You talk about how terrible it is to assume things then you go on to assume all 35+ clients are respectful and anyone under 35 is rude rushed cheap and overly arrogant. Not all older men are old generous fat fucks and not all younger men are super good looking cheap rude men.
Men's age, appearance, physique, etc... Do SP's care???
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Where does she say all men over 35 are automatically respectful and all men under 35 are automatically rude, etc.?
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Personally, I don't particularly care about the things you mentioned when seeing a client - except for public dates (the older the age, the harder it is to pass off as a friendly date if I run into someone I know, and I look a bit young for my age). I don't believe in the 35+ thing, I've met old obnoxious characters and mature charismatic young (twenties) characters.. so I generally do not discriminate with age. Appearance - if there is 1 thing I like about them, I focus on that.. like that little patch of chest hair (rrrooarr) or those amazingly strong arms that could pick me up (oh yes!) or his shyness (I want to devour shy guys) - that is why ladies in the profession need to be compassionate. Even in my personal life, my SOs for the most part were not super attractive men, but they came to be after a rapport was built. Besides, we aren't here to judge anyone based on those superficial characteristics.. so there is really no need to be insecure! Also, women tend to be stimulated more by mental stimulation than physical. These are my thoughts.
As for being a jerk to an sp to get more mileage? What a shitty thing to say. You are making the gentlemen on this forum look bad, seriously.
As for being a jerk to an sp to get more mileage? What a shitty thing to say. You are making the gentlemen on this forum look bad, seriously.
Firstly, as someone who hears feedback about client experiences on a regular basis, I can tell you the good hygiene, good grooming, a good attitude, and a friendly and respectful disposition will get you the most mileage from a good sp. Good sp's know this industry and are open to all types of men in the form of shapes, colour, size, age, etc.
Secondly, the op is working under the presumption young good looking men are what working women are attracted to. Given the experience with men working women have vs non-working women, you can't presume their taste in men will be the same. Most of the working women I know of who I consider a good sp are usually attracted to older men with a wide variety of looks, pretty-boys usually turn them off based on their experiences.
Remember, I said a "good sp", not any sp.
Cheers,
Don
TDL
Secondly, the op is working under the presumption young good looking men are what working women are attracted to. Given the experience with men working women have vs non-working women, you can't presume their taste in men will be the same. Most of the working women I know of who I consider a good sp are usually attracted to older men with a wide variety of looks, pretty-boys usually turn them off based on their experiences.
Remember, I said a "good sp", not any sp.
Cheers,
Don
TDL
It's really all about attitude. If you kind, sweet and respectful, age is just a number and appearance doesn't mean much :
All good points. It also helps (and I cannot stress this enough) if you at least try to put the lady's pleasure first and you know what you're doing down there.It's really all about attitude. If you kind, sweet and respectful, age is just a number and appearance doesn't mean much :
(In short, if you know how to lick p***y, you are going to have a good time, every time.
Believe me.)
I don't think it bothers an experienced SP. I think what's most important is your hygiene and your attitude. I personally would take a nice old man over a fit, tanned jerk any day. So it really doesn't matter what you look like as long as you are polite and respectful. There are A LOT of jerks out there who will waste an SP's time. So when a guy comes in with a good attitude and is easy to talk to it really makes the session a lot easier. It's more comfortable and relaxing and I genuinely feel like I am getting to know someone.
That's very true, I like pillow talk after the deed... guess thats what GFE is for. I have much to learn about the hobby thats for sure.
Waddayamean 'smart ass'? You think I'm funny? What, do I amuse you?![video]https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ9ilHRagNWSscNR_aqVRJkb1DTtYgiN qwUQCtyIHinbRvkgBmgcw[/video]
Another smart ass, have you even seen a meteorite?
Which is the better fantasy? The secret dalliance of the older attached guy or the potential of the single young guy? (Don't know if the young guy one would be a Mrs. Robinson, more experienced woman younger man, type of thing for ladies.)
I didn't intend to be provocative or spark a rant, and the assholes who try to cheat sp's can't be defended, but just because most sp's don't like to acknowledge ymmv doesn't mean it's not real. You say that clients are most concerned with getting off, maybe so, but you can masturbate for free. We are actually thinking about money too: getting our moneys worth.
In all human interactions, the golden rule " do unto others..." should apply
Yeah, this is always weird to me too.
I mean I get that it's part of their fantasy that a beautiful woman is into them for themselves, and having the money intrude spoils the fantasy, but I think it's enough money that I want it counted in front of me. That way we both agree that it's the right amount and there is no arguing later. I don't want to accidentally short someone either.
All the dancing around the fact that it is payment for services, with rules about envelopes and putting it just so on a dresser in view but not drawing attention to it, and so on feels so unnecessary.
Anyways, on the topic at hand, of course it can make a difference to some girls how conventionally attractive you are. But different girls like different things. I'm an out of shape, short, balding, middle aged duffer with no money (in fact, one girl calls me her Little Pauper), and no skill at flirtation or romance, but I still sometimes get extras above and beyond, or asked out. Sometimes you just click.
You can improve the odds with self maintenance, but the chemistry has got to be there too.
Purely homely, I'm sure they can live with; slobbering pig/stranger-to-the-shower hygiene I'm sure they can't.
I've had clients warn me that they are old, overweight, inexperienced, worried about their hair, their skin, the size of their member.... To me, people are people. If we were all the same, we'd be clones with nothing to talk about. Physical appearance doesn't change the quality of our time together, as long as you pop a breathmint and you're clean.
