On being fat and über hot sps?

[blueman]

Hey guys,

I`m about 80 pounds overweight. I`ve been with some Bbw Sps (and they are great). However, I would like to try some model types as part of a bucket list.

My question is, should I wait until I`m in good shape or should I just go ahead and do it?

I want to have the most positive experience and get the most mileage out of YMMV.

This came up when talking to a sp and she said "honey, we don`t care we are professionals", which may be true up to a point. It would be hard not to be self conscious though and I don`t want to be someone`s "oh great!" moment (imagine large man on 120lb woman).

For making a session better obviously man-scaping, hygiene and just being nice are important considerations as well.

Thanks

Hate to break it to you blueman, some of us BBWs are Smoking Hot. Being one does not exclude being the other.

If you follow this thread from the beginning (and I have to believe you did) you`ll see i was speaking in the context as laid out by jmsrolland. This thread is not about you (or me) it`s about him.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I encourage you to call the hottest SP you can find (after checking her reviews here) EVERY TIME.

You are a paying customer and you come across as a sincere nice guy. Unless you specifically want bbw fill your bucket with hotties!

lol I am not making this about 'me' blue and I apologize if my comment came across that way. I was specifically referring to the comment highlighted above.

 

[blueman]

lol I am not making this about 'me' blue and I apologize if my comment came across that way. I was specifically referring to the comment highlighted above.

I did not misunderstand your post.

You have decided to point out what I wrote re bbw. I am saying (again) the reference is only made within the context of the original post. The original post says that he has spent time with bbw sp's and now would like to experience an "über hot sp". Therefore one can infer that to him a bbw is not an "über hot sp."

Do we really need to continue this?

 

[katcalla]

When you booking, let the SP know why you are concerned. Be honest with her and hopefully she will be honest with you. Tell her that you will understand if she is uncomfortable about seeing you, that you will understand.
We want SP's to be honest with us, it doesn't hurt to be honest enough to give them a choice. I bet, most SP's will be accepting and will appreciate your honesty.

I agree with the above said. I have seen a client once who was wheelchair bound, and I know other SPs who did as well, so from my standpoint, it's how you treat me that will determine whether I will see you and how our session will go. Be honest, clean, respectful and have a sense of humour and we will do our best to make you happy!

 

[Ceiling Cat]

I am overweight also albeit not 80 pounds but some sexual positions are rather difficult or next to impossible.

Petzel, you lied. You told us you look like this.

 

[Prophet]

Sometimes body type is not as much of an issue as people imagine.

Guaranteed there are women out there in the industry who like a bigger guy.

I'm definitely not overweight, just the middle aged packet on my gut, and even with that I sometimes feel I could be hotter. But most every SP I see is just happy that I'm polite and low maintenance when it comes time to pay.

 

[HOF]

Hate to break it to you blueman, some of us BBWs are Smoking Hot. Being one does not exclude being the other.

Yes, you are!

 

[roblestone]

If you were young, fit, good looking, and had money, why would you ever need to see a SP? If you like asian women try one of them. In my experience they find fat guys attractive. Also if you can wear a suit, that helps. Think of yourself as a big panda.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I did not misunderstand your post.

You have decided to point out what I wrote re bbw. I am saying (again) the reference is only made within the context of the original post. The original post says that he has spent time with bbw sp's and now would like to experience an "über hot sp". Therefore one can infer that to him a bbw is not an "über hot sp."

Do we really need to continue this?

It seems I have offended you. It was not my intention. I apologize.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Yes, you are!

Thank you HOF.
I did not actually make the comment on my own behalf but I appreciate the compliment.

 

[djk]

if you were young, fit, good looking, and had money, why would you ever need to see a sp? If you like asian women try one of them. In my experience they find fat guys attractive. Also if you can wear a suit, that helps. Think of yourself as a big panda.

lol.

 

[ig-88]

If you were young, fit, good looking, and had money, why would you ever need to see a SP? If you like asian women try one of them. In my experience they find fat guys attractive. Also if you can wear a suit, that helps. Think of yourself as a big panda.

i've heard of clients who were hot, rich, etc. ... guys poon for all kinds of reasons

maybe their GF won't put out; maybe they lack social skills; who knows ...

 

[harryass]

Hey guys,

I'm about 80 pounds overweight. I've been with some Bbw Sps (and they are great). However, I would like to try some model types as part of a bucket list.

My question is, should I wait until I'm in good shape or should I just go ahead and do it?

I want to have the most positive experience and get the most mileage out of YMMV.

This came up when talking to a sp and she said "honey, we don't care we are professionals", which may be true up to a point. It would be hard not to be self conscious though and I don't want to be someone's "oh great!" moment (imagine large man on 120lb woman).

For making a session better obviously man-scaping, hygiene and just being nice are important considerations as well.

Thanks

dude don't wait just go book an appt with a SP. If yur a gent thats more important.

many in their own tiny small minds think?? they look good-lookin are demanding jerks anyhows.

 

[legmann]

If you were young, fit, good looking, and had money, why would you ever need to see a SP?

Not to sidetrack the thread, but being all of the above doesn't preclude any of us from choosing to see an SP because we want to.

 

[jmsrolland]

If I was a young, rich, ripped and single Doctor-type all I would see would be SP's and girls who were cool with it.

Thanks for the advice guys, I think I am going to wait till I get in better shape, I am just not comfortable in my own skin regardless, probably 40 pounds I will more mentally in the game.

 

[shack]

I think I am going to wait till I get in better shape, I am just not comfortable in my own skin regardless,

Perfect approach. If you're not comfortable, and you are the only one who can be a judge of that, don't do it as it will probably impact your session.

Having said that, I wouldn't necessarily set a weight goal. Just do it when you are comfortable doing it, whether it's at 40 or 20 or 80 pounds. You won't know what that weight is until you get there and feel good enough about yourself. Or if you get horny as hell and you don't care what your weight is.

 

[frankcastle]

Hey guys,

I'm about 80 pounds overweight. I've been with some Bbw Sps (and they are great). However, I would like to try some model types as part of a bucket list.

My question is, should I wait until I'm in good shape or should I just go ahead and do it?

I want to have the most positive experience and get the most mileage out of YMMV.

This came up when talking to a sp and she said "honey, we don't care we are professionals", which may be true up to a point. It would be hard not to be self conscious though and I don't want to be someone's "oh great!" moment (imagine large man on 120lb woman).

For making a session better obviously man-scaping, hygiene and just being nice are important considerations as well.

Thanks

Honestly you are on the right track with the last sentence.

If you are concerned about large man on 120 lb woman why not let her get on top or get behind her? Or what's your stance on bjs? Personally with her on top or giving you a bj you get to sit back and enjoy the show plus take in her beauty.

Or be up front and say I'm concerned about getting on top and not wanting to hurt you what's best for you? She'll appreciate that and probably work to find a good compromise.

Relax these girls have seen guys of all shapes and sizes and you are probably not out of the ordinary.

But I guess you should feel comfortable and ready before you go for it.

I will say that most of the problem you are describing is just in your head. These women are professionals and it's not exactly their first time.

Would you feel more at ease picking an indy where you could speak or pm her to give her the heads up and ask if it's a problem for her?

I don't have much dealings with SPs so can't recommend any indys. Of the outcalls I know the owner/manager Jillian is a really cool lady and if you talked to her she would probably know which of her hotties would be cool with your weight. I'm sure there are other good people to talk to this just happens to be the only one that I know.

 

[jmsrolland]

Thanks Shack and Castle. Yeah, I have emailed one Indy about it and she was cool but it never went down due to scheduling.

 

[gypsy]

Hey guys,

I'm about 80 pounds overweight. I've been with some Bbw Sps (and they are great). However, I would like to try some model types as part of a bucket list.

My question is, should I wait until I'm in good shape or should I just go ahead and do it?

I want to have the most positive experience and get the most mileage out of YMMV.

This came up when talking to a sp and she said "honey, we don't care we are professionals", which may be true up to a point. It would be hard not to be self conscious though and I don't want to be someone's "oh great!" moment (imagine large man on 120lb woman).

For making a session better obviously man-scaping, hygiene and just being nice are important considerations as well.

Thanks

You are paying for sex. The only thing that matters is the color of your money. They just want to get paid! I wouldn't stress out about it.

 

[bandit2238]

I'm an onerweight guy and have had no problem seeing SP's that are Spinner's - i'm always up front with them in case i'm not there type.