Inexperience.

[reaper29]

Maybe try booking an SP for like a 3 or 4hr session, where you can hang out and light play before you get down to business.

If you're watching porn...stop. Same with jerking off .so thay you let the pressure build up. Best to also find an sp who will not put pressure on you to cum on demand.

 

[Gernobi]

You have to be attracted and if they hustle you in and out, for sure I wouldn't come either.

 

[newguy20]

28, and still learning what exactly to do.
Being told "Can't you cum?" And "can't you do foreplay" was quite the blow.

Good advice from both LTO_3 and TOM.
The kind of experience you need is best found in high school, where you're both a little unsure of what you want and learning as you go.
You're well beyond that but it would still be best if you could gain some experience outside of this world.
Failing that, I'd suggest finding a well-reviewed lady who is known or recommended for first timers or inexperienced guys.
As guys have already mentioned, ditch the porn, reduce the masturbation and don't make your orgasm the focus of your interaction.
Focus on the lady. Ask her what she likes. Watch her reaction to what you're doing. Try to read her body and increase her pleasure.
Not with an assembly line LL girl. With a civie or well reviewed lady who's willing to take that journey with you.

Good Luck.

 

[DesRicardo]

28, and still learning what exactly to do.
Being told "Can't you cum?" And "can't you do foreplay" was quite the blow.

Also, covered service reduces the sensation and pleasure.

It's not your fault. It's the system.

 

[Cloudcuculander]

Thank you everyone for the sage advice, I'll give it a shot the next time!

 

[PrincessBigBooty]

Don't know if this is the right place to post this, but man am feeling dejected.

I'm real inexperienced, been trying to get practice but ...everytime I've visited an SP I haven't been able to cum.
Sometimes they cum, sometimes they don't. Don't really have the experience to contribute to the former.

Anyone else had similar experiences?
Or am I the odd one out here.

If you are jacking off everyday or very often it can make it so you can’t cum atleast from my experience with guys. One of my regulars could never cum… I told him to go 14+ days without cumming or jacking off. He came within 10 mins

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Next time you see an SP, tell them your problem. Let the pro do all the work, just relax.

 

[chopper263]

If you are jacking off everyday or very often it can make it so you can’t cum atleast from my experience with guys. One of my regulars could never cum… I told him to go 14+ days without cumming or jacking off. He came within 10 mins

I gotta so what hes doing I'm the reverse wtf

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Also, covered service reduces the sensation and pleasure.

It's not your fault. It's the system.

Nope it’s his fault. He’s likely got issues with porn and the death grip and high expectations and rigid way of getting off

 

[Cloudcuculander]

Nope it’s his fault. He’s likely got issues with porn and the death grip and high expectations and rigid way of getting off

I should ease off on the pressure, good to know.