I figure this is a "find one, find a lot" proposition, in that if I can find one, I can ask her to help me find more. I have trolled around on some dating boards and personal ad sites and stuff and I have come up with two chicks who want me to be their "sugar daddy" but neither were really what I am looking for, they are not recent immigrants, and I think these sugar daddy chicks probably just want to play me and might not put out. Anyway I will follow along with it and see where it goes.
The thing is I don't know how much time I want to spend on this. I don't mind spending time if I have a good chance of meeting the right kind of girls, but if I trolled pacmall or a coffee shop I would mostly meet chicks who would NOT be interested. I need to advertise to them somehow so that I can spend time chatting with chicks who might go for it.
Maybe I shoudl become an ESL teacher or something.
So as I see it the hardest part is that I can't hit on these chicks the way you normally would because i am too old for them, I somehow have to communicate to them what I want without getting my face slapped or getting yelled at by the moral majority. If I were looking for a 30-35 year old I could just hit on her and she might think I want a GF, then I could let slip what I really want gradually and probably feel it out a bit... but if I try that with the 19 year old I'm really after she probably wouldn't even give me the time of day.
I think some form of advertising has to be the way, or finding one chick and letting her spread the word among her friends.