My wife shaved her pussy. Should I be worried?

out4fun

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The truth was discovered a little over a year ago...for some reason this thread just came to mind.
 

HEYHEY

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The truth was discovered a little over a year ago...for some reason this thread just came to mind.
what can you do, you play with fire and you get burnt

good news is now you dont have to sneak around lol
 

out4fun

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Anyways, it all got a bit messy. The worst is that my oldest son figured it out on his own.
 

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Not really a double standard. If she had a fling for sex...a one night stand..it would be forgiveable. She cheated on me with an old friend from my school days...5 days a week at his place...all on my dime. Day after day she would have the most elaborae stories of outings with her girlfriends. Mostly the lies hurt, not the fact that she had sex with someone.
Sorry about your situation. I do agree with the distinction between random sex-for-sex and on going relationships behind your back.

I have a SO and do se SP's and MPA's, but I would never have a girlfriend on the side. I think having a second relationship is cheating and mean to your partner. For me there is no sex at home and I am OK with that, I now pay for it by the hour. Once the hour is up the event is over, no baggage to bring home, no constant lies like with a piece on the side.

Good luck with your divorce and keep your head-up (the big one).
 

Butler1000

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Dude I'm sorry man.
(If you haven't already) don't leave the house! Don't move out. Hurts you in the proceedings.
Get an expensive shark laywer( yaya screwed in the end anyway, maybe not).
How old are the kids?
Tell me me you can get/ have LOTS of proof of the affair?
 

Nate1

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So you pay for sex outside your home and pay for a married maid/cook at home !!!

Nice fucking expensive hobby dude ?! I guess you must have money coming out of your asshole or you will be in the poorhouse soon.......

Good luck with that relationship.... I can't see it lasting forever ..... nothing lasts forever.... that's a fact !!!
I think you over simply my situation (and others too), I guess it makes for dramatic statements though.

I have a great relationship at home and full respect for my SO. We talk and laugh a lot.

And yes my asshole is doing OK financially, my outside visits cost less than a divorce would (not that I want one).

You are correct nothing lasts for ever, both the good and the bad in life. I wish OP well, you can wish him what you want.
 

HAMSTER INSPECTOR

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Question 1 :

Was there a burst into the room scene where you yelled, : Aha!

Question 2 :

Once you discovered her secret outings, did you get the goods on her for your exit strategy from the marriage?
 

richaceg

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Young men love 'em bald...your wife picked up the drift.
 

richaceg

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One thing I hate in life is hypocrisy.
And women are full of it. They're more conniving than men. when they know you're cheating and have proof, they won't use it until they really have to...and they never feel guilty.
 

Phil C. McNasty

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Update: Those who speculated that it was done for someone else were right...it took a while to discover, but 5 days a week at the boyfriend's place while I went off to work to pay for her fun. Anyways, divorce in the works
I hate to sound preachy, but werent you fucking around on her with SP's also??

Or is that different??
 

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Out4fun sorry about the deception in the relationship but these things happen. Your ass is burning from the lies and being cheated on but divorce isn't always the right answer.

Just saying... I'm sure you guys shared some good times and since you've been sharing her for so long maybe now you can work out a schedule.

#Cheaper to keep her
 

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Nate1 said: "I have a great relationship at home and full respect for my SO. We talk and laugh a lot."

So you have FULL RESPECT for your SO at home. How do you compartmentalize that dude ???

You fuck around on her and possibly subject her to your STD's that you bring home and share with family ???

I guess it must be okay for her to do the same thing to you, RIGHT??? What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Do you have a double standard? One for you and one for her? You can, but she can't sort of thing going on....

Yeah I bet she would be laughing a lot when I tell her you're out fucking around..... right?!

Are you on crack? Whose crack are you on? And is that crack worth the cost of paying for it? :rofl:
I'm not trying to say I am a moral guy like you must be, I have my flaws and I will admit to them. I would be OK with my SO seeing a male escort if she wanted to, but not having a relationship behind my back.

I think there is a distinction between seeing a SP and having a long term piece on the side. I'm not saying one is fully moral and the other is completely immoral. If you want to see life in only black or white go ahead, but you will miss out on a lot of the nuances in life.

Do you think it is funny or cool to threaten to out me? All I will say is you should learn a little about the bear before you provoke him.
 

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The truth was discovered a little over a year ago...for some reason this thread just came to mind.
It took you almost two years to figure out what most of us were saying?

I don't know what part of your life I feel most sad for.

I mean, obviously, after your children ...
 

Celticman

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Nate1 said: "I have a great relationship at home and full respect for my SO. We talk and laugh a lot."

So you have FULL RESPECT for your SO at home. How do you compartmentalize that dude ???

You fuck around on her and possibly subject her to your STD's that you bring home and share with family ???

I guess it must be okay for her to do the same thing to you, RIGHT??? What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Do you have a double standard? One for you and one for her? You can, but she can't sort of thing going on....

Yeah I bet she would be laughing a lot when I tell her you're out fucking around..... right?!

Are you on crack? Whose crack are you on? And is that crack worth the cost of paying for it? :rofl:
You have stated the facts correctly, although a little harsh. I notice in your posting history that you have a GF and see escort(s). Is there a difference between you and Nate1?
 

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So while you enjoy that marvelous dinner your wife made for you tonight.... have a little dinner chat with her..... and tell her you want to reward her with a male escort paid by you.... maybe she will let you watch her get fucked harder. She might enjoy sucking on a BIGGER dick than yours too..... Hell.... she might enjoy it so much that she will want you to continue paying for her hobbying too.

Have fun and good luck with that experience dude!
You seem quite angry, is there something from your childhood you would like to share with the group we promise to be very understanding. Or is it your lack of success in life that's got you down.

Not sure how you know my dick size, have you been sneaking glances in the change room. Is comparing dick size a hobby you have been participating in for a long time?

If you want to tell me more about how I should live my life like a great guy like you then start your own thread and let this one get back on to the OP and his information.
 

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So while you enjoy that marvelous dinner your wife made for you tonight.... have a little dinner chat with her..... and tell her you want to reward her with a male escort paid by you.... maybe she will let you watch her get fucked harder. She might enjoy sucking on a BIGGER dick than yours too..... Hell.... she might enjoy it so much that she will want you to continue paying for her hobbying too.

Have fun and good luck with that experience dude!
Why are you moralizing here, and harassing Nate1? Are you the boyfriend?
 

gcostanza

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Hey dude.... no anger or psychological trauma here.... I'm actually quite happy and laughing now.
Why don't you share this funny story with your wife over dinner tonight? .... the woman YOU FULLY RESPECT......
You mad, bro? :cool:
 
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