Life after escorting and massage parlours
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A great story and great success! Can you get me a job?
Join Date 11-06-2012 -Last Activity 11-11-2012 02:08 AM. R.I.P.
Thanks for sharing.I completely understand where the doubt and skepticism comes from but I can assure you it is not some tall tale. I wanted to share my story because I know it is not often that ladies in my position once they leave the industry do.
For each woman, their reason why they got in and why they got out and what they went on to do afterwards will drastically differ given their personal circumstances and I can fully accept that a lot of women will not have had the same experience before and after that I did.
However it is as I said in my original post that often we don't hear about the positive side of this industry. Now don't get me wrong...there were moments where it is was very difficult yet I know dealing with those moments are what made me a stronger person and thus more successful in my present life.
I don't intend to change anyone's mind as personal opinions are what make Terb so great. Thanks to those of you for your support, it is much appreciated. And for those of you who doubt the authenticity of my story...well, I guess I will see you in the boardroom
Love & Light xox
You are absolutely correct that people get involved in this business due to various circumstances. Too often the sad story is that some came in with a plan but in the end the allure of being able to accumulate quick wealth leads them to "alter" their plans and some end up staying in the business for way too long and end up losing sight of their original goal. Reality is that $ changes people, and especially if one got involved when she was young and don't know how to handle it properly - you quickly get too accustomed to a life style that you cannot sustain unless you are pulling in the same type of $ by being in the business. We all know that this is a relatively short career and when you are no longer pulling in the same type of $ and have no back up plan...that is when things go south especially if the individual also happened to have picked up some bad habits along the way.
Ex-p, I am really happy to hear that you were able to stick to your goal and moved on once you have achieved it. I hope it will help inspire others that are in the business to do the same. Congrats and all the best.
I am going to add a fourth to that.
She fully retired and opened her own business, he quit the hobby and they have been happy and successful together.
The reason people don't often hear about it is because people don't come back like the OP did and share the story. Why should they bother with all the nay-sayers here. I wonder if people would believe it more if she said she paid off her debt, got out, got a regular 9-5 at the local Walmart and popped out 3 kids????
Sorry - but some people just have more success then others.
Congrats to the OP for her success and for getting past the downers in this posting.
She fully retired and opened her own business, he quit the hobby and they have been happy and successful together.
The reason people don't often hear about it is because people don't come back like the OP did and share the story. Why should they bother with all the nay-sayers here. I wonder if people would believe it more if she said she paid off her debt, got out, got a regular 9-5 at the local Walmart and popped out 3 kids????
Sorry - but some people just have more success then others.
Congrats to the OP for her success and for getting past the downers in this posting.
We all have heard the dancer's story about putting themselves through school. One I know did - got a degree in philosophy/ethics, did a year or three of SPing and then guit and got a mainstream job. Far less than her intelligence and ability but she moved on nevertheless. Kudos to you and my dancer.
I cannot agree more. My exit strategy was to walk away the day I was out of debt. And while I was working I was as frugal as you seem to be
. At home I was living on residence cafeteria food. Well they claimed it was food. I was so impressed getting free real food and being paid to eat it !I did exit the SP job the day I made enough to pay off my last debt.
But my strategy on how I was going to do it was radically altered. None the less, SPing got me out of debt and introduced me to the man I married. I was incredibly lucky, but I guess others have been equally lucky
I have met some women that I felt had no plan in this biz or were victims. Did not enjoy those experiences. The ones I met which were doing this for a bit of fun and extra cash or as a means to an end were the most enjoyable. Very happy you made it.
Good to hear that some ladies stay grounded. You hear of athletes who make $100million in their career and are now broke. Their family broke up, their friends deserted them and the groupies have moved on.
You obviously have your act together. It's good to hear you have succes in your personal life and have moved on.
Agreed, I only enjoy time with the ones that enjoy the job. Those ones are all smart enough to have a plan.
What are you? An attention seeking jerk?
A) You come on here an brag about working in "Global Internet Empire". Who talks like this, who are you, Donald Trump? Global Empire my ass, what skills would you bring to the table...unless you work in marketing, since SPs are shameless self promoters
B) High School President, University Scholarship???...most SPs I know come from group/foster homes, and have barely finished high school.
C) You brag about the money you earned as an SP. Nice to earn tax free money eh, and then brag about it? While others pay for roads and schools, you didn't have to.
D) Many of us have to save money to see SPs. SPs charge exorbitant prices. That is what the market will bear, but please don't come on here and boast about your "success" on your initial posts.
E) If you want to impress us, tell us how you volunteered at a group home, or for with young offenders. Talking about your "global empire" doesn't impress us.
F) A success story does not neccessarily have to mean leaving the business of being an SP. No need to put down other SPs in this way.
Someone is just a little cranky and clearly jealous....Wow!!!!
a} it was not bragging at all. Clearly she can not give out complete details so she has to be selective in her wording. Global meaning world wide, Internet is the thing you are using now to read this. Empire would me a huge company like Google. Would world wide internet company have been better for you? Maybe she learned how to put all those big sounding words together in University.
b} So because most of the SP's you know where like that, it has to mean this person is like that too. Are you saying that all SP's are dumb damaged children now turned adults who can not achieve anything more in their life?
c} So are you mad that she earned more then you or the assumption that she didn't pay taxes. Which with her salary now, she sure as shit is paying and highly as well. Probably makes up for the tax free income for the short time, if that was even the case. Most of the really smart ones do claim taxes. Why do you think so many SP's are "consultants"?
d} So because you have to watch your money, others should be upset for you. Or not talk about their success because you can't be as successful. Sp's should all lower the rates to what you think is fair pricing?
e} Doesn't impress you, but does some others here. Are you the only person on TERB? Should everything discussed here be catered solely to you?
f} I didn't read a single line where she put down this industry, her past in the industry, any person currently in the industry. I read where she said thank you actually.
Sorry but I think someone is just a little over jealous at the success of others and has come up here to pout.
A couple of years I met a girl at an incall location. She was about 23 at the time and was here studying English. We went out for a while and she ended up quitting to spend more time with me, as well as because some guys had been putting up false info in reviews.
She was accepted to a U.S. university, worked hard and obtained two degrees. She is now doing well in her chosen field.
Success for some girls is not a fairy tale, it happens.
She was accepted to a U.S. university, worked hard and obtained two degrees. She is now doing well in her chosen field.
Success for some girls is not a fairy tale, it happens.
Agreed.
I find it very VERY hard to believe that any 26 year old (so, what, 3 years out of University with a bachelor's degree, spent say a year as a working girl (so no experience on her resume)) is making 250 k (which puts you in Canada's 1% class) a year with tons of stock, blah blah blah.
Doesn't add up.
You could be a doctor or a lawyer (which you're neither at 26) and you're not making 250 k a year plus plus plus.
The only 26 year old making that kind of coin is one who has struck it rich in their own enterprise and you could count on one hand that number.
Look, maybe this girl wishes that scenario happened and that's fine. Everyone has a dream and that's what motivates people to live their lives and become the best they can be. No need to be envious or call BS where BS is due. Nowhere in her success story does she mention a man, and behind every successful woman is one.
One day I'll come back here and post a thread on life after hobbying, but it will focus more on how she's the best sex I've ever had and how I make her orgasm until she faints. I'll make sure to thank all the SPs who made me the man that I am and the best lover since Casanova.
One day I'll come back here and post a thread on life after hobbying, but it will focus more on how she's the best sex I've ever had and how I make her orgasm until she faints. I'll make sure to thank all the SPs who made me the man that I am and the best lover since Casanova.
a) A lot of the DOT COM version 2 companies' executives talk like that. Even at social events after a few drinks. It is pretty obvious that they would talk like that among themselves. Huge egos, huge growth potential, tons of money.
b) I only know 3 SPs well enough for me to be certain I really know their pasts. All are university or community college graduates.
c) I love a tax free life ! I recommend it highly.
d) Lol do you go to restaurants and whine about prices as well?
