How often with your Significant other...?

hockeyguy19

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You have a wonderful life from what you have shared here on terb, your open relationship with your wife is rather unique and you are in a small minority for sure.

Every friend I have helped take to strip clubs or navigate booking their first escort is because their wives have stop having sex with them many months, often years, ago. Still Co-parenting and 'best friends' but zero sex. Often they no longer even sleep in the same bed as well.
There are days I need to pinch myself and hope I don't wake up and it was only a dream. It's definitely a fun ride.
 
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GameBoy27

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Minimum once a week with my wife. I'll go for a 1 hour RMT quality massage with a HE once every 2 weeks. Limiting factor is time. We're both so busy. When we're on holidays, we have sex almost daily.
 

DiscreetRocker

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Not married and I don't play with escorts when in a committed relationship.

But at least daily when I'm dating. The few women I've dated who wanted sex less often than every day, I focused on fooling around and getting them off. Totally ignored getting off myself for a while. After some time they initiate as often as I do and the sex becomes at least daily. Works like a charm.

Escorts it depends on my schedule. I aim for at least monthly. Preferably once a week.
 
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trippingwalker

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I used to have so much sex with my SO. I’ve always been a double-dipper, seeing escorts during the day and then often coming home and then having sex with my wife. Maybe “guilt-fuck” is the wrong word but I used to fuck my wife (we stopped “making love” years ago lol) quite regularly. However, circumstances in our lives have changed and our relationship has been tested and strained. She basically doesn’t want to be married to me but she doesn’t want to be divorced either. I’ve had sex about 4 times since Christmas. I’ve been laying low not seeing any escorts for the last 6-9 months because I’m trying to sincerely invest time and effort into our relationship but she’s so far gone and committed to hating me that the sex is just….. it’s killing me lol i need to start booking SPs regularly
 

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I’m separated for three years and meet up with my ex who lives in different town about 6-12 times per year. She not interested in seeing anyone else and her sex drive has diminished over the years but she wants sex whenever in the mood when I am in town
My sex drive motor is still high
I supplement my sex encounters with a arrangement with young nympho FWB nonpro I see twice a month and escorts when I’m in the mood
I like to try travel sex adventures as well and my last trip was to a FKK club in Germany
Don’t do as much massage services
Though it was my main outlet when I was attached
 
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johnd5050

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With wife, daily (at the least). With an SP (and wife), once every 1 to 2 months.

I realize that my answer is probably not what is the norm for guys on this site but my situation is different from most.

Is it really that rare to love having sex with your wife and for the wife to love having sex? Am I that much in the minority?
Congratulations, you are in the minority group.
 
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John_Jacob

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I used to have so much sex with my SO. I’ve always been a double-dipper, seeing escorts during the day and then often coming home and then having sex with my wife. Maybe “guilt-fuck” is the wrong word but I used to fuck my wife (we stopped “making love” years ago lol) quite regularly. However, circumstances in our lives have changed and our relationship has been tested and strained. She basically doesn’t want to be married to me but she doesn’t want to be divorced either. I’ve had sex about 4 times since Christmas. I’ve been laying low not seeing any escorts for the last 6-9 months because I’m trying to sincerely invest time and effort into our relationship but she’s so far gone and committed to hating me that the sex is just….. it’s killing me lol i need to start booking SPs regularly
sorry to hear but honestly? Hate sex is some of the best I've had...
 
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John_Jacob

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Damn, I am New to the hobby. I thought I had a problem with 14x times in 5 months, you make me feel much better lol!
:LOL: Don't worry, you still have a problem (if it makes you feel better). Mine might just slightly be worse. :p
 
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trippingwalker

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sorry to hear but honestly? Hate sex is some of the best I've had...
what’s hate sex? having Sex with someone you hate? Sounds kinky and even Borderline rape lol I would have sex with my wife but she hates me so much she won’t even look at me. Last few times we had sex the experiences were just lazy pathetic pitty fucks and she put in zero effort. I don’t want to sound like a dog or anything but my wife hasn’t put in any effort into our sex or her appearance for the better part of 3 years now. It’s getting pathetic for me. I tried to say there was so much more to our life that we could improve on and if I focused on that then the sex might come back. No luck on that front. The space between us grows as does the time between acts of copulation. She thinks I’m gay… Escorts are sounding better and better lol
 
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desperadick

I just want to say, to wrap up instead of BBBJ if you decide to hobby while dating, you dont want to bring something unwanted home and then have to admit to your partner of your faults, its best to be open about it and if your partner isnt open for that, find someone who is.
 

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I just want to say, to wrap up instead of BBBJ if you decide to hobby while dating, you dont want to bring something unwanted home and then have to admit to your partner of your faults, its best to be open about it and if your partner isnt open for that, find someone who is.
Might be looking for a while for a unicorn that allows you to fk escorts on the side haha!
 
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desperadick

Might be looking for a while for a unicorn that allows you to fk escorts on the side haha!
Go to japan, its more normalized there, alot of girls dont think its cheating if youre paying for a service aslong as youre safe
 

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I used to have so much sex with my SO. I’ve always been a double-dipper, seeing escorts during the day and then often coming home and then having sex with my wife. Maybe “guilt-fuck” is the wrong word but I used to fuck my wife (we stopped “making love” years ago lol) quite regularly. However, circumstances in our lives have changed and our relationship has been tested and strained. She basically doesn’t want to be married to me but she doesn’t want to be divorced either. I’ve had sex about 4 times since Christmas. I’ve been laying low not seeing any escorts for the last 6-9 months because I’m trying to sincerely invest time and effort into our relationship but she’s so far gone and committed to hating me that the sex is just….. it’s killing me lol i need to start booking SPs regularly
sorry to hear that…..All marriages have their challenges and its always a two way street. if one party doesnt put in the effort or there is a lack or trust or respect, things can go downhill very quickly. what happened in you relationship to go from great sex an relationship to you current state?

hope things turn around for you TW.
 
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