Honest question

[DirtyMiind]

In a case like that, then I found clients who used to use this technique the most polite:
You: "Do you have any restrictions?"
Lady: "I don't do X,Y, and Z."

At this point, she has already opened up the discussion about specific services, so you're now free to ask her specific questions too. If she didn't answer or says something like "I only discuss that in private" -- then that too is an answer which you're free to interpret. She may be too shy for the services you're looking for.

I generally follow something similar and only inquire about specific services after rates and restrictions have been provided and I still have any uncertainty, but I do see what you mean about letting her be specific first. I'll give that a try.

 

[massman]

There is 2 school in this game. The ones that rather be specific and therefore are not subject to ymmv and the girls that leave that blank because it's up to how she feels around you. Their website will be a good indicator of what they like to do. If there are no details, dont ask. If there is details, I guess you can ask. If they offer acronyms and get pissy when you ask, take your business elsewhere.

Personally I chose to be very specific about my services but I kind of regret it today. I wish I would have been more ymmv. I often found myself wishing people were coming for me and not for a very specific type of service. It's hard to explain. I found myself having to deliver to people who couldn't careless if it was a blowup Doll or me, as long as they can cum in my face.
It makes you more picky.

Good post. Unfortunately some guys are just looking for 3 holes, and tits and ass. I’ve never seen you but you’ve got a reputation here as so much more than this, and really seem to be a sweet cool person.

 

[DirtyMiind]

Good post. Unfortunately some guys are just looking for 3 holes, and tits and ass. I’ve never seen you but you’ve got a reputation here as so much more than this, and really seem to be a sweet cool person.

She definitely is, I can attest to that. She made me feel very comfortable and welcomed when visiting her, and her skills really are quite remarkable. The things she does with that tongue, my gawd.

 

[MaverickPunter]

You know, I was pondering this question as I pulled a rubber band out of my cats anus....he likes to eat rubber bands....don't judge him. Although I'm becoming more and more convinced he does it on purpose just to hear me wretch. And I was thinking "hmm, maybe I should get a new cat?....this one is a dick"...but also, reading your post...multi-task. Yeah, just be straight forward "How much to take a steaming turd on my chest?" or, whatever it is that you want. As mentioned, if you don't like what you hear just turn the dial and listen to a new station. Providers do the exact same thing when they find clients they don't like....they turn the dial.