man talk

CALLMEBOND said:
It seems most women today if you started out by saying you were "looking for a relationship" would just dart.
I've never used the "I'm not looking" line. But I do think that CallmeBond is right that if a man started out by saying 'Oh, I'm very much interested in a relationship that leads to marriage and a lifelong commitment," many/most women in North America would run towards the hills.
 
Conclusion Aardvark154 - North American women (most not all can't make that generalization completely) are just confused and don't know what the hell they want. Slowly coming to the conclusion I need to take a trip to Europe or somewhere the women atleast know what they want if thats possible, atleast thats what my well travelled buddy from Finland keeps telling me LOL. I don't know maybe he is right he has an amazing wife and is the homeliest MF'r I know and damn she picked him up initially LOL.
 
I've never used that line (or any line for that matter ) and the relationships I've had have always started when I wasn't looking or expecting anything with anyone. I've always been taken by surprise when falling in love and I've never had a relationship with someone that I wasn't in love with.