My wife shaved her pussy. Should I be worried?
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I went through this. She's fucking around. Women have perfected the act of infidelity. We are clumsy, and irresponsible in the way we fuck around, but women, are smart, slick and proficient. When caught they will justify it. They will have a support group of friends to cry "you go girl!". They are strangely self righteous about the whole thing. If a man fucks around he's a pig. When a woman fucks around "she's a neglected goddess who was pushed to seek happiness elsewhere". Call her on it. see what she says. Then split. If she's really with you she will come back. If not, well, thats it. And yes it is that simple.... An old balkan proverb: Men; they are dogs, but women; they are cats, you never see the deed done, but the kittens always come crying for milk...
Dude, its time you clean the litter box...
Dude, its time you clean the litter box...
Again, splitting is not an option I would ever initiate, and I am not trying to make this a confrontational issue. I will however, try and ask about her motivation. (I do agree with you on the "you go girl" mentality that exists in women).
Yeah, BUT, he's fucking around already (or too)
So many men make me laugh with their, "it's ok for me to fuck around cause I'm a man, but you (wife) had better keep a dime between your knees at all times, or I will kick you to the curb"
Please. One thing I hate in life is hypocrisy.
wow. a lurker and you get satisfaction from once a month from your wife. sounds like she needed to shave her pussy... she might want you to be more assertive and want it more.
btw, i can't believe how many insecure men there are on here! a shaved pussy doesn't mean a fuckin' affair. as if it's that easy to tell.
talk with her ( not to her ) take her out for a night
have a nice dinner, drinks, go dancing, but don't tell her the club you are going to is a swingers club.....
once you are in and letting loose, then tell her( if she didn't already fugure it out by then )
the couple who plays together stays together
IF of course you even want to stay with her ???
have a nice dinner, drinks, go dancing, but don't tell her the club you are going to is a swingers club.....
once you are in and letting loose, then tell her( if she didn't already fugure it out by then )
the couple who plays together stays together
IF of course you even want to stay with her ???
Correct.btw, i can't believe how many insecure men there are on here! a shaved pussy doesn't mean a fuckin' affair. as if it's that easy to tell.
The fact of the matter is that 65% to 70% of all women fuck around whether their pussy is shaved or hairy. (Though I think that the OP was referring to the sudden change in his wife's behaviour and given the lack of intimacy in their relationship....)
I say embrace the fact that women will fuck around no matter what and join a Swinger's Club. That way, you both Get Your Ya Ya's out and remove the worry about the big bad affair from your relationship.
You know, there might be something to this JTK...
Consider, most of the married guys on here complain that their wives don't want sex as often as they'd like, right? However, I'm willing to bet that many of those same guys discourage their wives from being sexual at every available opportunity. They do this by telling them not to dress provocatively, not to flirt with people, be seen and not heard etc etc. ALL of which discourage women from exploring their sexually independence.
I say ENCOURAGE your wives to be sexually provocative at EVERY available opportunity.... you may just be surprised by the results!
I know I WAS!
Consider, most of the married guys on here complain that their wives don't want sex as often as they'd like, right? However, I'm willing to bet that many of those same guys discourage their wives from being sexual at every available opportunity. They do this by telling them not to dress provocatively, not to flirt with people, be seen and not heard etc etc. ALL of which discourage women from exploring their sexually independence.
I say ENCOURAGE your wives to be sexually provocative at EVERY available opportunity.... you may just be surprised by the results!
I know I WAS!
After reading your post i definitely think your wife has shaved her pussy into smooth bald ground for playing with her lover, and on his request, as you just use her field once in a blue moon, but that guy must be banging her on regular basis and she has comply his request for more mutual enjoyment for both
On occasion she would trim, and in pool season the grooming was more often. The shave caught me a bit off guard, but she was ok with showing it off to me.
Geez dude, 3 years later. Sorry to hear you were fucked around on, but 3 years of her being with another guy constantly, and no firm proof, no direct questions to her?
Ah well if its any comfort, they likely won't make it as a couple. If after 3 years of fucking around on the side, they didn't end the marriage so they could be together full time, they aren't in love.
Ah well if its any comfort, they likely won't make it as a couple. If after 3 years of fucking around on the side, they didn't end the marriage so they could be together full time, they aren't in love.
Well what did you really expect? You cheater on her as well, i dont understand this double standard
Not really a double standard. If she had a fling for sex...a one night stand..it would be forgiveable. She cheated on me with an old friend from my school days...5 days a week at his place...all on my dime. Day after day she would have the most elaborae stories of outings with her girlfriends. Mostly the lies hurt, not the fact that she had sex with someone.
