Older guy? You're 57!
You are a mere child.
Many years of happy hobbying await.
Get with the program.
You are a mere child.
Many years of happy hobbying await.
Get with the program.
older guy erectile dysfunction question
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Tell me something.....
You fuck many times a day ... .day in and day out... are you desensitized? Are you able to "get off" any more? Are you addicted to sex? Does it affect your intimacy with a sincere love interest?
I too have been around escorts for many years ... and have noticed common threads. Many are numb to the act... disconnected....viewing intercourse as a pain in the ass job. Full of resentment and disdain.
The sex act becomes distorted, a simple monetary exchange rather than what it was intended for.
What are your thoughts?
I can relate to this thread. My experiences with SPs have been subpar of late, and the SP is often not at fault. Likely because of porn and specific fetishes (likely developed from watching porn), I have a hard time staying aroused much less having an orgasm. My porn preference is petite/slender women in lingerie (stockings/stilettos/garters). It has wired me where that is what I need to really get aroused. When I look for an SP, I see if she has that body type and always make a specific lingerie request. Without it, it is hard for me to be fully aroused for the session. Even if they do fit the bill, sometimes I still have issues if they lingerie request is slightly off or they don't have the right heels (etc). It has affected me mentally where even when the scenario does match and I am aroused, I sometimes stress myself too much on trying to stay aroused that I focus more on that then just enjoying the session.
I do usually tell the SP about my issues so they don't feel like they are not doing a good job. I've gotten to the point that I will upfront tell them about it and that intercourse/SOG is not a priority for me as much as just some intimate time. The vast majority have been quite sympathetic and even if I can't get off, we still have an enjoyable time just chatting or whatever. But yeah I recognize that it is an issue and I likely have to kick my porn habit to get over it. I have minimized my viewing of porn but I probably need to cut it out completely and maybe get some therapy on top of it.
In my experience, a fully functional cock is the cherry on top.
By that I mean that everything else in your life has to be within normal operating parameters and then and only then will you get the boner you need.
You need to be in good health.
You need a clear head (the big head).
You need to be well rested, or at least not tired.
No head ache
No nagging ache or pain.
You need the right blood pressure, sugar level, etc.
You can't be depresssed
You can't have financial woes, or just ate something that didn't agree with you.
You can't be thinking about life's troubles, bank accounts, a dickhead boss, an unrealistic or demanding client, the wife, the kids, the bills, the car in the shop, dealing with Bell Canada.
Anything physically or mentally drags you down, the first thing that throws in the towel is your cock. It's like the perfect indicator that all is well, or something is not quite right. And when things aren't right, it won't co-operate and you're going to be flaccid.
And yeah, getting older, the testosterone levels drop and with them goes the libido.
By that I mean that everything else in your life has to be within normal operating parameters and then and only then will you get the boner you need.
You need to be in good health.
You need a clear head (the big head).
You need to be well rested, or at least not tired.
No head ache
No nagging ache or pain.
You need the right blood pressure, sugar level, etc.
You can't be depresssed
You can't have financial woes, or just ate something that didn't agree with you.
You can't be thinking about life's troubles, bank accounts, a dickhead boss, an unrealistic or demanding client, the wife, the kids, the bills, the car in the shop, dealing with Bell Canada.
Anything physically or mentally drags you down, the first thing that throws in the towel is your cock. It's like the perfect indicator that all is well, or something is not quite right. And when things aren't right, it won't co-operate and you're going to be flaccid.
And yeah, getting older, the testosterone levels drop and with them goes the libido.
Amazing thread. Thanks again. It all makes sense and I am having some successes. I think this will help some guys - thanks for all the answers. It's helped me.
Cheers
And a particular thank you the Charlotte Edwards. Really appreciate your input.
Cheers
And a particular thank you the Charlotte Edwards. Really appreciate your input.
At 57 you may have reduced levels of testosterone which can decrease the quality of erections. Happens to most men when they age. A simple blood test to check - can't hurt and there are easy fixes if that's the problem.
Like the op I’m also a cyclist but I don’t ride in the winter and I have the same problem after a ride.
I have noticed a big improvement in my performance in the bedroom when I’m not riding.
I think sitting on a bike seat is putting pressure on your undercarriage.
I also heard that high intensity cardio lowers your testosterone levels and weight training increases it.
Try staying off the bike for a few weeks before you see your mpa or sp.
I have noticed a big improvement in my performance in the bedroom when I’m not riding.
I think sitting on a bike seat is putting pressure on your undercarriage.
I also heard that high intensity cardio lowers your testosterone levels and weight training increases it.
Try staying off the bike for a few weeks before you see your mpa or sp.
All sorts of possible reasons: Lots of cardio could redirect blood flow to the central core or large muscles leaving less blood to go you-know-where. Or it could be simple fatigue after an intense work out. You're not going to get going sexually if you're physically drained.
surprised you still do that. lots of evidence that perineum crushing bicycle seats do damage. try thishttps://spongywonder.com/products/
Totally agree with the porn and masturbation. Unfortunately, I was one of them. Either getting nervous or too cheap to see a escort, I would result in masturbation. At least once a day. My body got totally used to it, after awhile, I didn't feel the great sensation at climax and I would see my pretty good cum shots decrease to dripples. I stopped for a while, and it went back to normal. No masturbation everyday and see escorts once a week or two.
Everything gets more and sadder when you grow older and potency is not an exception, you lose your strength but you don`t want to be out of business, not at all! So what about the best stuff for improving one`s sexual life, has anybody used anything? What`s your opinion? I thought about cialis australia for it is considered to be one of the best means for maintaining one`s potency and should I trust the Internet so blindly? Need advice here guys!
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As many mentioned, this is normal as you get older. ED pills can help but just so you are aware they do not guarantee success. They will help IF you are sufficiently stimulated. Many of the other factors mentioned play into it, there is no singular solution that fits all, too many variables.
In my experience if the SP is not doing it for me I can have less than desirable results even with ED meds. OPs initial thought that how you connect with the SP has everything to do with performance. Again as mentioned, the brain is your most important sexual organ. Yes, there are many other factors but dumbing it down ..... if you find someone who really turns your crank it may be worthwhile to stick with her and enjoy the good times. While variety can be exciting in it's own right, as long as an SP excites you to great things, enjoy. If it peters out (pun intended) then find the next hottie who does it for you.
In my experience if the SP is not doing it for me I can have less than desirable results even with ED meds. OPs initial thought that how you connect with the SP has everything to do with performance. Again as mentioned, the brain is your most important sexual organ. Yes, there are many other factors but dumbing it down ..... if you find someone who really turns your crank it may be worthwhile to stick with her and enjoy the good times. While variety can be exciting in it's own right, as long as an SP excites you to great things, enjoy. If it peters out (pun intended) then find the next hottie who does it for you.
My first Viagra was in Thailand in an effort to keep up with my appetite - took full pill and I was flush and dizzy. Get a pill cutter at the pharmacy. I cut them in quarters and bite half of that when I use them. I find that is enough for me to give a hard night time performance. I recommend that you try the smaller dose first.
Nothing wrong with using Viagra and most benefit plans will include it. You just need a doctors prescription which is not too difficult to get. My plan covers around 90% so a pack of twelve 100mg pills costs a little more than $10 and each pill is then cut in 4 quarters = 48 pieces, enough for almost a year
When paying big dollars for that "perfect date", I think it is wise to add another few cents for a dose of viagra, so that I am performing great regardless of potential anxiety, work stress, life problems
Before using Viagra, I had maybe one "erection issue" every 4 or 5 "dates"; after viagra (its being a year or so) I am at 100% success rate
When paying big dollars for that "perfect date", I think it is wise to add another few cents for a dose of viagra, so that I am performing great regardless of potential anxiety, work stress, life problems
Before using Viagra, I had maybe one "erection issue" every 4 or 5 "dates"; after viagra (its being a year or so) I am at 100% success rate
The problem can be solved without these, although I keep spare Cialis in my glove box just in case. Going to a medical doctor when I first started having ED issues proved to be a colossal waste of time. The only thing these fucking idiots know is how to prescribe stuff within a 10 minute consult, then you're out the door and the next patient is in so they can make money.
So I looked into the issue myself. The recommendations I came across were to increase cholesterol and increase intake of Zinc Orotate. About a month after taking both daily, and having a stick of butter everyday, the ED problems were rarely occurring anymore. Anyway, it seems to have worked for me. Perhaps that won't work for everyone, but I'm happy to share what worked for me.
