Talk about 2 miserable choices:
A) You can go ahead and have a child or more with this women. Sure, you will keep her, but the whole dynamic of the relationship will change...it won't be about the two of you anymore, but about the children..their needs..their baby formula, their soccer lessons, their parent interviews...everything great about your relationship now will be thrown out the window, and you will be resentful that you were "forced" into this. Who will you take it out on: Her or the kids?
or scenario:
B) You walk away....expect a grieving period over losing her, and then major depression...She will be okay though, she'll find someone else..have kids with them..and she will have her expectation of what is a great life..a family and a career. Unless you find someone else..you will always wonder "what if"
Unfortunately a great relationship is never enough for 99% of most women..women want the career, the husband, the kids, the mortgage...the weekend trips to home depot, and Ikea...its really all about their happiness. In the end, most women don't give a shit about their boyfriend/husbands happiness. Women are incredibly selfish.
My advice is to walk away...either way you will suffer, but at least you don't bring another human being into the world for the wrong reasons.
A) You can go ahead and have a child or more with this women. Sure, you will keep her, but the whole dynamic of the relationship will change...it won't be about the two of you anymore, but about the children..their needs..their baby formula, their soccer lessons, their parent interviews...everything great about your relationship now will be thrown out the window, and you will be resentful that you were "forced" into this. Who will you take it out on: Her or the kids?
or scenario:
B) You walk away....expect a grieving period over losing her, and then major depression...She will be okay though, she'll find someone else..have kids with them..and she will have her expectation of what is a great life..a family and a career. Unless you find someone else..you will always wonder "what if"
Unfortunately a great relationship is never enough for 99% of most women..women want the career, the husband, the kids, the mortgage...the weekend trips to home depot, and Ikea...its really all about their happiness. In the end, most women don't give a shit about their boyfriend/husbands happiness. Women are incredibly selfish.
My advice is to walk away...either way you will suffer, but at least you don't bring another human being into the world for the wrong reasons.