older guy erectile dysfunction question

[wilbur]

The problem can be solved without these, although I keep spare Cialis in my glove box just in case. Going to a medical doctor when I first started having ED issues proved to be a colossal waste of time. The only thing these fucking idiots know is how to prescribe stuff within a 10 minute consult, then you're out the door and the next patient is in so they can make money.

So I looked into the issue myself. The recommendations I came across were to increase cholesterol and increase intake of Zinc Orotate. About a month after taking both daily, and having a stick of butter everyday, the ED problems were rarely occurring anymore. Anyway, it seems to have worked for me. Perhaps that won't work for everyone, but I'm happy to share what worked for me.

Be careful with zinc. Put me in atrial fibrillation for an hour once.

Get your cholesterol checked before eating a stick of butter every day. If it's high, or you already take statins, you don't need to add that to your diet.

Cialis is the wonder drug. Apart from making you perform like a 30 year old, it will lower your blood pressure if you take the daily dose of 2.5 or 5 mg.

 

[multimedia]

The physical is real. But mental is really real real. I've discovered this first hand recently. Just alot less interest, excitement due to personal developments at home. it takes a certain imagination to just make it rise strong and tall as before, but deep at the core, just lost it.

Now, a year ago, I was running alot, eating well, and wow, just physically it was there.

Another thing I noticed is, I used to wear more briefs. Tighter ones, and they were good for just general stimulation. basically I would actually get more hard randomly. But switching to loose briefs, it doesn't get stimulated as much and thus I feel like I have nothing down there, including when trying to get hard nowadays.

 

[Richard.TO]

Like the op I’m also a cyclist but I don’t ride in the winter and I have the same problem after a ride.
I have noticed a big improvement in my performance in the bedroom when I’m not riding.
I think sitting on a bike seat is putting pressure on your undercarriage.
I also heard that high intensity cardio lowers your testosterone levels and weight training increases it.
Try staying off the bike for a few weeks before you see your mpa or sp.

I'm also a serious cyclist (ride about 6,000 km/year), I've very rarely had any issues not finishing. I think there has only been two times when I didn't and I attribute it mostly due to nerves being first time with a new Sp. The second and subsequent times are always better for me. If I know I'm seeing an Sp, I just do not masturbate for a week before; I find this really increases my desire for intimacy. I'm also very health conscious. I agree that being with an Sp you are attracted to both physically and mentally is key.

 

[rc4real]

In my experience, a fully functional cock is the cherry on top.

By that I mean that everything else in your life has to be within normal operating parameters and then and only then will you get the boner you need.

You need to be in good health.
You need a clear head (the big head).
You need to be well rested, or at least not tired.
No head ache
No nagging ache or pain.
You need the right blood pressure, sugar level, etc.
You can't be depresssed
You can't have financial woes, or just ate something that didn't agree with you.
You can't be thinking about life's troubles, bank accounts, a dickhead boss, an unrealistic or demanding client, the wife, the kids, the bills, the car in the shop, dealing with Bell Canada.

Anything physically or mentally drags you down, the first thing that throws in the towel is your cock. It's like the perfect indicator that all is well, or something is not quite right. And when things aren't right, it won't co-operate and you're going to be flaccid.

And yeah, getting older, the testosterone levels drop and with them goes the libido.

Good stuff man. I second this.

I've been up and down in this department lately and what you said really hit home for me. I'm an injured athlete dealing with daily chronic pain and depression due to this pain and not being able to train/practice my passion.

So yeah, intimacy has definitely suffered as result. I'll be getting surgery soon to fix the underlying issue of my pain and I'm confident once the pain subsides, the depression will too and I will be able to return to what I love doing, and thus good ol Willy will make a comeback.

 

[Kev88]

A lot of what I'm reading here resonates with me. I'm about 60 and have to admit to a porn addiction. It was reaching a point of affecting my performance with women. I seriously doubt I could go cold-turkey, so I forged a compromise with myself: I only look at it on days that I'm about to have sex. The calculus is that I absolutely love blow jobs but for unexplainable reasons, it's hard for me to cum without prepping. With a little (okay, a lot) bit of CIM porn, I get off pretty easily with the real thing.

For PIV, I can stay hard enough without Viagra and reliably finish; but for CIM I am extra-cautious and prep with porn and take a 25mg Viagra. (If I anticipate a problem, or if I'm paying for it and don't want to take a chance of failing, then I'll go with 50mg.)

Another thought: I'm typically 3-4 days between experiences and the above regimen works. However, I'm planning a marathon week in the GTA this June or July where I'll be trying for once-a-day with a variety of SP's. I expect the variety will help, but the frequency will hurt, my performance. I'm curious what the results will be. If this thread is still going, I'll report back.

 

[Toxic1979]

Tried Viagra once to see what the hype was all about. Never again. horrible heart burn feeling for a few days, insanely congested, and completely random hard ons through out the day. I was walking through the eatons centre, and he decided to wake up for no reason.... and I wasn't checking any women at the time. As for erections.. yup it works.... but way too many negative sides for me.

I dropped a few pounds, don't drink as much (not that I drank much anyway) and kept active. Helped a lot.

Like Captain Kirk said.... being stressed, or occupied outside the moment def does not help.

 

[Richard.TO]

Tried Viagra once to see what the hype was all about. Never again. horrible heart burn feeling for a few days, insanely congested, and completely random hard ons through out the day. I was walking through the eatons centre, and he decided to wake up for no reason.... and I wasn't checking any women at the time. As for erections.. yup it works.... but way too many negative sides for me.

I dropped a few pounds, don't drink as much (not that I drank much anyway) and kept active. Helped a lot.

Like Captain Kirk said.... being stressed, or occupied outside the moment def does not help.

I haven’t tried V or C, and hopefully it will be a long time before I need to. I was wonderin* what th3 possible side effects might be. I’m in my 60’s and don’t have any issues getting it up (touch wood, no pun intended). However, I find I do have issues if the condom is not sensitive enough.

 

[Toxic1979]

I didn't need to take it either, but I have coworker that hobbies and he takes them and I was curious so he let me have one of his....

Like I said the erection bit worked fine.

For about 2-3 days afterward I felt very congested, like I had head cold. Sleeping that evening was terrible because the congestion gave me a horrible headache. I also felt as though I had heart burn for about 2 days. And I would get random erection for about 2 days or so. The heart burn and the congestion were enough for me not to take it again until I need to!

 

[foru2discover]

Hey peeps
I'm 57 and I started hobbying last year to see if I still function down there. The truth is that years of porn and self gratification in a frigid marriage has messed with my responses.
Here are my experiences to date. Do they make sense?

1 year ago -

• Connected with a private MP in her condo near Lansdowne and Dupont. She was very kind and gave a decent massage but she was quite chubby. I couldn't get off. i barely got hard. I accepted responsibility and told her it was nerves etc. I then lurked for a year reading backpage and Terb forums and thinking about it
• December met Lilly at Lin Spa. Her enthusiasm, her technique her good vibes - I wasn't as stiff as I would have liked but she was great with her mouth and then different positions. Got off - had a great time.
• Back at Lin Spa - met Kelly - great horny session to completion. Thank you Kelly!
• Then U-Spa - met an older slim trim Thai woman. God she was nice but it didn't happen. She may have been too nice. not particularly sexy. And older. Like could have been fifty. Very trim fifty.

So my batting average is only two out of five. Is it all me? Is it that I need slim women who appeal to me more - or in other words - should I be able to get off with any female?

At 57 I am not a fatty but I don't do sports and I ride my bike to work and walk up five flights many times. Do i need testosterone injections?

How do I get the strength back in the tool? Is it me? Can I improve my situation?

I don't expect a doctors diagnosis but if anyone has relevant experience I would appreciate knowing about it.

Lastly - I don't like going to a condo or for a massage and they are hiding their age and weight behind the door. Where can I find some truly slim trim korean MP or FS Providers. Help!

Older Man After Sweet Korean (OMASK)

Sounds like you need to give in at your age ..many guys take the blue bomber ....the blue pill the BigV
and see one of the hot Korean girls at Moonwaiting , Barbie house or ASB

 

[foru2discover]

I didn't need to take it either, but I have coworker that hobbies and he takes them and I was curious so he let me have one of his....

Like I said the erection bit worked fine.

For about 2-3 days afterward I felt very congested, like I had head cold. Sleeping that evening was terrible because the congestion gave me a horrible headache. I also felt as though I had heart burn for about 2 days. And I would get random erection for about 2 days or so. The heart burn and the congestion were enough for me not to take it again until I need to!

Side effects can suck.........you need to take a strong anti acid before and for a few days after .....also pop some tylenon for the headache and some saline nasal spray

 

[Westender]

OK... as been stated before... it is a PRESCRIPTION drug


You need to consult with him or her (your physician) to determine optimal dose... take a 100 mg tablet when you need 25 mg is asking for trouble.

My doctor told me to start with 25, but she prescribed me 100's - get a pill splitter -

4* 100 mg is about 100 bucks

4 - 25 mg is about 85

see the savings

but when it comes to taking them, bigger (dose) isn't better

 

[ricardomilos]

I think that most of your problems are in your head. When you are nervous and afraid of talking with girls all this stress laying on your men`s power. How about to do next: before you would use synthetic pill try to order cbd gummies online and try to use them just to relax body and mind. I promise you would see results in a few days - you would be more confident.

 

[wilbur]

Why take Viagra when Cialis keeps you going for a good 2 days?

I take the daily dose, and I feel like I'm 30 again, which is a long time ago. I basically get it up when I want to with normal stimulus.
Yes, I do have a side-effect: it lowers my blood pressure to near normal levels. Apart from that, there are no negative ones for me.

The negative thing about it, is that the daily does costs about $1300 a year, if your insurance doesn't pay for it.

 

[oil&gas]

Other than seeing the family physician is there an easy
way to obtain Cialis? I guess I can always buy it online. I am
just not sure how reliable that is.

 

[oil&gas]

The negative thing about it, is that the daily does costs about $1300 a year, if your insurance doesn't pay for it.

If you excuse my curiosity do I need to take it daily
to have sex only once a week? If I take it daily
can I survive 6 or 7 times a week at an age that
requires the drug to get a woody?

 

[cowslinger]

I am about to turn 55, and also take meds for my Type 2 diabetes. I take Tadalafil (Cialis generic) 5mg daily.. it's as much for BPH as ED, but I am sure I get the benefits of it. I also have been taking this for a couple of months which seems to help my physical well being as well as with erections.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007G435ZU/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I'd give that shot to go along with the other changes you've made.

 

[Kev88]

If you excuse my curiosity do I need to take it daily
to have sex only once a week?

Ditto this question. It'd be great if I could take it sporadically. For instance, daily if I'm on an SP bonanza while visiting GTA for a week.

EDIT: I found this statement on WebMD which seems to answer my question. "To treat erectile dysfunction- there are 2 ways that tadalafil may be prescribed. ...The first way is to take it as needed, usually at least 30 minutes before sexual activity. Tadalafil's effect on sexual ability may last up to 36 hours. The second way to treat ED is to take tadalafil regularly, once a day every day. "

I'm still curious how gents here use it.

 

[wilbur]

If you excuse my curiosity do I need to take it daily
to have sex only once a week? If I take it daily
can I survive 6 or 7 times a week at an age that
requires the drug to get a woody?

It helps a lot for BPH. Taking it daily is also good for reducing hypertension. In fact, my GP told me that Tadalafil (Cialis) is the only drug that works in reducing high blood pressure for one of his patients. It's a vasodilator, and I think it's good for the circulatory system as a whole.

Cialis does not in itself provoke an erection. You need separate stimulus for that. It just makes it easier to get one. Newly found confidence is also a factor in maintaining an erection.

If you don't have BPH, or hypertension, then there's no real need to spend $1300 per year for a 2.5 or 5mg daily dose. 10mg should be enough for the week-end.... but everybody is different.

It's much cheaper to buy 20mg tablets and split them in 2 or 4, rather than buying 10 or 5mg tablets.

Cialis (Tadalafil) is available only on prescription. But it's not difficult to get a GP to prescribe it.

 

[Smallcock]

I use Cialis but dislike the headaches it often produces.

 

[wilbur]

I use Cialis but dislike the headaches it often produces.

How many times have you used it, and what dosage?

I had some headaches during the first week, but none ever since I use a reduced daily dose.