her feel welcome and relaxed in your home. It also helps to do your research on TERB as well.
 

massman

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Outcall to my nice hotel>> incall to (nice hotel) > incall to decent condo > incall to average condo > incall to cheap hotel >>>> incall to crackhouse >>>>>>>>>> outcall to my house. What can i say, im a private guy, and dont shit (or have sex with strangers for money) where i sleep.
 

freestuff

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Outcall to my nice hotel>> incall to (nice hotel) > incall to decent condo > incall to average condo > incall to cheap hotel >>>> incall to crackhouse >>>>>>>>>> outcall to my house. What can i say, im a private guy, and dont shit (or have sex with strangers for money) where i sleep.
So you'd rather go to an incall at a crackhouse then have the girl come to your house? So you value your privacy over your life. Interesting. If I had a choice, I'd rather have an outcall at my place then take a chance at getting killed or arrested at a crackhouse (privacy at that point is a moot issue).
 
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