Hitting on recent immigrants

[fuji]

So in my "hitting on your wifes friend" thread you guys all suggested I find some other women to hit on. Here is a new thread...

I am sure you have noticed that there are a lot of beautiful young women from overseas filling out the ranks of the agencies and MP's in Toronto. If you chat with them a bit, you will discover that a lot of them didn't plan on this job when they came over to go to school, but got into it after they were here as a way of paying the bills. It's quite a common story, from EE's, asians, etc.

So I bet that for every chick who took this industry up professionally, there's 10 more who are in a similar situation but not quite willing to go "pro". But willing perhaps to hook up in a casual relationship with a local guy who was willing to help them out a bit with their financial situation, even if he were a married guy 15 years older...

The trouble is these chicks dont' know their way around the city, wouldn't know about online dating systems, and probably don't have good enough English to be on those places anyway. I have actually looked on the online boards and you just get a lot of local women who aren't that young or pretty and/or are really pro's in disguise.

So here is a question... if you were interested in finding these girls, and proposing a deal like that, how would you go about it? You can't exactly just walk up to every young foreign student and proposition her, etc., so it is a question of how to find them and meet them in a way that doesn't result in getting your face slapped a lot.

Call me a slimeball if you want, but hey, it is a step up from hitting on my wife's friend, right?

 

[ruck]

Hey fuji, you're an idiot.

How the hell did you ever get married if you need to ask us all these questions? LOL

P.S. - Slimeball

 

[Montecore]

Most visa students come from wealthy families which enables them to study over- seas . You must be referring to refugee immigrents who fled here from war torn countries and poverty.

 

[fuji]

Most visa students come from wealthy families which enables them to study over- seas . You must be referring to refugee immigrents who fled here from war torn countries and poverty.

So explain why there are so many visa students working as escorts and MPA's....

 

[Cobster]

Hey fuji, you're an idiot.

How the hell did you ever get married if you need to ask us all these questions? LOL

P.S. - Slimeball

lol ouch.
But I was thinking, all these "how would you" questions, yet, he's married?

 

[Kurt]

recent immagrant

Check out any low pay job and there are lots of really nice looking ladies.

At a coffee shop in Markham Warden and Hwy Hwy 7 there was a really cute girl EE who had a really nice accent and great smile. She was coming up from scarborough to work there.

THere all over just have to look.

Kurt

 

[fuji]

How the hell did you ever get married if you need to ask us all these questions?

I just love women.

P.S. - Slimeball

Thank you. Now, back on topic... I don't think my question is all that stupid. The question is, assuming I'm right and there are lots of recent immigrants / visa students who would be interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement, how would I go about finding them and hooking up with them?

My thinking is karaoke bars, maybe run an ad in foreign language papers. I don't think hanging around at the school and hitting on chicks is going to work, I'd just get my face slapped.

There are two issues here... really... one is where to find them, and the other is how to bring up what I am intersted in, which is something like "mistress". I am not looking for a real "relationship" here, I already have a wife.

 

[Gawd]

Taking advantage of the "disadvantaged."

Ah... the capitalist way.

But it's unlikely they're reciprocate... seeing how you're in there to get whacked off and therefore they get the automatic notion that you're a perv.

Besides, methinks they don't really need someone like you (or us) seeing how most MPs drive Bimmers, Accords, etc. while SPs live in upscale condos, drive Benz's and Lexii... maybe not all of them, but a lot of them.

 

[great bear]

Fuji, with that name you would make a great guide.

 

[Montecore]

So explain why there are so many visa students working as escorts and MPA's....

those working as escorts and mpa's are not visa students , they are recent immigrents/refugees who are now living in Canada and trying to better themselves by going to school .

Visa students mainly from HK and Japan study here overseas ,once they earn their degrees , they go back to their own country . Parents of visa students send them money here monthly so they dont have to work .

 

[punter]

I didn't read the thread about hitting on a friend's wife.

Firstly, if a friend of mine hit on my wife, I would smash his face in, and break both of his arms.

Now onto your problem: many recent Chinese immigrants, if you like Asian women, will hang out in the Chinese malls and plazas. You coud try Pacific mall. There are several non-Asians shopping there so you wont look too out of place. If I was in your position and determined to find a Chinese immigrant girlfriend, I would go to Pacific mall everyday.

Of course, you'll have to be in hunting mode and approach single women. You should be able to tell by their clothes and maybe hair if they are FOB.

 

[punter]

I didn't read the thread properly, and I just took a quick look at the other thread, "Hitting on your wife's friend".

Looks like I got it the wrong way around. You are a slimeball!

 

[fuji]

those working as escorts and mpa's are not visa students , they are recent immigrents/refugees who are now living in Canada and trying to better themselves by going to school.

Sorry to disagree, but perhaps you should spend some time chatting with some of these young ladies. I always like to hear people's story (without asking too many personal details, I respect their privacy) and it seems to me that a good 50-80% of SP's and MPA's who are from mainland china are actually visa students. Yes, working illegally. That's true of a lot of EE's too, though more of them seem to be in the refugee category. I bet it's also true of chicks from other overseas backgrounds too, but I haven't asked as many.

As for taking advantage of the disadvantaged, you guys are all hipocrits if you think that's what I am doing, yet you call up EE/asian SP's. You're the same. Also, who says I am taking advantage of anyone? I am looking for a mutually rewarding relationship. She will think she's taking advantage of me!

I am not proposing to pick up the SP's or MPA's, as someone else said, they don't need me, they are rich. I'm also not looking to be cheap. What I am thinking is that the existence of all these SP's/MPA's means there are probably a lot of other women in similar circumstances who are not willing to go "pro", but might consider a more "amateur" arrangement.

And yes, guys, if my insatiable love of beautiful women makes me a slimeball, then I'm proud to be one.

ps... what I mean by "amateur" is to wind up being the caring, loving fuck friend who pays for school; or some kind of "mistress" situation, or "sugar daddy", things that are not maybe quite as threatening to these fine young ladies as actually turing pro... in exchange I would help support them in their studies or whatever.

What I am *not* looking for is a real relationship. Have one already. I'm also not under the illusion that I could successfully pick up (or would want to) an early 20's student age chick given that I am 15 years older than her unless there's something in it for her... now if what I wanted was a relationship with a 35 year old chinese woman I am sure hitting on chicks in pacmall and coffee shops would be the way to go.. but that is not what i am after..

 

[mmouse]

Common situation is for a couple to immigrate, husband has job, but wife can't find job and is really really bored and a bit pissed off that hubby brought her to this country. I've hooked up with a couple of chinese women like that.

 

[Montecore]

Sorry to disagree, but perhaps you should spend some time chatting with some of these young ladies. I always like to hear people's story (without asking too many personal details, I respect their privacy) and it seems to me that a good 50-80% of SP's and MPA's who are from mainland china are actually visa students. Yes, working illegally. That's true of a lot of EE's too, though more of them seem to be in the refugee category. I bet it's also true of chicks from other overseas backgrounds too, but I haven't asked as many.

As for taking advantage of the disadvantaged, you guys are all hipocrits if you think that's what I am doing, yet you call up EE/asian SP's. You're the same. Also, who says I am taking advantage of anyone? I am looking for a mutually rewarding relationship. She will think she's taking advantage of me!

I am not proposing to pick up the SP's or MPA's, as someone else said, they don't need me, they are rich. I'm also not looking to be cheap. What I am thinking is that the existence of all these SP's/MPA's means there are probably a lot of other women in similar circumstances who are not willing to go "pro", but might consider a more "amateur" arrangement.

And yes, guys, if my insatiable love of beautiful women makes me a slimeball, then I'm proud to be one.

ps... what I mean by "amateur" is to wind up being the caring, loving fuck friend who pays for school; or some kind of "mistress" situation, or "sugar daddy", things that are not maybe quite as threatening to these fine young ladies as actually turing pro... in exchange I would help support them in their studies or whatever.

What I am *not* looking for is a real relationship. Have one already. I'm also not under the illusion that I could successfully pick up (or would want to) an early 20's student age chick given that I am 15 years older than her unless there's something in it for her... now if what I wanted was a relationship with a 35 year old chinese woman I am sure hitting on chicks in pacmall and coffee shops would be the way to go.. but that is not what i am after..

those mainlanders are lying to you , do your research . In order for foreign students to get into UofT or McMaster you first have to have the grades and most importanly you have to have a main source of income and tuition , which is very costly for overseas students , thats why they have rich parents back home who can afford to pay for their Canadian education . Just like that guy who killed Cecilia Zhang , his parents were diplomats in China who can afford to send their son overseas for an educatiion .

In the meantime you can take your slimebucket ass to any ESL school or metro housing and exploit some desperate " recent Immigrant" as you call it .

 

[einar]

I'm with Fuji on this one. It's an interesting question, and Toronto does indeed have thousands of immigrant women who are struggling culturally and financially and are not escorts. Many are young and attractive.

I'd say to check out the bilingual ethnic newspapers. Or frequent cafes and restaurants owned by foreigners. After 2 or 3 visits to the same coffee shop, the staff will know you. Waitresses can be a good source of advice and introductions. Get an immigrant friend to take you to a social event or two.

It will all take some work, but my impression is that immigrants are the friendliest people in this not-very-friendly city. And they will be grateful to know you. If you turn into someone's sugar daddy or informal fuck buddy, enjoy it.

 

[Meister]

Hey fuji, if you can get it, all the power to you.

Just a word of advice, if you keep up these types of threads on terb you will be thrown into the dungeon by the powers of terb and mauled to death. Just like what happened to tbill a couple of years ago.

 

[ruck]

I just love women.



Thank you. Now, back on topic... I don't think my question is all that stupid. The question is, assuming I'm right and there are lots of recent immigrants / visa students who would be interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement, how would I go about finding them and hooking up with them?

My thinking is karaoke bars, maybe run an ad in foreign language papers. I don't think hanging around at the school and hitting on chicks is going to work, I'd just get my face slapped.

There are two issues here... really... one is where to find them, and the other is how to bring up what I am intersted in, which is something like "mistress". I am not looking for a real "relationship" here, I already have a wife.

Dude I was just kidding. You asked to be called the slimeball.

 

[fuji]

Hey fuji, if you can get it, all the power to you.

Just a word of advice, if you keep up these types of threads on terb you will be thrown into the dungeon by the powers of terb and mauled to death. Just like what happened to tbill a couple of years ago.

Haha. Well, I remember that, but unlike tbill I am not going to start trying to pimp these girls out. All I want is some advice on how to hook myself up.

 

[fuji]

those mainlanders are lying to you , do your research . In order for foreign students to get into UofT or McMaster you first have to have the grades and most importanly you have to have a main source of income and tuition , which is very costly for overseas students , thats why they have rich parents back home who can afford to pay for their Canadian education.

Dude, they aren't lying to me, they are lying to the govt., fraudulent documents are not that hard to come by in China. Certainly some come from rich families like you say; others just do whatever it takes to get here, and then try and figure out how to make it work.