I think I just met with a man...
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Given the length of time this particular person has been active and how few tgirls are in the ottawa area, the chance of you having seen a natural born woman that he's seen is pretty darn high.
Doesn't bother me at all. And I disagree that it raises any risk at all. Just as many natural born women who take risks as tgirls.
And no...I'm not in to tgirls. Id rather natural born females. But I aint knocking anybody who wants that. Shit...I like feet for crying out loud.
He's in Montreal as far as I can tell. But no worries .. STDs don't travel ! lol
Personally, I don't want to be kissing an SP who has just seen a guy who just sucked off a tranny.
I know. Call me old fashioned
Personally, I don't want to be kissing an SP who has just seen a guy who just sucked off a tranny.
I know. Call me old fashioned
Fair enough...but you'd have no problem daty that he just did or dfk with an sp that just sucked off 2 or 3 dudes BBBJ?
Thanks.
I hope i can reply to this thread, otherwise please delete it.
Gender is not only determined by sex organ imo.
Yes, most of us were born identical with our sex organ, but few of us were not.
When i was a kid, as far as i remember, like 3-5 years old or something...I thought I was just a regular girl, because I felt that way until everyone around me told me I was not because I had a penis.
For more than half of my life, I tried to be a man, but I simply couldn't... because I was and am always a girl deep down. It's my core, it's my soul.
It's so deliberating that i can finally fully transition into a woman.
It's almost i used to have three legs and everyone mocked me...And now, finally I have two legs...Just like other people.
Finally I feel normal!
I could just change my escort's name in order to create a new persona as a female escort, but I can't.
I am proud of who I am and I also want to educate people that we are no less than other women.
I did my GRS (gender reassignment surgery) with the best surgeon in the world.
He is one of the very few who can create a neo vagina that is very similar to (CIS) women who were naturally born with it.
My sex life is still great as before because all the nerves are there.
The neo vagina, like natal vagina, is sensate and orgasmic.
I am blessed.
Cheers
Tia Phoenixx
In my honesty and experience with thousands of men, you will have a very hard time to differentiate between me and other women sexually, mentally and physically, rather than I'm more toned than most.
For me personally, I am here to provide a service and (or) a sexual fantasy or companionship to my clients.
It is my goal to make them happy. That's my priority.
Everything about me become secondary.
Therefore I don't have to tell a history of my life as long as my look, sensuality, personally and intelligence match my clients's wants and needs, UNLESS they ask me.
I am pretty blunt and honest. I don't have any problem to share my history if the clients ask.
Most don't ask, because they are satisfied.
For me personally, I am here to provide a service and (or) a sexual fantasy or companionship to my clients.
It is my goal to make them happy. That's my priority.
Everything about me become secondary.
Therefore I don't have to tell a history of my life as long as my look, sensuality, personally and intelligence match my clients's wants and needs, UNLESS they ask me.
I am pretty blunt and honest. I don't have any problem to share my history if the clients ask.
Most don't ask, because they are satisfied.
C
Caterina
This is a subject I've recently commented about on another board. I'd like to give my personal female perspective.
I believe that everyone deserves honesty and choice before a sexual experience. Someone's gender history should be disclosed before any sexual acts take place. Not disclosing gender history before meeting contributes to trans and homophobic violence and the possible shame and confusion of the sex partner once they've realized the truth of their partners gender history. Everyone is entitled to choose who they have sex with and what they want in a partner. Not disclosing is taking away one's sexual freedom of choice. Just because it's 2017 and we should all be accepting of trans does NOT make it ok to force anything on anyone sexually. I'm pro sexual choice. Pre op or post op, it should be disclosed. Being dishonest sexually negates the partners consent. Everyone has rights, even those who are straight and would decide to not have sex with a pre or post op trans.
Well, i personally think that is a very subjective comment, I have a different opinion.
As I stated previously, I am here to provide a service and companionship. And as far as the clients like my look, service and companionship, i don't feel the need to tell about my life's history UNLESS they ask me.
Tons of guys know my status and they are ok with it.
Few don't because they never ask. If they ask then I will tell them.
Nobody is forced to be with me btw.
They come and book their time because they are happy with what I've got and deliver.
I don't know you Caterina, but please tell me one thing as far as companionship or (and) sexual experience goes...Is there anything you can do, I can't do?
Anatomically we are the same.
In other words, I can do everything you can do in bed
Unless of course if they clients ask me to get pregnant lol.
Cheers
Tia
As I stated previously, I am here to provide a service and companionship. And as far as the clients like my look, service and companionship, i don't feel the need to tell about my life's history UNLESS they ask me.
Tons of guys know my status and they are ok with it.
Few don't because they never ask. If they ask then I will tell them.
Nobody is forced to be with me btw.
They come and book their time because they are happy with what I've got and deliver.
I don't know you Caterina, but please tell me one thing as far as companionship or (and) sexual experience goes...Is there anything you can do, I can't do?
Anatomically we are the same.
In other words, I can do everything you can do in bed
Unless of course if they clients ask me to get pregnant lol.
Cheers
Tia
That is my opinion as a provider.Well, i personally think that is a very subjective comment, I have a different opinion.
As I stated previously, I am here to provide a service and companionship. And as far as the clients like my look, service and companionship, i don't feel the need to tell about my life's history UNLESS they ask me.
Tons of guys know my status and they are ok with it.
Few don't because they never ask. If they ask then I will tell them.
Nobody is forced to be with me btw.
They come and book their time because they are happy with what I've got and deliver.
I don't know you Caterina, but please tell me one thing as far as companionship or (and) sexual experience goes...Is there anything you can do, I can't do?
Anatomically we are the same.
In other words, I can do everything you can do in bed
Unless of course if they clients ask me to get pregnant lol.
Cheers
Tia
As a person, I always tell my boyfriend or somebody whom I am dating with about my life's history, because honestly is number one priority in a relationship and I want my boyfriend know about me and my life.
I had two guys cried when I told them my history.
They had a hard time to digest at the beginning, but over time they have accepted me.
The reason is simply because I am a person first.
They love my personality and the sex is great, the only thing is different is the way I was born.
Once they feel connected with me, they are fine.
And if they are not fine with my life's history, it simply means they are not good enough to be my boyfriend.
I am a perfectionist, I have my standard
Cheers
I don’t really have an opinion to express on this subject, but wanted to convey how impressed I am with the articulate and mature way the last two posters (both sps) have chosen to express themselves. Both have chosen different sides of an argument, but have not resorted to mud slinging. You both have set the bar very high for the rest of us.
Thanks.
We are both adult, and I'm totally fine and open with a different point of view.
One last thing, transexual person is a person who is IN TRANSITION.
So, once we have completed our transition, we are Female (or male).
We don't want to be seen as something different or weird.
Our goal is to be normal and to be in sync with our soul.
We are people too, with brain, personality and other things that people have
Our goal is to be happy and to be accepted fully as a person and to be well integrated with the society.
That's all.
My trans's period has passed. I am finally just a woman. Full Stop.
Have a great day folks
Cheers
Thanks for the input my friend,
Frankly speaking, I see escorting as my business. Over the years, this business is not only helping me to pay for my transition, but also helping me accumulate assets like properties and other things.
In other words, this is a serious business.
From a client's point of view, of course the clients wish that the girls/ providers are totally honest about them, but unfortunately very few of us are.
Therefore, there is no surprise lots of clients complain about fake pictures, or a provider who looks older or doesn't look like the pics and so on.
I do my very best to be more fair in this business.
I always post new untouched photos, newest STD's result is disclosed...My age is getting older every year and so on...
From a provider's point of view, I have to prioritize my clients's satisfaction, but at the same, I have to make sure that the business remains profitable for me.
My principle is not "don't ask don't Tell"
No.
They are welcome to ask, but I just don't feel the need to share my life's history.
It's almost when you have a plastic surgery..
Do you tell to everyone that you have a nose job?
I guess not.
But if they ask...I will tell the truth.
Cheers
P.s:. I'm going to retire soon.
It's time to have a new life with my partner ��
Frankly speaking, I see escorting as my business. Over the years, this business is not only helping me to pay for my transition, but also helping me accumulate assets like properties and other things.
In other words, this is a serious business.
From a client's point of view, of course the clients wish that the girls/ providers are totally honest about them, but unfortunately very few of us are.
Therefore, there is no surprise lots of clients complain about fake pictures, or a provider who looks older or doesn't look like the pics and so on.
I do my very best to be more fair in this business.
I always post new untouched photos, newest STD's result is disclosed...My age is getting older every year and so on...
From a provider's point of view, I have to prioritize my clients's satisfaction, but at the same, I have to make sure that the business remains profitable for me.
My principle is not "don't ask don't Tell"
No.
They are welcome to ask, but I just don't feel the need to share my life's history.
It's almost when you have a plastic surgery..
Do you tell to everyone that you have a nose job?
I guess not.
But if they ask...I will tell the truth.
Cheers
P.s:. I'm going to retire soon.
It's time to have a new life with my partner ��
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I've done a fully transition 'girl' before a few years back. She advertised female. Didn't like the experience when I didn't know. Didn't like the experience more when I found out after. Were they the same as when I was with a natural woman? No. But that was my one and only experience.
Would I make the same choice if I knew? Maybe if "she" felt like a woman. But unfortunately that connection didn't happened. The experience felt fake, and turned out to be fake.
Either way, the whole,
"My principle is not "don't ask don't Tell"
No.
They are welcome to ask, but I just don't feel the need to share my life's history."
That is a play on "don't ask, don't tell"
By not disclosing to me, my choice was taken away from me.
Would I make the same choice if I knew? Maybe if "she" felt like a woman. But unfortunately that connection didn't happened. The experience felt fake, and turned out to be fake.
Either way, the whole,
"My principle is not "don't ask don't Tell"
No.
They are welcome to ask, but I just don't feel the need to share my life's history."
That is a play on "don't ask, don't tell"
By not disclosing to me, my choice was taken away from me.
