I made a new years resolution to drastically reduce my MP visits in 2017. I had around 75 sessions in 2016 with 50 of those with my favourite MPA. I decided to abstain for the month of January. That lasted two days - I saw my fave today for another off the charts session. Any advice on how I can curtail this hobby?
Hobbying less resolution for 2017
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Tha is what I am realizing.....it's not easy to give up the endorphin release of sexual activities with gorgeous young ladies....oh well...life could be a lot worse.
Ask yourself what you would like to buy for $10,000 dollars. Then decide if it's more important then what? About 6 months of MP'S? Then decide if you can go once every ten days instead of every five.
But hey, if you want to hand $10,000 over for handjobs, go ahead.
But hey, if you want to hand $10,000 over for handjobs, go ahead.
Good advice. I am getting much more than a HJ but point taken and I have set a goal to cap visits to three a month. That will save me at least $8k which I can put into rrsp.
Get off terb
Find another hobby that uses your time
Slowly and realistically reduce the urge. 75 session is more than once a week. Cut it down to once a week, than twice a month etc.
Stopping is hard, almost impossible.
Slowing down is very doable.
Great advice. I have put a profile up on match.com and plan to put more effort into finding a gf instead of living in my very expensive fantasy world. More exercise should help work out excess sexual energy.
Exercise is good and bad for this hobby.
Good = health, appearance, confidence
Bad = you will have a higher sex drive soooo...
Having a GF is more expensive than hobbying when you calculate all expenses. Direct and hidden ones. You'd be surprised.
May be true but one thing I have realized is that I am seeking real intimacy with a woman....not imaginary intimacy that I am paying for. I've been doing this for twenty years and time to make some changes...It would be nice to have someone to talk to, laugh with and be a companion to me.
Hey....as with many of life's challenges and dilemmas....the answer must come from within.
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OnTheWayOut
Asking sex addicts won't get you useful answers, you need to ask ex-sex addicts
That is why I have been seeing a sex addiction counsellor for a few months....slow progress but feel I am heading in right direction.
This realization will help curb the desire, it has been the only thing that slowed me down.
I'm also on the reducing or cutting down my hobbying bandwagon, although I didn't want to call it a resolution.
Resolutions seem to be broken too easily. I've seen some good advice here. I'm exercising a lot more regularly, eating healthier, I've got some other hobbies. I have some other goals I need to save up some money for. I need to help out family more. But I really miss my favourite special ladies. I grew very attached to some of my favourite regulars. Now that I don't see them as much, I remember the good times, and I want more. I always want more.. That's when I need a distraction. I used to belong and participate on a bunch of other forums for cars and electronics. But it seems forums are dying. For those that are still around, participation is very low. Most have gone to Facebook groups and twitter.
I'm planning on trying to get out more socially and hopefully meeting people F2F.
Resolutions seem to be broken too easily. I've seen some good advice here. I'm exercising a lot more regularly, eating healthier, I've got some other hobbies. I have some other goals I need to save up some money for. I need to help out family more. But I really miss my favourite special ladies. I grew very attached to some of my favourite regulars. Now that I don't see them as much, I remember the good times, and I want more. I always want more.. That's when I need a distraction. I used to belong and participate on a bunch of other forums for cars and electronics. But it seems forums are dying. For those that are still around, participation is very low. Most have gone to Facebook groups and twitter.
I'm planning on trying to get out more socially and hopefully meeting people F2F.
