Ha ha.... good observation. I went to an Internet cafe... by the second cup- of which their latte machine wasn't working;Near the NovoTel- to PM my other appointments of my cancellation and also make my "note" as I also said I wouldn't be bringing my lap top...bsi said:
The hundreds of emails... was back in forth trying to book before my arrival. As I said earlier and if you read my post replying to antlerman, it was explaining why HE and many others got lost in the limbo; or why booking was difficult-not that it was impossible. The problem wasn't making the "bookings" as I felt I had quite a few great people coming. Infact, over what I would normally book to account for no-shows. I can't control what you guys do... I can only control myself.
Indeed directly contacting for the next trip, in order to book is a wonderful suggestion. Thanks-especially when I have a local number.
Me-Jack... yes at least I take accountability for my actions, in saying... that based on people NOT confirming I choose not to waste my time. There's a difference between announcing a trip and being a ding wad cancelling for other reasons... like not even making it up- or being a stunned xxxx and waiting around;meanwhile making up excuses and bullshit to cover their asses to save face on HERE! And as you said, this isn't a loss for me- I made myself available to a dried up area... and understand why it is. Difference being... there are some GREAT people; its a matter of eliminating the time wasters and spending time with equally enjoyable people...
Amazingly enough... I am a no BS type person. I could have sugar coated or not said anything in fear of being flamed and having this turned around on me; which is clearly easy to do... but keep one thing in mind- this isn't about me *laugh* it's not the boobs... and certainly not the only one who sees through the 'crap'. Either way, say what you wish... and definitely think what you will; as well. It's of no consequence to me either way.
I'm not upset by my trip- I came up for a VERY good reason... and think it was smart not to evolve myself around my appointments. It's a catch 22- if I came like others and had cancellations and no shows up the ying yang and bitched about it- in your mind, it's me. If I cancel based on the merit of others and how they choose to conduct themselves... its still me *laugh* So, what do I care? The common denominator... you, the gentlemen. Yours actions don't reflect me; however does affect and influence your ability to get girls to tour or make themselves available to this-even if they are up in the area for other reasons.
Don't knock it until you try it *wink*
Coupons, coupons coupons...(no more email's or pm's please) YES! Keep them handy. There are indeed valid for my next trip. I gave them out for a reason...
