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OnTheWayOut
I've gotten some disturbing news from some MP about manners of some of the guys. Seems some read here about possible extras with certain girls and then go in flappin their lips that they read on TERB that they do so & so and get very rude demanding the same or more.
All this is doing is ruining things for all of us. Use some tact & respect and you'll get lots further. I NEVER mention what I read about them here unless asked, I develop a relationship with them and see what happens. YMMV means that sometimes you connect, sometimes you don't. But no need to be angry or rude if you don't get what you think she should deliver.
Also, if you read about someone and want to see that particular girl but are new to the place, don't call up and ask for them by name. Some girls are puzzled as to why they are being requested by tons of guys they never met. Call the place and ask who's working and descriptions. Then pick the girl you knew you wanted to begin with, at least it won't be obvious that way. When some girls get requested by strangers they are afraid it's LE (who read TERB too) and your chances for a good time diminish.
I know of one instance recently where a guy was so rude and/or boorish that the girl felt compelled to punch the guy and run off. I don't know if he read things here but that's not the point. These girls deserve your respect. The ole adage "treat others as you would like to be treated yourself" applies.
I've been PMed plenty about why I seem to have a bit more fun than some guys. I'm not Adonis (or even The Lurker) and have seen better days from a physical standpoint. But what I do is treat every girl I see with respect. Take them flowers now & then ($4 a bunch at Loblaws, 3 for 10), talk to them and listen to what they have to say .... I'm just layin there anyway so it's not a big deal and a lot of them have interesting things to say.
Unfortunately the thing I've been hearing just layin there lately aren't good. And then guys post wondering why they aren't gettin what the next guy is. It's about relationships fellas, now I know you're not going to an MP to find your soulmate .... but as in every successful venture you need to have common courtesy to get where you wanna go. Treat the girls properly and you will be rewarded. Be like some of these assholes and go home pissed. Doesn't seem like a tough choice to me .....
All this is doing is ruining things for all of us. Use some tact & respect and you'll get lots further. I NEVER mention what I read about them here unless asked, I develop a relationship with them and see what happens. YMMV means that sometimes you connect, sometimes you don't. But no need to be angry or rude if you don't get what you think she should deliver.
Also, if you read about someone and want to see that particular girl but are new to the place, don't call up and ask for them by name. Some girls are puzzled as to why they are being requested by tons of guys they never met. Call the place and ask who's working and descriptions. Then pick the girl you knew you wanted to begin with, at least it won't be obvious that way. When some girls get requested by strangers they are afraid it's LE (who read TERB too) and your chances for a good time diminish.
I know of one instance recently where a guy was so rude and/or boorish that the girl felt compelled to punch the guy and run off. I don't know if he read things here but that's not the point. These girls deserve your respect. The ole adage "treat others as you would like to be treated yourself" applies.
I've been PMed plenty about why I seem to have a bit more fun than some guys. I'm not Adonis (or even The Lurker) and have seen better days from a physical standpoint. But what I do is treat every girl I see with respect. Take them flowers now & then ($4 a bunch at Loblaws, 3 for 10), talk to them and listen to what they have to say .... I'm just layin there anyway so it's not a big deal and a lot of them have interesting things to say.
Unfortunately the thing I've been hearing just layin there lately aren't good. And then guys post wondering why they aren't gettin what the next guy is. It's about relationships fellas, now I know you're not going to an MP to find your soulmate .... but as in every successful venture you need to have common courtesy to get where you wanna go. Treat the girls properly and you will be rewarded. Be like some of these assholes and go home pissed. Doesn't seem like a tough choice to me .....
