This is the only answer. No offence to the OP, but trying to bargain prices with an SP absolutely screams low-class and is, quite frankly, insulting as fuq to the woman.
Negotiating Prices
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Are you assuming that she works 8 hrs a day at a rate of $150/hour? Because if so, then I see why you would be confused.
What if that was the only call she did that day? And she bumped her ad 3 times to get that one call. So now we are down to $115 for the day. Many trade workers make more then that a day. We have not factors in phones, websites, other advertising sites, hotels or incall expense.
Maybe she made 3 bookings that day. So we are at $450, but what about hotel/incall rentals costs that are on average $200, minus all the other expenses I listed. We still haven't gotten into the fact many girls are not working 5 days a week and are not making the same amount each day.
I am not saying that ladies don't get a good hourly wage, but that does not translate into the dollar signs you are seeing when you factor in all the expense and down time.
And no, never negotiate. It may work with some but it pisses off most. Just move on.
Which is exactly what happened to this guy and he came back with a horrible review, bashing her looks, and questioning her downer mood. Clients bare some responsibility for the way their sessions turn out. He killed the mood with his negotiation, not her. At least in my opinion.
I’d venture to guess that hagglers are in the top 3 most hated things among SWs. You aren’t negotiating with some sales lackey for a discount off the phone bill, but individuals that are offering an personal and intimate service. A lot of these SWs will block, ignore, and even if they are amenable, it may impact the quality of service delivered.
Of course not. As I said at the beginning, I don't haggle. I was just looking for opinions on negotiating. My post to @Ceiling Cat was just to clarify my understanding on negotiations as he stated that a good deal has both parties happy.
I am sure we don't need HER to make an example. You can edit your post and I'll gladly fabricate a fictional situation with you. This review is terrible and you will never make a point with it nor convince anyone. We all cringe.
Agreed. There is a way to post an example for discussion without adding fuel to this particular fire.
Rightly said- what you come for is a “personal service” and there are no negotiations on that. It’s a girl’s body and she can decide the price for her service as she likes unless it’s an agency who has mentioned her prices upfront.
Never negotiate man. It never goes well. So if the lady says 300 base, and CIM is 50, SW is 30, then just pay her 400 rounded. If it comes to 520, just pay her 600, 80 as a tip. The extra tip will motivate her to give you a good session too, provided she is legit and reviewed well. Atleast that is what I would do.
I however, generally dislike it when providers have these 'addons'. Feels too degrading to pay for addons imo. I never ask for any of them. As long as DFK, BBBJ, BLS, DATY, DATO and CFS is included at the minimum, am good. If not, I just won't book (even if they are available as 'addons').
I however, generally dislike it when providers have these 'addons'. Feels too degrading to pay for addons imo. I never ask for any of them. As long as DFK, BBBJ, BLS, DATY, DATO and CFS is included at the minimum, am good. If not, I just won't book (even if they are available as 'addons').
Two key principles I follow regarding this topic.
1) Find out and align on cost of session with companion prior to session
2) Never negotiate
Afew additional considerations:
- If nominal amount of "savings" actually make a material impact to you - you likely can't afford seeing companions.
- Pushing on rate is not only insensitive and disrespectful, but it also signals to the companion that you may push in other areas. If you can't even respect the rate, how can they assume you'll respect other key aspects of a session like hygiene or safety? Is that really how you want your first impression to be?
1) Find out and align on cost of session with companion prior to session
2) Never negotiate
Afew additional considerations:
- If nominal amount of "savings" actually make a material impact to you - you likely can't afford seeing companions.
- Pushing on rate is not only insensitive and disrespectful, but it also signals to the companion that you may push in other areas. If you can't even respect the rate, how can they assume you'll respect other key aspects of a session like hygiene or safety? Is that really how you want your first impression to be?
