Just found out a girl I was really close friends with is now an SP

[MoneyTeam]

I was looking through bp and stumbled upon an add with a picture of a girl that looked familiar, as soon as I enlarged the picture I knew it was her. Me and this girl were really close for about 5 years we would pretty much talk daily, in the past 2 years we lost contact and stopped talking. I want to talk to her but I feel as if she knows its me she won't reply out of fear of me telling others about it. What should I do?

 

[kkelso]

Link?

 

[Fred Zed]

I was looking through bp and stumbled upon an add with a picture of a girl that looked familiar, as soon as I enlarged the picture I knew it was her. Me and this girl were really close for about 5 years we would pretty much talk daily, in the past 2 years we lost contact and stopped talking. I want to talk to her but I feel as if she knows its me she won't reply out of fear of me telling others about it. What should I do?

You say that you stopped talking to her 2 years ago why do you want to talk to her now ? Looks like you and her have gone separate ways my guess is she would prefer it to stay that way.

 

[MoneyTeam]

I stopped talking to her because I deactivated my facebook and changed my number due to issues with my ex. We were still cool the last time we talked I just wasn't able to get into contact with her because when I reactivated my facebook hers was deactivated and mutual friends didn't have her number either. I been trying to get into contact with her for a while just wasn't able to and the reason I want to talk to her is because she is a really cool girl and one of the best friends I've ever had.

 

[Barca]

You say that you stopped talking to her 2 years ago why do you want to talk to her now ? Looks like you and her have gone separate ways my guess is she would prefer it to stay that way.

What he said.

 

[pipelayer]

Did you ever get to fuck her? If you didn't you can now!

 

[bestman007]

Fred Z & Alona M are absolutely correct. Don't be selfish. Do the right thing and don't contact her through the industry.

 

[versitile1]

Link?

Or review?

 

[Elmore Scruggs]

You had the chance to contact her in a normal way but didn't. It isn't possible now because there will be an elephant in the room you can't talk about.
Move on.

 

[bazokajoe]

Leave her alone and you 2 go about your normal lives.

 

[bollock]

link + 1

 

[mandrill]

An escort I know had an old high school flame try and contact her through the industry because he recognized her photo. Man, was she PISSED!!!!!!!!!!

 

[IRIS]

Maybe you couldn't fuck her in the past and now you really frustrated, because your beauty is fuck with everyone except you right?
If I'm really close with someone as you said, there is no way I just disappear from her life. Your lame excuses about your ex ..etc. just blablabla...
You used big words: "She was one of my best friend I have ever had". Do you know what the "best friend " mean? I don't think you ever had any friend if she was your best. If you were really close, how could you do this to her? You just betrayed the friendship and now you start thinking about her again because she is fuckable?
What will you say for her after 2 years? Hey baby, I saw you on the BP and you really suck cocks for money? Or just sneaking around her, pose as a long time lost friend who luckily and accidentally find her again(....yay) and a month later try to fuck her? You didn't care her in the past years and if you make a contact now, after you read about her, just make you a pathetic loser. If you are a real MAN just forget her.

 

[Aardvark154]

I stopped talking to her because I deactivated my facebook and changed my number due to issues with my ex. We were still cool the last time we talked I just wasn't able to get into contact with her because when I reactivated my facebook hers was deactivated and mutual friends didn't have her number either.

So you cut off Facebook without even messaging her that you were going to cut it off?

Then when you came back now her account was inactivated and none of your mutual friends knew or would tell you how you could get in contact with her.

How on earth are you going to explain contacting her - when the only contact information you have is her escorting contact information?

You know the answer yourself, if you can't find a way to contact her through ordinary channels. . . . . .

 

[gww]

And were you excited to discuss with her your life as a hobbyist? Perhaps break it to her that you figured it out that she was an escort? Do some sort of Q&A and get insider info? If you are looking to reconnect as friends, do so through normal circumstances... Or if you were planning to book her, I'd say avoid having the door not open for you when she sees it's a personal friend. Most girls don't want someone they know from their personal life crashing down on them with a discovery that her decidedly separate worlds have collided.

There is more to the story i bet... but this is the best advice your going to get here.

 

[Terminator2000]

if you haven't had the need to talk to her for two whole years. why do you suddenly have the need to talk to her now?

two years is a long time to not talk to someone. what makes you think you're still friends. people change alot in two years. they date new people. have children. get married. move away. buy a house. they aren't the same people in two years alot goes on in two years.. could be a case of wishful thinking going on for you.

 

[punter]

Link or GTFO.

 

[LBBCAN]

100% this.

If I was ever booked by someone I know (or knew) personally I would probably freak out. For you it might be an exciting oppourtunity to reconnect and witness the metamorphosis of a former friend into a bad girl, but for her the implications are much greater. From the moment of contact she'll likely be incredibly anxious that her secret will be outed and potentially ruin her life...people can be very judgemental of sex workers and the girls family and friends will likely be horrified. Future job prospects could also become an issue if it becomes public knowledge of her escorting activity. I'm not saying that will will let slip her line of work, but she'll never be able to breathe easy after your connection is made. If you truly consider this girl a friend be sensitive to her precarious situation and don't do anything that would make her uncomfortable or vulnerable-namely contacting her through the industry.

 

[Elmore Scruggs]

Good reminder for escorts - never ever show your face in your ads.

 

[wangbang]

Most girls don't want someone they know from their personal life crashing down on them with a discovery that her decidedly separate worlds have collided.

^^^^ This times a million.

Oh, and this thread is useless without pics.