so ture, very hard indeed. but just remind yourself you pay to see her, if not for $$, she will not even want to see you, that will bring the excitement down a bit..I'm also on the reducing or cutting down my hobbying bandwagon, although I didn't want to call it a resolution.
But I really miss my favourite special ladies. I grew very attached to some of my favourite regulars. Now that I don't see them as much, I remember the good times, and I want more.