How do you apologize...

Everything we need to know we learned in Kindergarden,,,,,If you hurt someone SAY YOU ARE SORRY! Don't make excuses for what you did wrong, don't try to justify what you did, don't try to put the responsibility for your actions on the other person....a simple "I was a bastard and I had no justification for what I did. I AM SORRY, you deserved better" pretty simple really. Be sure you are doing it to ease HER pain and give HER closure though, how you feel is really irrelevent cause you are the one who did wrong. JUST my opinion, I could be wrong ;)
 
LadyTY2Uall said:
Everything we need to know we learned in Kindergarden. . . If you hurt someone SAY YOU ARE SORRY! Don't make excuses for what you did wrong, don't try to justify what you did, don't try to put the responsibility for your actions on the other person....a simple "I was a bastard and I had no justification for what I did. I AM SORRY, you deserved better" pretty simple really. Be sure you are doing it to ease HER pain and give HER closure though, how you feel is really irrelevent cause you are the one who did wrong. JUST my opinion, I could be wrong ;)
Spot on if what you are driving at is atonement. Which although it probably isn't too popular on TERB has real value.
 
LadyTY2Uall said:
Everything we need to know we learned in Kindergarden,,,,,If you hurt someone SAY YOU ARE SORRY! Don't make excuses for what you did wrong, don't try to justify what you did, don't try to put the responsibility for your actions on the other person....a simple "I was a bastard and I had no justification for what I did. I AM SORRY, you deserved better" pretty simple really. Be sure you are doing it to ease HER pain and give HER closure though, how you feel is really irrelevent cause you are the one who did wrong. JUST my opinion, I could be wrong ;)


I nominate this for best response in this thread!

Well said Lady!
 
LadyTY2Uall said:
Everything we need to know we learned in Kindergarden,,,,,If you hurt someone SAY YOU ARE SORRY! Don't make excuses for what you did wrong, don't try to justify what you did, don't try to put the responsibility for your actions on the other person....a simple "I was a bastard and I had no justification for what I did. I AM SORRY, you deserved better" pretty simple really. Be sure you are doing it to ease HER pain and give HER closure though, how you feel is really irrelevent cause you are the one who did wrong. JUST my opinion, I could be wrong ;)


I agree - very well said - short and to the point.
I hope you done mind.. I'm using it!
 
look,

it entirely depends on what you are apologizing for.

If you cheated that's bad. If you beat her, well stay away and don't bother apologizing. If you missed a date by screwing up your calendar - apologize. If you gave her a sexually transmitted disease, well, apologize and stay away.

It really all depends.