How do you get a man to not cheat on you ?
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The reason men cheat. Is because of a high percentage of men have ego issues. The male cheater is perceived to be more of a man than a man who is happily married.
In the past I struggled with this mind set. Each man has to look at their shortcomings then make the necessary changes. This applies to woman also.
Not sure where your going with this. Last I heard we're just men or MALES, trying to adjust to the so called female discontent in this world. And never think once that this applies to all females !!!!!!Women are pickier. This drives guys to improve their personality, earn more, learn new skill to be attractive , etc. Women don't need to do any of that. Thus men get over the vagina allure and seek a new thrill. That was what Patrice o niel said in different wording.
And its probably the same reason men earn more than women too; men's attractiveness is also tired to income and women's is not. So men work harder to get better chicks.
This drives guys to improve their personality, earn more, learn new skill to be attractive - Wrong !!
Women don't need to do any of that. - Wrong again !!
Thus men get over the vagina allure and seek a new thrill. -
Men's attractiveness is also tired to income. - Somewhat, the guys who believe this, are in for a rude awakening. Never underestimate the inner feelings of a female
Men's attractiveness is also tired to income - Maybe security, which has nothing to do with true attractiveness.
So men work harder to get better chicks. - You could have used a more appropriate word than Chicks. You see, this is where your whole theory, falls apart !!!!!
Men get told no when trying to date far more than attractive women. Even the most desirable male hears no more than yes. Makes us grateful when yes is on the table. Therefore, I believe it is all as simple as a man is as faithful as his options.
BTW, Chris Rock didn't start that saying anymore than "I pay her to leave" started with Charlie Sheen.
BTW, Chris Rock didn't start that saying anymore than "I pay her to leave" started with Charlie Sheen.
Wouldn't have expected that from a sweetie pie like Chloe, but who am I to judge
that's why you have me as a fan Chloe, there's a smoldering crazy sex machine hiding under sweet exterior.You would have more credibility if your hand wasn't raised on an escort review site.My hand is raised.
I have to catch up on this thread.
Even if I was already in an emotionally & sexually fulfilling relationship, a bead of sweat would drip down my brow as I look at that amazingly sensual picture of you - Natasha - and I wonder ..what if ????
No I'm guilty as well !! But we were sleeping in separate bedrooms and sex was no longer an option !!!Is that it? Only one?
Btw, that pic of yours is driving me nuts !!!!
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lol. True being part of an escort review board does provide a stigma related to infidelity and womanizing....
..... (incidentally I am part of another board caerf.cc, TER, and I have a twitter account https://twitter.com/1Chaos_Theory, so I am neck/knee deep in this thing as I actually review and fraternize rather than lurk and stuff) .....
However, the question by yes, our inciting, elegant, intelligent and beautiful muse Natasha summers was if one had cheated on their SO when in a monogamous relationship. My participation in these avenues seeking both cognitive and physical companionship is by extension and illustrates that I am not in a monogamous relationship. If I was, I wouldn't be on indulging. Even being on the boards while in a monogamous relationship creates an extremely slippery slope to infidelity. Most have to/should quit.
My longest relationship was six years & was 100% faithful.If you find someone you truly love & she enjoys sex as much as you do,no reason too.
In my younger days,i cheated on my highschool sweetheart with one of her best friends.She found out in a bad way & slit her wrist.Both of us went to the hospital to see her & the look on her parents face i can still remember to this day.That taught me a lesson,never cheated after that.When i was on the road playing hockey i did get the odd bj from a stranger & in my mind i never thought of that as cheating.
That's the nice thing about being single,you can sleep with whom ever you want whenever you want.Sure makes the married guys jealous...
why do men cheat....HAHAHAHA good one.
Men don't cheat. They're men. Not women.
If women would stop trying to make men into women relationships would be better off.
Their penis belongs to them, it never belongs to their wife/gf/whomever.
Everyone enjoys pleasure, but sadly society makes it much more taboo for women to enjoy sex and be free with it.
IMHO if a relationship revolves around not cheating, that relationship isn't much of a relationship its a keep your penis in your pants agreement.
Men like variety, and there is nothing wrong with that.
Men don't cheat. They're men. Not women.
If women would stop trying to make men into women relationships would be better off.
Their penis belongs to them, it never belongs to their wife/gf/whomever.
Everyone enjoys pleasure, but sadly society makes it much more taboo for women to enjoy sex and be free with it.
IMHO if a relationship revolves around not cheating, that relationship isn't much of a relationship its a keep your penis in your pants agreement.
Men like variety, and there is nothing wrong with that.
Yeah, this.
When I'm in a stable, emotionally healthy relationship, I don't cheat. It's just that I'm rarely in a stable, emotionally healthy relationship.
Am I broken in that regard? Probably. Let's face it: most of us probably are, on this board. But that's the way it is.
+1 this is the best audience for this type of question and glad you asked it. Not everybody fits the stereotype although some people feel content and comfortable fitting into the box.
well the audience can sure relate to what i'm talking about
