hmmm love, friendship, marriage, hand job? You must love hand jobs. btw, some say that's all you are left with after getting married.Bugbite said:Never pay for a womans attention if you are looking for love/friendship /marriage/hand job.etc.
Hard not to be flippant.....too many of us have been there wioth dancers and Sp's. Chances are nothing is there. But find out fast before it costs you too much money!!TheWheel said:I sense some flippant attitude ... sorry to have wasted your time, eu.
KWI said:What is the difference between a girl liking to get naked in the street, or if they like the excitement of giving a blow job in the bathroom to a complete stranger.
KWI
Yes, happened 2 times, ended up being lucky enough to date both, one for 2 yrs and YES she still worked. It is a mentally taxing thing, but for the right person worth it! You never know the situation or why they do what they do. So make sure you ask, and do not guess and don't judge, lest ye be judged! Also make sure your prepared to help her deal with alot of emotions, remember she will have good customers (like me) as well as bad stinky, rude dolts. Also make sure if you part that you part on good terms, so if they come back to town they will shag your nuts off!TheWheel said:Has anyone ever fell completely, and unabashedly, in LOVE with an SP ?
Has the infatuation been so severe as to incompacitate you ?
Did you act on it ?!
jjkrszd said:Look. There's an easy solution to all this "falling for an escort" stuff. It goes like this:
- Take any escort (any one of them) and put them in a pair of fuzzy pink slippers, and a house-coat; tell them not to wear any make-up, and not to fuss over their hair before you arrive...Oh, also -- make sure they do not wear thong underwear, but regular waist highs and a regular bra, and no fake nails, and no pedicure.
petitelover said:A dancer who I bumped into at Starbucks many many months ago told me she thought guys that go to SC's are losers. I wonder what SP's really think?! I posted a thread if you want to read it.
I know they must think the least of us but you have to wonder how they can justify their feelings in their mind? I mean, sure, us guys are probably all saying the same things to the ladies (and not all of us have SOs at home), probably all looked at the same way by the dancers/sps/mpas etc. but really, who is really able to look down on anyone in this situation?poker said:Petite..... this comment makes absolute sense to me. I think that girls see the same types of guys acting the same way shift after shift. Most of us guys in the clubs probably have GF's or SO's at home none the wiser that we're there. I think these girls see the worst in human nature of men on a daily basis, so of course some of them think we're losers.
I knew one SP who let her BF have another GF on the side because she figured he would just get one anyways, because that's what guys do.... why not just let him have her out in the open? (Mind you, the other girl was in the dark about the situation....)
Cheers!
tboy said:I know they must think the least of us but you have to wonder how they can justify their feelings in their mind? I mean, sure, us guys are probably all saying the same things to the ladies (and not all of us have SOs at home), probably all looked at the same way by the dancers/sps/mpas etc. but really, who is really able to look down on anyone in this situation?
I mean, for those that think of guys as losers for paying for sex/paying for a handjob/paying for a lapdance, what about the one that is providing the service? How can she even think of looking down on someone when she's the one whacking 15 dicksaday/having sex with 3 guys a day/rubbing her beaver into 20 guy's crotches a night?
That's why I always treat the ladies with respect and never look down on them in the least for what they do. Hopefully they reciprovate the respect....
LOL just thinking, this reminds me of what I think when a hottie in a club turns me down: I just look her in the eye and think: yeah, you think you're too good for me eh? Well sunshine, least I won't ever have some guy's cock in my mouth and ball sweat all over my chin!!
You really don't respect these SP's. We have all been taught by school and society to say "I respect all women". But it is pretty clear to me that you don't. That paragraph says it all.tboy said:LOL just thinking, this reminds me of what I think when a hottie in a club turns me down: I just look her in the eye and think: yeah, you think you're too good for me eh? Well sunshine, least I won't ever have some guy's cock in my mouth and ball sweat all over my chin!!
enduser1 said:You really don't respect these SP's. We have all been taught by school and society to say "I respect all women". But it is pretty clear to me that you don't. That paragraph says it all.
Probably the reason that SP's are reserved in their approach to you is that they can pick up your "vibe." Not that there is anything wrong with that.
Personally I think you should marry an uptight virgin who hates sex. In your heart you will be happier bitching about how she never has sex, than you would married to a woman who has cockbreath.
EU
I don't totally disagree with your comment but if you subscribe to that theory couldn't one argue SC girls are losers also as patrons of SC's certainly see and hear a lot of "stuff" about them?poker said:Petite..... .. I think these girls see the worst in human nature of men on a daily basis, so of course some of them think we're losers.
Cheers!
petitelover said:I don't totally disagree with your comment but if you subscribe to that theory couldn't one argue SC girls are losers also as patrons of SC's certainly see and hear a lot of "stuff" about them?
SP's think guys that frequent strip bars excesively and do not spend any money are losers. It's basically about the bank roll.
SP's think guys that frequent strip bars excesively and do not spend any money are losers. It's basically about the bank roll.petitelover said:I don't totally disagree with your comment but if you subscribe to that theory couldn't one argue SC girls are losers also as patrons of SC's certainly see and hear a lot of "stuff" about them?
Disclosure!(for sc girls [or any girls for that matter] that read this, I am only throwing this out there for discussion based upon comments in this thread - I am not, repeat NOT, saying sc girls are losers)