Married Women
- Thread starter Tony2000
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I share sex and intimacy with married women all the time, in my personal life and also as a Provider - some of them are in open marriages and/or are polyamourous, others are monogamously married to a male spouse.
Particularly in the latter case, some of the reasons that wives have shared for seeking sex and intimacy outside their marriages are:
- their spouse is emotionally distant, or physically unavailable/busy, or maybe even already cheating on them
- their sex drive is significantly greater or lesser than their spouse's; intimacy begins to feel like a chore, or a negotiation
- they have stressful, ongoing family and/or money disputes that make spending intimate time with their spouse seem less desirable
- they just may no longer feel lust for their spouse, or the sex no longer feels good - even though the love might still be there
And, in the case specifically of women seeking women:
- they have discovered during their marriage that they may not be entirely straight, and now they want to explore that interest
- they may have previously enjoyed seeing other women before marriage, but hadn't done so since. They realize now that they miss this experience
Most of them also do not wish to leave their husbands, as they've established a life together, children may be involved, love might still be there, joint assets, family drama and ostracization, ect.
Same as many men say, "something is just missing".
- Addilyn Castle
Particularly in the latter case, some of the reasons that wives have shared for seeking sex and intimacy outside their marriages are:
- their spouse is emotionally distant, or physically unavailable/busy, or maybe even already cheating on them
- their sex drive is significantly greater or lesser than their spouse's; intimacy begins to feel like a chore, or a negotiation
- they have stressful, ongoing family and/or money disputes that make spending intimate time with their spouse seem less desirable
- they just may no longer feel lust for their spouse, or the sex no longer feels good - even though the love might still be there
And, in the case specifically of women seeking women:
- they have discovered during their marriage that they may not be entirely straight, and now they want to explore that interest
- they may have previously enjoyed seeing other women before marriage, but hadn't done so since. They realize now that they miss this experience
Most of them also do not wish to leave their husbands, as they've established a life together, children may be involved, love might still be there, joint assets, family drama and ostracization, ect.
Same as many men say, "something is just missing".
- Addilyn Castle
I'm going to send my wife to you, Addilyn. I think I married a Lesbian who likes a dick once or twice a year.
I'm glad you found it so! I'm happy to share my experiences and perspectives when they may positively contribute to a discussion.That would be.. a very good deed! Wow yes, EVERYONE PLEASE SEND ME YOUR WIVES! Guaranteed excellent mood upon their return :whoo:
That...is....soooooo....freakin'....HOT......too late for me so maybe i'll have to borrow someone's wife and send them along lol
That would be.. a very good deed! Wow yes, EVERYONE PLEASE SEND ME YOUR WIVES! Guaranteed excellent mood upon their return :whoo:
Because my wife is attractive, likes threesomes, foursomes, sex clubs and is a great person. Coming up to 20 years together. Wouldn't change a thing. I know, it's rare.
Children.
Two responsible parents are much better than one despite what any feminist says.
Another rarity is having anal sex when you and the girl are both 12 years old, as you have once claimed. Sounds like you have led a very charmed life!
OP here with an update. So the married woman in my original query texted me a few times and said that she was interested in meeting up for some fun. When I suggested a specific day she said she couldn't make it. I messaged the following week and haven't heard from her since!
As I suspected at the outset, married women are really wanting attention …. they aren't necessarily willing to meet and go through with it.
I am not really surprised but it was worth a shot and it was still flattering to hear from her in the first place.
As I suspected at the outset, married women are really wanting attention …. they aren't necessarily willing to meet and go through with it.
I am not really surprised but it was worth a shot and it was still flattering to hear from her in the first place.
I have never had a fling with a married woman, but have masturbated frequently while thinking about it, hence saving myself much drama, possibly some money, definitely a lot of guilt about potentially being a home-wrecker.
It's not only for attention.
She may have strong desires to go down that road and felt confident that she could pull it off,
only to realize she couldn't follow through with it. Guaranteed there was a good space of time between the first thought
and eventually contacting you.
The marriage is still young, just had a baby, that's a huge threshold to cross, guilt, confusion, emotional turmoil.
This board cultivates an enormous amount of cynicism, most people are good and try to live up to their values.
