Helping Married Folks Cheat...

[Bud Plug]

East to understand I think.

These guys just want some discrete sex. They are not getting it at home. They don't know about or don't want to hobby. They don't have the skill set to pick up at a bar or else where. They may look good but still have low self-esteem. They have not got laid in a year. One, some or all of the above... is the reason IMO.

I agree with everything you say. My point is - who would willingly take their place in that line?

IMHO, hobbying is a much better option than AM and it's probably cheaper as well.

 

[Meister]

They don't have the skill set to pick up at a bar or else where. They may look good but still have low self-esteem. They have not got laid in a year. One, some or all of the above... is the reason IMO.

I think many guys have the required skill set, however, picking up a girl in a bar is risky if you are a married guy. AM allows a married guy to meet another married girl. This is insurance that they don't rat each other out.

Also, the ratio of guys to girls is about 20:1. So, guys have to and do scale down their expectations.

 

[Scorpion King]

I agree with everything you say. My point is - who would willingly take their place in that line?

IMHO, hobbying is a much better option than AM and it's probably cheaper as well.

My friend, I have tasted some sweet honey from that site. Wouldnt knock it unless you try it...

 

[Scorpion King]

East to understand I think.

These guys just want some discrete sex. They are not getting it at home. They don't know about or don't want to hobby. They don't have the skill set to pick up at a bar or else where. They may look good but still have low self-esteem. They have not got laid in a year. One, some or all of the above... is the reason IMO.

I get it at home, I get it from both of my girlfriends that I met from AM... and I've just recently had my first tastes from here. I dont have problems meeting women anywhere else either. You're way off base partner...

And missing out too... (more for me).

 

[Tina_Ballerina]

Guys, quit wasting you money on dating sites, and just get to the point of what you're really after.....

Call an SP!

 

[baltimoron]

Right On

Guys, quit wasting you money on dating sites, and just get to the point of what you're really after.....

Call an SP!

Well said. I did just that 5 years ago. Never regretted it and never looked back.

BTW, Tina, I like your pics on the GOE site.

I'd come to Toronto to poon...if I weren't so addicted to Montreal now.

 

[WhaWhaWha]

Amen Tina:

SPs are way easier to book than a real date. You know what you're getting and when you're done -- you're done. Til next time

 

[Scorpion King]

Amen Tina:

SPs are way easier to book than a real date. You know what you're getting and when you're done -- you're done. Til next time

... while you continue to pay EACH time you visit - as I enjoy the residual benefits of investing a little time and $$ at the beginning - and now getting it for free anytime I want.

S'all good. More for me.

 

[Scorpion King]

Guys, quit wasting you money on dating sites, and just get to the point of what you're really after.....

Call an SP!

Why not do both?

 

[mmouse]

My friend, I have tasted some sweet honey from that site. Wouldnt knock it unless you try it...

But will you kindly deny that they were overweight, gutter-mouthed with 2 kids? It's all in the details

 

[wumpscut]

my theory is it's all a clever ruse by some clever divorce lawyers to increase thier income. More cheating=more divorce=more money for the lawyers and being as evidence like pictures is involved, I'd bet the lawyers get to win thier cases quite easily.

 

[Bud Plug]

But will you kindly deny that they were overweight, gutter-mouthed with 2 kids? It's all in the details

See Meister's post on this thread. I think he's telling it like it is. You've got to lower your standards to use AM.

Also, based on what I hear from the woman I know who's a member, the guys treat meeting her like a date. They buy her dinner/drinks, the occasional gift, etc. In other words, it ain't really a booty-call free-for-all. That's why I've suggested it's probably cheaper to hobby. (Also, don't forget that the guys pay all the AM service fees for any premium services like chat, IM, etc, as well. That's how AM makes their money).

Why would guys shell out? It seems the women know what the ratio of men to women is, and are prepared to exploit it for all it's worth. So, if you're looking to split the check, chances are she will will move on the the next dozen guys who will "treat her right".

AM has it's uses, but any hobbiest used to picking out the best available young women, getting what they want for reasonable prices, and investing little time in finding them, will be disappointed in AM. I think it's more useful for those who are lonely and are really looking for companionship. That's something you can find on AM that an SP can't give you.

Like Scorpion King, I have a number of women in my life, but I met none of them through an online dating service. I don't know why I would bother. However, I've never really enjoyed "slumming it" when it came to women.

 

[Scorpion King]

But will you kindly deny that they were overweight, gutter-mouthed with 2 kids? It's all in the details

Actually, I met very few women like that. Now, to be honest, things didnt work with every person I met but the hunt is certainly a big part of the fun. Then again, my profile clearly stated the type of woman I was looking for and I had little problem weeding out undesirables. I still have two lovely girlfriends that I met on AM - both of which I've been seeing for over a year now. In fact, one is going to be spending the nite with me this weekend. You guys are the ones missing out....

 

[Scorpion King]

Like Scorpion King, I have a number of women in my life, but I met none of them through an online dating service. I don't know why I would bother. However, I've never really enjoyed "slumming it" when it came to women.

Slumming it? You just questioned why you would ever bother with online dating and then you call it slumming?? So you're passing judgement on something you never even tried. I posted my pics on AM, sent a bunch of emails and met a bunch of great people - several of whom I have become good friends with - all educated, professional and attractive ladies.

Perhaps this is just my good luck - I've been quite fortunate over the years to attract some lovely ladies. Maybe that's your shortfall?? Are you unable to 'get with' the more desirable ladies unless you're paying for it??

 

[Scorpion King]

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Also, based on what I hear from the woman I know who's a member, the guys treat meeting her like a date. They buy her dinner/drinks, the occasional gift, etc. In other words, it ain't really a booty-call free-for-all. That's why I've suggested it's probably cheaper to hobby. (Also, don't forget that the guys pay all the AM service fees for any premium services like chat, IM, etc, as well. That's how AM makes their money).

Why would guys shell out? It seems the women know what the ratio of men to women is, and are prepared to exploit it for all it's worth. So, if you're looking to split the check, chances are she will will move on the the next dozen guys who will "treat her right".

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It's called variety my friend. Sometimes, I prefer to be with my AM girlfriends because it's a completely different experience. A true GFE... not something you have to pay for by the hour. Even though I had to pay for my AM membership and the first date, the ROI is clearly higher. Paying for a 500 credit membership, going on 2-4 dates after a couple weeks of screening would cost no more than 500 bucks... tops. Out of this, I would inevitably be left with at least one lady for the perfect, part time relationship.

If I had to pay 200 bucks an hour for every time I got laid from AM I would have to put a mortgage on my house. The math is simple, pay a few hundred bucks up front to 'roll the dice'. Meet two or three ladies that you end up banging dozens of times. (one plus one equals two.....)

Again, maybe it's because I'm more desirable than other guys who dont think long term and are looking for a quick, easy lay. You gotta have a little patience and know how to play the game if you expect to be successful.

There are more ways to get laid other than paying an escort. Are you so immersed in 'the hobby' that you've lost the ability to 'get some' without handing over 200 bucks for an hour of someone's time? To me, both are great and have their use. Maybe it's just my personal taste, but there's something incredibly appealing about banging a cute, lonely housewife that hasnt had a good romp with another man (other than hubby of course) in the past ten years....

I guess that's why you're here ...

 

[AMWBT]

Okay, okay!

Again, maybe it's because I'm more desirable than other guys who dont think long term and are looking for a quick, easy lay. You gotta have a little patience and know how to play the game if you expect to be successful.

There are more ways to get laid other than paying an escort. Are you so immersed in 'the hobby' that you've lost the ability to 'get some' without handing over 200 bucks for an hour of someone's time? To me, both are great and have their use. Maybe it's just my personal taste, but there's something incredibly appealing about banging a cute, lonely housewife that hasnt had a good romp with another man (other than hubby of course) in the past ten years....

I guess that's why you're here ...

Okay, okay, we get it Scorp - you're a big stud in real life, with sps, and even on Ashley Madison, and you're just here to educate the poor slobs who have to pay to get laid - how many times are you going to say the same thing??

 

[Bud Plug]

Are you unable to 'get with' the more desirable ladies unless you're paying for it??

Didn't you read my earlier post? I wouldn't refer to SPs as "women in my life". Would you?

 

[Bud Plug]

Slumming it? You just questioned why you would ever bother with online dating and then you call it slumming?? So you're passing judgement on something you never even tried. I posted my pics on AM, sent a bunch of emails and met a bunch of great people - several of whom I have become good friends with - all educated, professional and attractive ladies.

If anyone wants to test this, do what I did. You can register for a basic AM membership for free and browse female members who post public pictures (Not everyone has public pictures. If they don't, they have to give you a "key" to look at a private gallery. Inevitably, they want to see your picture first before they'll do that). Once you weed out the ones that are obviously SPs who are trolling for business, the remaining pictures will give you a pretty good sense of what's out there.

 

[Bud Plug]

Again, maybe it's because I'm more desirable than other guys who dont think long term and are looking for a quick, easy lay. You gotta have a little patience and know how to play the game if you expect to be successful.

There are more ways to get laid other than paying an escort. Are you so immersed in 'the hobby' that you've lost the ability to 'get some' without handing over 200 bucks for an hour of someone's time? To me, both are great and have their use. Maybe it's just my personal taste, but there's something incredibly appealing about banging a cute, lonely housewife that hasnt had a good romp with another man (other than hubby of course) in the past ten years....

I guess that's why you're here ...

Ah, the ever-rising irony quotient of TERB! Its a little hard to swallow the bit about your being so desirable to women when within the same post you prove yourself to be so presumptuous, El Magnifico!

You should think before you hit the "submit reply" button. You are on TERB as well! Yet, you don't seem to understand that it is rarely the case that hobbiests don't have "civilian" women in their life? You shouldn't assume that other TERB members are all that different from yourself (minus the presumptuousness, of course).

Enjoy AM all you want, but I think most men would find it to be a poor investment of time and money, regardless of how desirable they are.

p.s. AM hookups are not true "GFE"s any more that an SP can provide a true GFE. Do I need to explain why?

 

[Meister]

I can concur with SK. It takes a little patience to weed out the BBWs. But, once you get to the next level, let me tell you this from experience: The mileage is incredible.