girls, a heads up
- Thread starter Miss Maya Blue
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Really? I didn't know that.
Care to share those reasons? I've always wondered why Terb doesn't have one of those SPs only section to share bad/violent clients info like other boards have.
Don't know all the reasons and don't really remember much about it. It was kind of there one minute and gone the next. Over the course of a couple of months. I think the main issue was moderation of the forum.
This is going back a few years now.
Probably for the same reason that the review sections is open for the SPs to read. Separatism creates a mistrust of all parties and the ensuing breakdown of communication.
But thats my opinion.
PM the major agencies (cupids, vixens, mirage, goe etc) here on TERB and atleast give them his name, number, terb name, and which Crowne Plaza he is at.
i dont have time to pm every agency and independent
i have done it in the past. it isnt something i can do everytime i encounter a bad apple.
we need a forum. plain and simple. i can list 5 terbites in the last year that were problem clients, and serious ones at that. i dont think the average, thinking, feeling person on here has an issue with us girls communicating to keep one another safe.
this review board functions to keep men safe from rip offs, possible std's and such.
its time the board responded to our needs and recognized we need a forum too.
i have done it in the past. it isnt something i can do everytime i encounter a bad apple.
we need a forum. plain and simple. i can list 5 terbites in the last year that were problem clients, and serious ones at that. i dont think the average, thinking, feeling person on here has an issue with us girls communicating to keep one another safe.
this review board functions to keep men safe from rip offs, possible std's and such.
its time the board responded to our needs and recognized we need a forum too.
I agree.
TERB provides the place for agencies and independents to advertise - would it not be a wise to also provide a forum where we can all safely communicate about unsafe clients and other methods of risk prevention? Sharing information is integral in this industry to stay safe.That is why they opened the public announcement section of this board after the SP only forum didn't work out.
To continue to try and help the ladies of TERB as much as possible, even it is not a perfect solution.
To continue to try and help the ladies of TERB as much as possible, even it is not a perfect solution.
a forum where men (the very same men that are threats) can view that we are posting about them does not work. i think that is obvious. there are certainly situations where one cannot post and feel safe doing so.
Please don't get me wrong because I will state up front that the ladies safety is the most important thing to consider.
Problems with an SP only section are a few.
I had mentioned the segregation issue previously which is one concern.
Logistically it is hard to do. How do you control who has access? Does this mean only paid advertisers are the ones with access (many are men by the way). Paid advertisers only, also leaves out other ladies that are not advertisers such as the agency ladies whom have their own handle. How to verify that it is a woman that gets access without a man getting in is tough to control. Identity changing is relatively easy for the criminal mind. What i'm saying is you don't want to leave out a lady by accident just because she didn't have this special access.
This is why the preferred procedure is the lady with the report to send a PM to the moderators so they can post. It is then completely anonymous.
there is a definite point to this thread. the safety of the ladies is paramount and its clear that Maya thought this client was a potential threat to other escorts.
there is actually a separate section for this on terb maybe the thread should be moved to there mods?
The good, The bad & The ugly
1. Maya kudos for posting this for the ladies.
2. A ladies forum is a good idea. However, it could just become a place to bash sps and clients, and that's not what anyone wants.
3. There was another post very recently about someone almost being raped, but IMHO, it got out of hand on here.
4. If a lady from an agency or indy has a problem, they should go to the police. Regardless of the profession, you do not need to be abused in any manner, and let the authorities deal with the more serious issues.
5. So called time wasters, I'm not sure how that was meant, but things do come up short notice, emergencies, rethinking what they're doing. If it's a matter of constant questions about availability, donations, services and never getting back to the person that's different too, and I understand the inconveniences that causes.
6. A final thought, and I hope that this doesn't come across the wrong way. There is an inherit risk in this business/hobby for both the ladies and the gents. Moreso, for the ladies, but let's be fair here too. Again, I applaud the fact that Maya put this out there, and she really didn't go into details and doesn't need to go into details. Those who want details need to examine themselves. Just understand that the lady had a bad date. We (the general terb) members don't need to know. Is wanting to know what happened for some a fantansy scenario.
I believe this was handled appropriately and there will always be three sides to the story. Learn to let it go.
1. Maya kudos for posting this for the ladies.
2. A ladies forum is a good idea. However, it could just become a place to bash sps and clients, and that's not what anyone wants.
3. There was another post very recently about someone almost being raped, but IMHO, it got out of hand on here.
4. If a lady from an agency or indy has a problem, they should go to the police. Regardless of the profession, you do not need to be abused in any manner, and let the authorities deal with the more serious issues.
5. So called time wasters, I'm not sure how that was meant, but things do come up short notice, emergencies, rethinking what they're doing. If it's a matter of constant questions about availability, donations, services and never getting back to the person that's different too, and I understand the inconveniences that causes.
6. A final thought, and I hope that this doesn't come across the wrong way. There is an inherit risk in this business/hobby for both the ladies and the gents. Moreso, for the ladies, but let's be fair here too. Again, I applaud the fact that Maya put this out there, and she really didn't go into details and doesn't need to go into details. Those who want details need to examine themselves. Just understand that the lady had a bad date. We (the general terb) members don't need to know. Is wanting to know what happened for some a fantansy scenario.
I believe this was handled appropriately and there will always be three sides to the story. Learn to let it go.
I think you may have a bit of the wrong idea. It is not Man Vs Ladies we should be concerned about.
Even though, allot of the paid advertisers are men, they have a obligation and should have the privilege to keep their ladies safe.
Its a division of Industry / clents.
Since 99% of clients are men &
99+% of SPs are women
I made a fair assumption.
I worry that the info may get lost at the agency level and it needs to also get to the SPs themselves.
Its a division of Industry / clents. Agreed.
sounds good in theory - but how do you know if in 'the ladies only forum' that you are only talking to SPs and not a guy that you referred to in this thread. There are so many BS handles on here, for example, SPs and MPAs pretending to be guys and writing glowing reviews.
Some good people on terb have been put on a Bad Client List simply because the woman was pissed off at the guy. Like other people here have said, it's also impossible to keep determined guys out of a private forum.
There's a difference between timewasters and dangerous guys as well, but women should still have a system to communicate about them all - trivial or serious. It would be a thankless job to moderate the mess though.
There's a difference between timewasters and dangerous guys as well, but women should still have a system to communicate about them all - trivial or serious. It would be a thankless job to moderate the mess though.
This is why many of us have made Sex worker friendly boards on our own.
www.sexworksupport.com I have created.
We know terb is mostly a boys club so if we having an issue with a client we have to create our own resources to help each other.
well I must say that I am shocked at this and how unprofessional she is we have been talking for months on hooking up back and forth she was always getting frustrated when we couldn't set up a date . then she sent me a msg out of the blue one day saying lets try and set it up again I said 1000 is a bit step she said to me this "forget it.
im going to report you, your phone number, your email and all the details of how you have wasted my time.
i have treated you very well and you treat me like shit essentially. if 1000 dollars is too much for you, too much that you have to low ball me after 5 weeks of emails and canceling on me then you shouldnt have contacted me in the first place.
im going to make sure other women dont waste their time with you." so she is messed up and I am not amused she also said "i kinda want to ruin you. i am so sick of assholes." I offered her her special that she offered a while back I wasn't low balling her. 500 for an hr or 700 for 2 she has offered this in the past.so I have all the emails and could post them. I think she hasn't been busy lately and shes is getting upset at all her cancelations.
At no point did I ever make threats to here and I remained very apologtic to her for our time we have waisted. she is just upset as so am I. I would like a mod to remove this thread please.
im going to report you, your phone number, your email and all the details of how you have wasted my time.
i have treated you very well and you treat me like shit essentially. if 1000 dollars is too much for you, too much that you have to low ball me after 5 weeks of emails and canceling on me then you shouldnt have contacted me in the first place.
im going to make sure other women dont waste their time with you." so she is messed up and I am not amused she also said "i kinda want to ruin you. i am so sick of assholes." I offered her her special that she offered a while back I wasn't low balling her. 500 for an hr or 700 for 2 she has offered this in the past.so I have all the emails and could post them. I think she hasn't been busy lately and shes is getting upset at all her cancelations.
At no point did I ever make threats to here and I remained very apologtic to her for our time we have waisted. she is just upset as so am I. I would like a mod to remove this thread please.
Oh Boy,
Let me get my bowl of popcorn. I don't know Maya that well, never met her, but I don't think she would start this thread just because she was pissed at you for "Lowballing her".
Maya's rates are well known on the board. You've been a member since 06, so ya should be well acquainted with what Maya charges. Still, I think there's more to the story than you shopping for a better deal.
Lets see, you've pleasured us with 4 posts including today's gem. You can change your terb name and carry on. Maya has her reputation and her good name on the board and in the industry. Sorry, my spidey senses tell me that there is much more to this....
Let me get my bowl of popcorn. I don't know Maya that well, never met her, but I don't think she would start this thread just because she was pissed at you for "Lowballing her".
Maya's rates are well known on the board. You've been a member since 06, so ya should be well acquainted with what Maya charges. Still, I think there's more to the story than you shopping for a better deal.
Lets see, you've pleasured us with 4 posts including today's gem. You can change your terb name and carry on. Maya has her reputation and her good name on the board and in the industry. Sorry, my spidey senses tell me that there is much more to this....
lol...what a load of garbage.
but thank you for finally posting.
by doing so you are confirming for me the fact you (are an idiot) and were using multiple email address and identities to book dates with me on the same day....
this terb handle "picture purfect" supposedly belonged to someone named "sal" that just contacted me for the first time on thursday....and here you are confirming that we have been emailing for weeks.
as "steve" you emailed for weeks, were nice and wanted two hours, booked me then canceled last minute.
then an hour later, after canceling, as "sal/picture purfect" you emailed me wanting to meet asap and offered me $700 for two, and when i refused you, got psychotic on me, called me a hooker and whore, told me to watch my back, that you can find out who i am...
what kills me is you then continued to email me as nice guy "steve" trying to make plans the next day.
you really arent the sharpest tool in the box, are you? your IP address is visible when you email me, as are the details of the computer you are using to view them. i can see that the emails are from the same person.
there is a reason i continue to thrive and enjoy this "work", work that can scare women off because of the BS.... and its not because i am naive or someone to be taken advantage of.
(girls...use www.readnotify.com to track emails. its brilliant and has many uses)
note to self: do not ever assume you are talking to a sane person.
but thank you for finally posting.
by doing so you are confirming for me the fact you (are an idiot) and were using multiple email address and identities to book dates with me on the same day....
this terb handle "picture purfect" supposedly belonged to someone named "sal" that just contacted me for the first time on thursday....and here you are confirming that we have been emailing for weeks.
as "steve" you emailed for weeks, were nice and wanted two hours, booked me then canceled last minute.
then an hour later, after canceling, as "sal/picture purfect" you emailed me wanting to meet asap and offered me $700 for two, and when i refused you, got psychotic on me, called me a hooker and whore, told me to watch my back, that you can find out who i am...
what kills me is you then continued to email me as nice guy "steve" trying to make plans the next day.
you really arent the sharpest tool in the box, are you? your IP address is visible when you email me, as are the details of the computer you are using to view them. i can see that the emails are from the same person.
there is a reason i continue to thrive and enjoy this "work", work that can scare women off because of the BS.... and its not because i am naive or someone to be taken advantage of.
(girls...use www.readnotify.com to track emails. its brilliant and has many uses)
note to self: do not ever assume you are talking to a sane person.
