Men's age, appearance, physique, etc... Do SP's care???
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I have to concur that politeness and hygiene are key!
I would also like to add that being silly (i.e. making us laugh) is a plus and so you know, we ladies can teach an old dog new tricks.
Back for more lessons!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=28xjtYY3V3Q
Whatever you do, just don't be a bad/guilty dog.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=mP6O1V2I9_k
You didnt ask me but this is a common refrain. More mature fewer assholes less arrogant more generous dont push boundaries dont argue happier with milfs arrive on time leave before they are asked dont consider it an athletic performance and therefore dont pound the shit out of the girl experienced in how to turn the girl on know what they want themselves.
Excellent hygiene and being polite/well mannered/respectful are the key to good mileage with SPs.
I've gotten compliments such as "Your hygiene is impeccable, the cleaner you are, the better the service you will receive", "You are every woman's dream, you are very clean and gentle", "You are the best client ever, you treat me so goood!"
BTW, I am an older hobbyist, in my 50's.
I've gotten compliments such as "Your hygiene is impeccable, the cleaner you are, the better the service you will receive", "You are every woman's dream, you are very clean and gentle", "You are the best client ever, you treat me so goood!"
BTW, I am an older hobbyist, in my 50's.
Sophia the new tricks are unbelievable and I am happy old dogsillydog,
I have to concur that politeness and hygiene are key!
I would also like to add that being silly (i.e. making us laugh) is a plus and so you know, we ladies can teach an old dog new tricks.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GgWWBou1IbE&sns=em
I've never had a problem with an SP's attitude. And I'm super average. Everyone has been super nice. The worst attitude I had was maybe a few that were quiet/shy, but I wouldn't call that a negative attitude.... just more of a boring attitude.
Key thing is to be clean yourself. I always try to do all my showering and stuff as close to their arrival as possible (I only do outcalls). Since it's my place, I always make sure the place is clean. I even make sure the dishes are done. Make sure you dress decent enough, some cold drinks are in the fridge, can carry on a conversation and any toiletries are ready to go and clean towels are ready since some SPs want to shower. As she walks in, hang her coat. And have the donation and a pack of gum in plain view too.
It's really no different than life in general. Be nice and clean to people and 99% of friends,a family and coworkers will be the same back. There will always be those handful of jackasses, but for them nothing you do will change that. It's not about expecting to win every hand. But if you play your cards right, you'll increase your chances of succeeding.
Key thing is to be clean yourself. I always try to do all my showering and stuff as close to their arrival as possible (I only do outcalls). Since it's my place, I always make sure the place is clean. I even make sure the dishes are done. Make sure you dress decent enough, some cold drinks are in the fridge, can carry on a conversation and any toiletries are ready to go and clean towels are ready since some SPs want to shower. As she walks in, hang her coat. And have the donation and a pack of gum in plain view too.
It's really no different than life in general. Be nice and clean to people and 99% of friends,a family and coworkers will be the same back. There will always be those handful of jackasses, but for them nothing you do will change that. It's not about expecting to win every hand. But if you play your cards right, you'll increase your chances of succeeding.
It's simple human nature to be more motivated to have sex with a person you find attractive than one you don't. On your own personal level, you have to find something about that person that appeals to you and motivates a better sexual experience.
Generally, ugly people deter attraction. Good looking people attract sexual desire. We all know this to be a simple truth. Still, Beauty IS in the eye of the beholder.
In the world of this hobby, hygiene and manners are essential. A woman, whether she's providing a 'service' or not, will always appreciate being treated like a woman and not a transaction. A book, chocolates, lingerie and maybe even flowers lets her know that her lovely femininity is not being overlooked or taken for granted. A true man will always extend some sort of gesture beyond the envelope as that is the dignified and respectful thing to do.
I've met some lovely ladies in this hobby throughout my tenure that were absolutely stunning but I had no chemistry with and never saw again. I've met other ladies that some might not consider all that attractive but the chemistry was undeniable and the sex was volcanic, to say the least. Some even became personal romantic relationships.
Do SP's care? It's up to that individual lady to make that choice. Do the clients care? Likewise, it's up to that individual client to make that choice,
It goes both ways.
Generally, ugly people deter attraction. Good looking people attract sexual desire. We all know this to be a simple truth. Still, Beauty IS in the eye of the beholder.
In the world of this hobby, hygiene and manners are essential. A woman, whether she's providing a 'service' or not, will always appreciate being treated like a woman and not a transaction. A book, chocolates, lingerie and maybe even flowers lets her know that her lovely femininity is not being overlooked or taken for granted. A true man will always extend some sort of gesture beyond the envelope as that is the dignified and respectful thing to do.
I've met some lovely ladies in this hobby throughout my tenure that were absolutely stunning but I had no chemistry with and never saw again. I've met other ladies that some might not consider all that attractive but the chemistry was undeniable and the sex was volcanic, to say the least. Some even became personal romantic relationships.
Do SP's care? It's up to that individual lady to make that choice. Do the clients care? Likewise, it's up to that individual client to make that choice,
It goes both ways.
It's ironic that in general women are less concerned with a man's appearance yet they work harder to look attractive.
+1 Yes, and size doesn't matter also. Some things are beyond our choice so they are not going to tell us not to come.
Next time you are on a bus or subway, think that you are a male prostitute that has to get it on with every female in your car. Assume they are all hosed down and naked in front of you. Are you going to tell me that they all will get the amount of enthusiasm from your services ?
I totally agree with that comment. Years ago I went to see a cute but low mileage Asian MPA. It was located above a store on Eglinton Ave. W. and she was always working alone. It was my 3rd. or 4th. time, I arrived freshly showered and shaved and about half way through she leaned into the back of my neck and said "you smell really good." Well didn't I have one of the best experiences of my life. She only charged me the DF, wouldn't accept a tip and thanked me over and over again. lol
I went back a week later and the place was gone.
It doesn't.
To me, what drives me crazy is when someone doesn't bring their best self and isn't willing to at least try to connect with me. I can offer you a shower, I can correct rude behaviour (politely I hope!)... but I can't make anyone bring their best BFE to an encounter.
I have yet to meet someone who isn't insanely attractive when they are willing to climb into the same space as me and leave pretenses at the door.
If anything physical is stopping you from being there and feeling amazing in the moment, you're not seeing the right provider for you.
Other things being equal of course they prefer George Clooney to Don Knotts but other things are seldom equal. Younger guys have many liabilities that we can kindly list as manners experience money arrogance etc. Older guys are also not all fat ugly bald etc.
If the roles were reversed you want J Lo to knock on your door or Judy Dench?
However if J Lo argued about $$ time shower and was too rough you would soon....
wait.....I would fuck J Lo free and she can stay as long as she wants....nevermind.
If the roles were reversed you want J Lo to knock on your door or Judy Dench?
However if J Lo argued about $$ time shower and was too rough you would soon....
wait.....I would fuck J Lo free and she can stay as long as she wants....nevermind.
