Congratulations, you are in the minority group.With wife, daily (at the least). With an SP (and wife), once every 1 to 2 months.
I realize that my answer is probably not what is the norm for guys on this site but my situation is different from most.
Is it really that rare to love having sex with your wife and for the wife to love having sex? Am I that much in the minority?
1. 1 to 2 times a week1. How often do you have sex with your significant other a week.
2. How often do you have sex with a SP a week?
Depends how old he is. Sure in my 20s I was having sex every day...Congratulations, you are in the minority group.
sorry to hear but honestly? Hate sex is some of the best I've had...I used to have so much sex with my SO. I’ve always been a double-dipper, seeing escorts during the day and then often coming home and then having sex with my wife. Maybe “guilt-fuck” is the wrong word but I used to fuck my wife (we stopped “making love” years ago lol) quite regularly. However, circumstances in our lives have changed and our relationship has been tested and strained. She basically doesn’t want to be married to me but she doesn’t want to be divorced either. I’ve had sex about 4 times since Christmas. I’ve been laying low not seeing any escorts for the last 6-9 months because I’m trying to sincerely invest time and effort into our relationship but she’s so far gone and committed to hating me that the sex is just….. it’s killing me lol i need to start booking SPs regularly
MPs so not alwaysWowzers you must have some great SP regulars to do 1-2x a week!
Damn, I am New to the hobby. I thought I had a problem with 14x times in 5 months, you make me feel much better lol!
what’s hate sex? having Sex with someone you hate? Sounds kinky and even Borderline rape lol I would have sex with my wife but she hates me so much she won’t even look at me. Last few times we had sex the experiences were just lazy pathetic pitty fucks and she put in zero effort. I don’t want to sound like a dog or anything but my wife hasn’t put in any effort into our sex or her appearance for the better part of 3 years now. It’s getting pathetic for me. I tried to say there was so much more to our life that we could improve on and if I focused on that then the sex might come back. No luck on that front. The space between us grows as does the time between acts of copulation. She thinks I’m gay… Escorts are sounding better and better lolsorry to hear but honestly? Hate sex is some of the best I've had...
Obviously full consent is required by both but ya...close. She was good with it...me, I hurt a little bit afterwards...what’s hate sex? having Sex with someone you hate? Sounds kinky and even Borderline rape
Kinda like angry sex.Obviously full consent is required by both but ya...close. She was good with it...me, I hurt a little bit afterwards...
Might be looking for a while for a unicorn that allows you to fk escorts on the side haha!I just want to say, to wrap up instead of BBBJ if you decide to hobby while dating, you dont want to bring something unwanted home and then have to admit to your partner of your faults, its best to be open about it and if your partner isnt open for that, find someone who is.
Go to japan, its more normalized there, alot of girls dont think its cheating if youre paying for a service aslong as youre safeMight be looking for a while for a unicorn that allows you to fk escorts on the side haha!
Good phrase. I've heard 'Aunt Flo" but "red tide" works too.With the GF’s 4 or 5 x/week is fine.
SP’s? Once in a red tide.
sorry to hear that…..All marriages have their challenges and its always a two way street. if one party doesnt put in the effort or there is a lack or trust or respect, things can go downhill very quickly. what happened in you relationship to go from great sex an relationship to you current state?I used to have so much sex with my SO. I’ve always been a double-dipper, seeing escorts during the day and then often coming home and then having sex with my wife. Maybe “guilt-fuck” is the wrong word but I used to fuck my wife (we stopped “making love” years ago lol) quite regularly. However, circumstances in our lives have changed and our relationship has been tested and strained. She basically doesn’t want to be married to me but she doesn’t want to be divorced either. I’ve had sex about 4 times since Christmas. I’ve been laying low not seeing any escorts for the last 6-9 months because I’m trying to sincerely invest time and effort into our relationship but she’s so far gone and committed to hating me that the sex is just….. it’s killing me lol i need to start booking SPs regularly
For me once every 7 years. And counting. Probably 7 1/2 by now. I started going to semi legit spas about 7 years ago. Now I don't care if the clock keeps ticking to 8. I now get "massages" twice a week, and by back scrubbed in the shower (twice a week).Don't worry, you still have a problem (if it makes you feel better). Mine might just slightly be worse.
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