There are days I need to pinch myself and hope I don't wake up and it was only a dream. It's definitely a fun ride.You have a wonderful life from what you have shared here on terb, your open relationship with your wife is rather unique and you are in a small minority for sure.
Every friend I have helped take to strip clubs or navigate booking their first escort is because their wives have stop having sex with them many months, often years, ago. Still Co-parenting and 'best friends' but zero sex. Often they no longer even sleep in the same bed as well.