Companionship is underrated when you've had 17 years of it. To me it sounds like you just need to shake things up a bit... maybe get kinky.The Cunning Linguist said:I used to think it was sexy when my partner of 17 years now got a little tipsy and wanted sex. Before we moved into together 10 years ago, I had all the sex I could handle.
Now she just gets drunk and sloppy and I couldn't stand having sex with her anymore, so I stopped with her about 4 years ago. Plus, she's gained over 100 lbs (but then again, so have I). I guess I just substituted food for sex. She snores so loud I can't sleep in the same room with her as well.
Knowing what I know now, and having no need to be a father, I would never get involved again just to get sex...paying for it is the way to go.
Companionship is overrated as well. I have a dog which is better company than her.
Being sloppy isn't necessarily bad if you're in the right frame of mind. I had a girlfriend before I was married. She was/is married (still in touch with her and fool around a bit)... she'd fuck her husband, then we'd get together and fuck... Mmmm... sloppy seconds. I like my chicks dirty.