On being fat and über hot sps?

[jmsrolland]

Hey guys,

I'm about 80 pounds overweight. I've been with some Bbw Sps (and they are great). However, I would like to try some model types as part of a bucket list.

My question is, should I wait until I'm in good shape or should I just go ahead and do it?

I want to have the most positive experience and get the most mileage out of YMMV.

This came up when talking to a sp and she said "honey, we don't care we are professionals", which may be true up to a point. It would be hard not to be self conscious though and I don't want to be someone's "oh great!" moment (imagine large man on 120lb woman).

For making a session better obviously man-scaping, hygiene and just being nice are important considerations as well.

Thanks

 

[K Douglas]

As far as I'm concerned SP's (including the HDH) would much prefer a nice clean respectful gentleman who is overweight far more than a great looking guy who is a conceited asshole. After all our money is all the same colour.

 

[Frosty]

Losing weight may take a long time and some SPs you might want to see may drop out or are only in it for a short period. You may lose out.
Just be yourself and have a good time. Nice and clean and have the green.

Don't get me wrong. Despite what some people say, there are SPs that are turn off by appearance but I find it's actually a very small percentage.

 

[blueman]

I encourage you to call the hottest SP you can find (after checking her reviews here) EVERY TIME.

You are a paying customer and you come across as a sincere nice guy. Unless you specifically want bbw fill your bucket with hotties!

 

[Petzel]

I am overweight also albeit not 80 pounds but some sexual positions are rather difficult or next to impossible.

 

[jmsrolland]

Losing weight may take a long time and some SPs you might want to see may drop out or are only in it for a short period. You may lose out.
Just be yourself and have a good time.

This is a great point, it has happend a few times already.

Appreciate the advice guys.

 

[simon482]

i am a big dude and over weight. i was going for a phsyio massage at this rehab place. i took off my shirt and laid down (kept my pants on, it was legit) and waited. heard the chick come walking in and she said in a very clear but quiet voice "of fucking great, another fat one"

 

[neverwas]

When you booking, let the SP know why you are concerned. Be honest with her and hopefully she will be honest with you. Tell her that you will understand if she is uncomfortable about seeing you, that you will understand.
We want SP's to be honest with us, it doesn't hurt to be honest enough to give them a choice. I bet, most SP's will be accepting and will appreciate your honesty.

 

[Ladyraven]

As far as I'm concerned SP's (including the HDH) would much prefer a nice clean respectful gentleman who is overweight far more than a great looking guy who is a conceited asshole. After all our money is all the same colour.

that is very true ...

 

[NorthernBear]

If it weren't for us chubby fellas, massage parlours would not be in business. K Douglas is right on the mark. Be respectful and courteous to the girl and she will always look forward to seeing you again.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

When you booking, let the SP know why you are concerned. Be honest with her and hopefully she will be honest with you. Tell her that you will understand if she is uncomfortable about seeing you, that you will understand.
We want SP's to be honest with us, it doesn't hurt to be honest enough to give them a choice. I bet, most SP's will be accepting and will appreciate your honesty.

Excellent advice. Some of the younger 'hotties' are more, umm, particular about who they see not that there is anything wrong with that. Some dont like brown guys, some don't like black guys, some don't like big guys. Choose your SP wisely and based on solid reviews then as was recommended above, ask her if she has any issues with a BHM. This way you are sure to have a thoroughly enjoyable experience.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I encourage you to call the hottest SP you can find (after checking her reviews here) EVERY TIME.

You are a paying customer and you come across as a sincere nice guy. Unless you specifically want bbw fill your bucket with hotties!

Hate to break it to you blueman, some of us BBWs are Smoking Hot. Being one does not exclude being the other.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

i am a big dude and over weight. i was going for a phsyio massage at this rehab place. i took off my shirt and laid down (kept my pants on, it was legit) and waited. heard the chick come walking in and she said in a very clear but quiet voice "of fucking great, another fat one"

I hope you complained to the manager, that is incredibly unprofessional as well as rude as fuck. >:< You can lose weight honey, she will never lose nasty bitch. HUG!!!!!

 

[djk]

As far as I'm concerned SP's (including the HDH) would much prefer a nice clean respectful gentleman who is overweight far more than a great looking guy who is a conceited asshole. After all our money is all the same colour.

Correct. And clients of that background tend to be more lucrative, too.

 

[simon482]

I hope you complained to the manager, that is incredibly unprofessional as well as rude as fuck. >:< You can lose weight honey, she will never lose nasty bitch. HUG!!!!!

i went the asshole route. she pushed on my lower back and i farted lol

 

[Working Girl]

Hey guys,

I'm about 80 pounds overweight. I've been with some Bbw Sps (and they are great). However, I would like to try some model types as part of a bucket list.

My question is, should I wait until I'm in good shape or should I just go ahead and do it?

I want to have the most positive experience and get the most mileage out of YMMV.

This came up when talking to a sp and she said "honey, we don't care we are professionals", which may be true up to a point. It would be hard not to be self conscious though and I don't want to be someone's "oh great!" moment (imagine large man on 120lb woman).

For making a session better obviously man-scaping, hygiene and just being nice are important considerations as well.

Thanks

Perhaps you will enjoy the session more if you lose some weight. Seeing an SP on your bucket list could be your reward for losing 30 lbs, 50 lbs, 65 lbs and then 80 lbs.

 

[koreanenvy]

i went the asshole route. she pushed on my lower back and i farted lol

hahahaha LMFAO!

 

[djk]

Perhaps you will enjoy the session more if you lose some weight. Seeing an SP on your bucket list could be your reward for losing 30 lbs, 50 lbs, 65 lbs and then 80 lbs.

I have to agree.

I used to be overweight. Now I'm almost at my goal, still a little chunky. Anyways, since I've been doing regular cardio, my sex drive has went way up and my orgasms are much more intense and enjoyable. Supposedly, its due to increased testosterone product as a result of the exercise.

 

[jmsrolland]

Perhaps you will enjoy the session more if you lose some weight. Seeing an SP on your bucket list could be your reward for losing 30 lbs, 50 lbs, 65 lbs and then 80 lbs.

I have tried this mental trick, I doesnt seem to work that well. I lost 70lbs over the year and recently put back on 20, I was "rewarding" myself along the way but I dont think that was the motivation, to lose weight you need a real first under your ass, which I had. Thanks though.

 

[jmsrolland]

i am a big dude and over weight. i was going for a phsyio massage at this rehab place. i took off my shirt and laid down (kept my pants on, it was legit) and waited. heard the chick come walking in and she said in a very clear but quiet voice "of fucking great, another fat one"

AKWARD. We all think these thoughts but most of us aren't dumb enough to express them out loud.

Me getting with a hot sp could have a positive effect on her though, she could end up reexamining her life and go back to school.