no, id google it to be certain, but chicken pox if resurrected (due to immune system weakening due to external stress) is shingles. chickenpox/shignles is herpes zoster , while the virus is in the herpes family it is not the same strain as hsv1 or hsv2. it also shows up in different spots of the body.
I got Herpes from a BBBJ
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i'm going to guess its due to the lesions are like open wounds. if you google some photos you will be shocked at how severe it can get (hsv2 on genitials)
I believe you are mistaken when you say you can get sores on your face if you are infected through the genitals. When HSV1 gets in the genitals, it goes in totally different nerves than the face.
Also, from reading some of the posts here I am shocked at how ignorant the general public is about these diseases. Penelopebloom, I thought I saw you bragging before you went to law school or something, but you don't know you can get the herp from a bj?
Also, from reading some of the posts here I am shocked at how ignorant the general public is about these diseases. Penelopebloom, I thought I saw you bragging before you went to law school or something, but you don't know you can get the herp from a bj?
man I needed this I'm officially retired I had an in grown hair an started panicking but it us clear a break out is much more noticeable an distinguishable then one bump from in grown hair with no pain or liquid
I posted a pretty good summary citing primary medical literature on here
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...-from-a-BBBJ&p=6543538&viewfull=1#post6543538
Yet people are still spreading misinformation ... I’ll be honest though herpes is complex topic. It’s all a numbers game.
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...-from-a-BBBJ&p=6543538&viewfull=1#post6543538
Yet people are still spreading misinformation ... I’ll be honest though herpes is complex topic. It’s all a numbers game.
Nobody I saw had a visible cold sore (I'm not that reckless) but it can be transmitted through shedding at any time, plus the SP could have had sores inside her mouth, so there's really no way to tell.
This I believe. With so many ladies coming and going from the industry there's no way to ensure testing is done and even if ladies were tested monthly it doesn't mean they didn't pick up something in the last week or two. CBJ and, of course, CFS minimize the risk, but there's no way to eliminate it in a hobby where you see many ladies and they, in turn, see many clients.
I think genital herpes is more stigmatized even if it is HSV-1. The issue isn't whether I should have sex ever again, but whether I am ethically required to disclose it. Most resources say I should disclose, in which case most ladies, like yourself, would then pass (can't blame them really) so what am I supposed to do. The choice seems to be between not disclosing or becoming celibate. Neither is a good option.
I am almost positive that my wife has been faithful and, to be clear, I do not think I have passed anything on to her. I got symptoms within a few days of being infected and stayed far away from her. I agree that telling her about hobbying would be a mistake. I thought about coming clean and hoping she would understand that the lack of action at home was a contributing factor, but decided she would never understand and it's not fair to try and put any of the "blame" on her.
First you start with herpes. Then you try chlamydia. Before you know it, you are hooked, and you got AIDS. I think you are in the second step now, or are you already past that?
Just posting an update on my status. I had a bad outbreak, but it is now clearing up quickly. Since it os HSV-1, my wife accepts that I could have contracted this in childhood since my dad had quite a few cold sores and that I either transmitted it to my own genitals, or maybe she did by kissing me and then performing oral (which she rarely does). It really makes no sense, but she trusts me and maybe just wants to believe this. I took the advice of members and have not mentioned my lobbying and think that was probably good advice. She would have never understood that and we really do have a good marriage and I am a good father and provider so absolutely no indication (at least for now) that she would leave me. She understands that she has some risk and we will go back to using condoms when the outbreak clears and I will take suppressive anti-virals to minimize the risk of transmission. It's still a life altering diagnosis, but I guess it is working out pretty well for now. I suspect most wives would not be as naive or understanding, but so far so good.
Glad you have sorted through this as best as possible. Sometimes you can get decent advice on TERB to at least start you out on your own research and decision-making.
It's only hypocracy if not true, by the way how is your retirement going?
This is a cool idea but I don't think it is feasible because testing takes time and isn't cheap. But I do think SPs and clients should be, ideally, required to undergo regular testing for the standard STI panel and have to present a certificate to confirm they were tested recently. Though I doubt that this would actually happen.
Many Thanks to Schlong, KoreanJames and many others who provided support and information.
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