Gradually losing interest in this hobby?

[beaver]

I think the spontaneity of the hobby is gone. Booking is an ordeal now. Fewer options too. I used to get a thrill of driving down Jarvis and hooker Harvey's. Some nights I would spend an hour just driving the block and seeing dozens of girls. Rarely would I partake but that would make me feel alive

 

[anon1]

I used to get a thrill of driving down Jarvis and hooker Harvey's. Some nights I would spend an hour just driving the block and seeing dozens of girls. Rarely would I partake but that would make me feel alive

Yeah, window shopping was so much fun.

 

[Goodoer]

It is definitely easier nowadays to avoid hobbying... The excitement isn't quite there for some reason - especially when you read about all the shitty and expensive sessions. I know I want a 'real' experience, but I know that'll cause me problems in my personal life.

 

[NotADcotor]

I think the spontaneity of the hobby is gone. Booking is an ordeal now. Fewer options too. I used to get a thrill of driving down Jarvis and hooker Harvey's. Some nights I would spend an hour just driving the block and seeing dozens of girls. Rarely would I partake but that would make me feel alive

Yeah, it's kinda kept me from going again. Sadly my strip club closed down before Covid and I am concerned about trying another one with all the horror stories you read about miscounting and the like.

 

[jakepint1]

That is Obsessive, you should try different cultures and 1-2 times a month.

In which city are you describing this about SC?

Ottawa, not great SC compared to other cities I heard however.. gotta make due of what we have here

 

[superman12]

I have started loosing interest in seeing sp's over the last couple years. I haven't stopped completely but i seek out sp's a lot less then even 5 years ago and probably 90% less then when I first started in this hobby. It's due to an increasing number of unsatisfactory experiences over the years. To put it bluntly the sex and overall time spent with the sp was just bad. It's also due to a lot of sp's becoming a whole lot more restrictive with services. There are some who are actually becoming less restrictive but in general a lot of sp's don't allow or are very comfortable with what i considered a very normal gfe experience(extensive dfk,daty,digits,bbbj). Alot of the times sp's just want to get things over with as fast as they can which just ruins the whole experience for me. Not saying that there are not some absolutely amazing sp's out there who still take this job seriously enough and genuinely love what they do but it seems like those girls are becoming a rare breed in the industry.

 

[J Smoove]

Yeah it's been getting that way for me too. Booking is a bit more challenging (which I can understand why from their end), traveling to downtown Toronto is a headache due to the construction and traffic that comes with it, and inflation has been kicking everyones ass including myself, so I can't be as out there as I was years ago.

Also a having a long time SP go rouge-ish can change your view on things.

 

[Cholla]

I realize that my suggestion might sound strange and it’s definitely not everyone’s recipe. Watch videos, try to find something kinky which may attract your interest such as various kinds of 3somes, BDSM, shemales, bi-guys, submissive girls, “slaves”, etc. basically whoever! You might wake up your hidden desire and hopefully you can find a person who can fulfil your fantasies. As an older person who experienced many kinds of sex - and went through “guilt feelings”, etc. - I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with these experiments. Just try and enjoy!

 

[jalimon]

Gradually losing interest in this hobby is kind of normal.

For me seeing one on one girl became boring after a few years because i felt so alone.

Doing a lot of different parties helped. I really enjoyed that.

Being refused by a girl last year for a one on one changed it all though. I went back home and realized i was nearly 55 trying to see a 22 year old girl. She invented a reason and pushed me out. That had never happened to me.

I was not upset. Actually it made me realize my time may have come for this.

Others will replace me. Its ok. I think there is an age for old guy even if you kept in shape and all you will be disappointed. The age gap is just too wide.

 

[ogibowt]

Gradually losing interest in this hobby is kind of normal.

For me seeing one on one girl became boring after a few years because i felt so alone.

Doing a lot of different parties helped. I really enjoyed that.

Being refused by a girl last year for a one on one changed it all though. I went back home and realized i was nearly 55 trying to see a 22 year old girl. She invented a reason and pushed me out. That had never happened to me.

I was not upset. Actually it made me realize my time may have come for this.

Others will replace me. Its ok. I think there is an age for old guy even if you kept in shape and all you will be disappointed. The age gap is just too wide.

i see your point....,i havent been with an escort for quite along time...............im now in my mid 70,s..yikes...lol...but in the last few years the urge to see a 20 something turn her back and wiggle her ass inches from my face while i pleasure my self has been strong. no more romps in the hay..kinda lost that desire lol..but i resist...because i think that i would be perceived as a dirty old man.....and i stop fantasizing and feel better....and i rely on porn...so that i dont feel like an aging pervert..lol........that ultimately stops me from seeing escorts again.................being judged lol

 

[shack]

i see your point....,i havent been with an escort for quite along time...............im now in my mid 70,s..yikes...lol...but in the last few years the urge to see a 20 something turn her back and wiggle her ass inches from my face while i pleasure my self has been strong. no more romps in the hay..kinda lost that desire lol..but i resist...because i think that i would be perceived as a dirty old man.....and i stop fantasizing and feel better....and i rely on porn...so that i dont feel like an aging pervert..lol........that ultimately stops me from seeing escorts again.................being judged lol

So I think the theme of what you're saying is not necessarily losing an interest in the hobby, but more of a decrease in libido. I had an MPA at my place who claims to dislike work, admit that she loves being fucked and asked me to dump a load in her and I couldn't pull the trigger. That'll definitely get you to drop your interest in dropping several hundred dollars.

 

[ogibowt]

So I think the theme of what you're saying is not necessarily losing an interest in the hobby, but more of a decrease in libido. I had an MPA at my place who claims to dislike work, admit that she loves being fucked and asked me to dump a load in her and I couldn't pull the trigger. That'll definitely get you to drop your interest in dropping several hundred dollars.

you are right in away.....but that urge to be with a 20something has been stronger over the past little while .....yes the libido is not as strong....but not the desire to be in the company of a naked babe young enough to be my grandaughter .... that is still there....its all about the visuals and making my self feel good...............if i could rid myself of feeling like a perv i would partake.....and yea yea i know for her its about the $..but what the heck is going through her mind lap dancing and posing for a grandpa..thats what i cant get out of my mind.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Just to pipe in again. I booked with my former ATF on Monday morning thinking she wouldn't be that busy. Yes. OK baby. When? I told her when. It takes me an hour to get to her place. "can you come earlier? better for me". meaning she was squeezing me in between the next one. Not really. Maybe another time. OK baby. Fuck it.

Thinking of calling her tomorrow. lol.

 

[ragnar0829]

Ha

Just to pipe in again. I booked with my former ATF on Monday morning thinking she wouldn't be that busy. Yes. OK baby. When? I told her when. It takes me an hour to get to her place. "can you come earlier? better for me". meaning she was squeezing me in between the next one. Not really. Maybe another say, too may fake or sketchy ads, prices sky rocketing and

I think the spontaneity of the hobby is gone. Booking is an ordeal now. Fewer options too. I used to get a thrill of driving down Jarvis and hooker Harvey's. Some nights I would spend an hour just driving the block and seeing dozens of girls. Rarely would I partake but that would make me feel alive

I am with you, I remember Harveys, lots of lovelies

Now, too many fake ads, sketchy girls, high prices, not what it used to be for sure, I dont know if it is loss of interest or feel it is just not worth it anymore

 

[Leimonis]

Sometimes I do feel a sting of conscience when I am getting too much paid sex. It’s kinda like shitting into golden toilet. It’s so good that you know it’s got to be wrong lol

 

[Goodboy7]

Move to Sugar Bowl and have a roster of sugar babies do overnights etc. It’s a fun experience and better than hobbying, in my opinion. Then, once in a while, try out a few superstar providers with raging reviews. Spice it up

 

[chrispalen]

If you eats T bone steaks every day, you will get tired of it.
Suggest you eat a burger every day instead for a while until you get your steak appetite back.
Similarly, jerk off every day for a while, until you get your appetite for fine dining again at the Y.

CP

 

[Oistins]

Throughout my life, I’ve never struggled with women. I’ve had plenty of non-SP girlfriends, and I even dated two SPs outside of their work. I know I don't have a lot of reviews, but if you visit the Vancouver based board with my username, or caf, you'll find me, along with several Asia based boards.

I remember back when I first visited a SP in my early 20s; it was such a thrilling and daring experience. After that, I was addicted, even when I had girlfriends because I could have whatever kind of woman I wanted on the spot: young, busty, old, skinny, Asian, Black whatever, they all turned me on in their own ways; I'd even budget for my visits. I am in 30s now and this thrill is gone. Yet I often still find myself looking at providers' ads and seeking out agencies. I love Asian women and probably know the whole roster at any time of ASB and GG, and the locations of most Asian providers in my region, but over the last two years I’ve lived in Ontario, I haven’t visited them once. I’ll be excited by the ads but never want to pull the trigger. I've even messaged SPs and backed out, and the few times I have gone through with it I was drunk. Nonetheless, there are always doubts about untruthful pictures and unsatisfying sex, but also the just pure thrill of seeing an SP is just lost.

Has anyone else gone through this? I want the thrill of seeing an SP back, but I think my brain is numb to it with age and experience. Should I just retire from this outright?

You are bound to eventually get “bored” if you fuck every single opportunity you get. Started to feel that way a bit in fourth year university. Being promiscuous is definitely the difference between a B and an A. Just take a little break. It worked for me back then. And it still works for me now. Blitz and then take a break.

 

[Leimonis]

You are bound to eventually get “bored” if you fuck every single opportunity you get. Started to feel that way a bit in fourth year university. Being promiscuous is definitely the difference between a B and an A. Just take a little break. It worked for me back then. And it still works for me now. Blitz and then take a break.

But then all the sugar babies start bugging you as they are expecting a stream of income and you’re not allowed to take vacation at their expense

 

[Oistins]

But then all the sugar babies start bugging you as they are expecting a stream of income and you’re not allowed to take vacation at their expense

IF you go with Sugar Babies .