How do you get a man to not cheat on you ?

surferboy

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Hey don't feel sorry,taught me a good lesson.Oh she moved on,think she still despises me but thats understandable.Happily married last i heard.

Oh btw lovely derriere,can only imagine how many guys have wanted to give that a lick.Im a bit of a germaphobe like you,the term dato turns my stomach.
 

Gingerbeard

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A truly ironic thread...

I think men (and women) cheat because one or more of the following occurs:

1. They get bored with their companion - that amazing feeling at the beginning just isn't there any more
2. Opportunity knocks
3. They want something else - changed their mind

But let's be realistic. If I'm looking for a mate, there are at least 100 million women on this planet who could meet my needs. I'll likely meet 50 of them before I get married. That leaves 999,999,950 I haven't met yet. What are the odds I'll like one of them better?

Your companion/wife/husband/lover is just the best one you've met so far. With only one life, how confident are you that you've met the best one?
 

GPIDEAL

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My faith in humanity has ben restored. Surferboy, I'm sorry that happened to you. We often don't think how our actions affect other people. I hope your high school sweetheart was able to move on from that and is able to trust men.
Yes, that was a sad but touching story. Infidelity can be very traumatic. Yes, I hope his ex has moved on to have a fruitful, emotional life, and that his story has taught a lesson for many.
 

Spa addict

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Men cheat because we have a need to conquer , plain and simple , if guys were honest we are all a little insecure inside and we need the adrenalin rush of having sex with a new women even if we get everything we need at home . We are not meant to have only one women/partner , it is just not realistic.. We are male we are visual creatures and we love the experience of a new sexual partner ,, plain and simple .
Women would be better to understand we are gonna fuck around and men would do better to not put ourselves in situations where we give false expectations to our female partners !!! We need to conquer period,, I'm not sayin in today's society it is correct or even healthy ??? But imho it is how it is ..
 

lomotil

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Only two ways exist unfortunately ladies, one is make him into a eunuch, the second is to kill him. Men cheat because they can, only disability or death can stop them.
 

Titalian

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I know men who claim to be monogamous. It's a novelty that's for sure!
Oh come-on Lily, there are men out there who are monogamous, the thing is, you'll never see them in your bed.
 

buttercup

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How do you get a man to not cheat on you?
Do this -- vice versa of course.


The only thing is, the more you love him, the more you make him feel like no end of a chap, which fills him with confidence that he's attractive, and off he goes all the more. C'est l'amour.
 

Lily Divine

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If you do, and you enjoy him, trust me hes a keeper !!!
Even if you find one there seems to be a shelf life on monogamy. That point somewhere down the relationship road where a fork is chosen.

I think I prefer knowing there will be intersections along the road instead of hoping there is never a fork to be chosen.
 

abv

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Even if you find one there seems to be a shelf life on monogamy. That point somewhere down the relationship road where a fork is chosen.

I think I prefer knowing there will be intersections along the road instead of hoping there is never a fork to be chosen.

Do you mean "fork" or fuck?
 

Titalian

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Even if you find one there seems to be a shelf life on monogamy. That point somewhere down the relationship road where a fork is chosen.

I think I prefer knowing there will be intersections along the road instead of hoping there is never a fork to be chosen.
Not, if she or he truly enjoys your company, sex and all. Theres a lot to be said about this, but I don't think this board is the proper forum to be commenting on this subject.
 
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