They were indeed consulted. They decided not to participate , and their reasons were pure bigotry.
And your claim that they were "fucked over"is inherently offensive. You are saying that it was unfair to prevent them from subjugating Jews, denying them their right to self determination, and imposing an Islamic state on them. Sorry but that's fucked. You are just propagating f offensive idea that Palestinians have some right to subjugate Jews. They don't. Israel didn't need their permission to come into being.