Former sp needs our help

[carter80]

As I have posted before I know this story to be true. I am also her patient advocate here in Toronto for the hospital clinic that specializes in her illness and have arranged her next appointments for her directly with the clinic as she has limited phone access.

Which is great, but doesn't necessarily mean she actually needs your financial assistance with her issue. I'd want to be sure of that as well.

 

[oil&gas]

...I'd want to be sure of that as well.

So were you in charge what would it take to assure you of
her financial need? Check the balance of her bank book or carry
out an assessment of the worth of her belongings?

 

[carter80]

So were you in charge what would it take to assure you of
her financial need? Check the balance of her bank book or carry
out an assessment of the worth of her belongings?

I'd want first hand knowledge that she's being honest. I get that it might seem ridiculous, but I've seen some girls stoop pretty low to fleece some trusting gringo bobo.

 

[Titalian]

That is exactly correct and while I could pay her under the table the nature of my business would not permit it. I am, however, assisting her as best I can given my limited knowledge in making an application to become a Canadian immigrant but unfortunately she does not fall into any of the immigration categories such as being a refugee.

Why would you come on a board, such as this and ask for monetary help for this woman? Call me curious.

 

[Titalian]

Because she was a provider to this community for many years, gave pleasure and companionship in a business that can take quite a toll out of someone and besides which where else would she go?

Did you tell her, you were coming to this community, seeking help ?

 

[gcostanza]

Because she was a provider to this community for many years....

And what did she do with all the money she made for those many years?

 

[shack]

So were you in charge what would it take to assure you of
her financial need? Check the balance of her bank book or carry
out an assessment of the worth of her belongings?

I'd want first hand knowledge that she's being honest.

That still doesn't answer o & g's question of "How"?

 

[lakeboy1]

I'm bored so I'll take another go at this. Anyone who even remotely believes this story is gullible. Anyone making suggestions to the OP is wasting their time. The OP is either a compulsive liar, which I believe is the case, or is being lied to. Asking for money from strangers for something like this is borderline fraud.

Even if this story were true, and its not, why should she deserve money from the people on an escort review board? She provided a service for which she was paid (that is if she actually existed, which she doesn't). We don't owe her anything. She didn't get injured serving in Afghanistan.

How about giving to a legitimate charity like Sick Kids? That's a real building with actual sick kids in it.

 

[Titalian]

I have asked her to consider whether she would agree to me sponsoring a crowdfunding campaign but not that I would asking the TERB community for comment. The issue is her confidentiality and privacy. The campaign could be set up in either or both of her working name or her real name. There are issues both ways.

I have also asked for a comment from the moderator to consider sponsoring crowd funding on TERB for sex workers in general who find themselves out and down.

You, for one, have a high profile on this Board (unlike me) and have apparently met many of the women who post here. Would you support TERB sponsoring crowd funding? Have you ever gone over and above to help anyone out?

Yes I have, more than once, and its always blown up in my face.

 

[carter80]

That still doesn't answer o & g's question of "How"?

I'd want to know her in hee personal life in her home country.

I've been to orphanages and charities in the comunas of Medellín, the barrios of Cartagena. I've taken medical supplies to the villages of the kuna on the islands of Panama. There's a lot of suffering in some of these countries, plenty of people who need help. Oh the flip side, I've had to go to the hospital with my upper middle class friend in Cali, and to emergency with my very upper class friend in San Salvador. And these are the people who do not need my help, they have private insurance and get top notch care in the best hospitals and clinics in their countries. A girl who worked in Toronto, charging the rates girls earn here for years should be returning back to her country and be fabulously wealthy by their standards. And therefore have the same quality access as my friends.

And to top it off, the charity must be anonymous for privacy concerns? There's a dozen bells ringing in my head right now.

Congratulations to the op for having a good heart, better person than I am it seems. For me there's a disconnect however, something missing in the story we've been presented.

 

[Spacealien2]

Yes I have, more than once, and its always blown up in my face.

Hey man, I'm actually a Nigerian Prince, can I borrow 1 million for investment? I'll pay you back. I promise.

 

[Chloë.]

I'm bored so I'll take another go at this. Anyone who even remotely believes this story is gullible. Anyone making suggestions to the OP is wasting their time. The OP is either a compulsive liar, which I believe is the case, or is being lied to. Asking for money from strangers for something like this is borderline fraud.

Even if this story were true, and its not, why should she deserve money from the people on an escort review board? She provided a service for which she was paid (that is if she actually existed, which she doesn't). We don't owe her anything. She didn't get injured serving in Afghanistan.

How about giving to a legitimate charity like Sick Kids? That's a real building with actual sick kids in it.

Actually, this story is 100% true. I know exactly who this provider is but for the sake of her privacy, I'm not going to comment any further on it.

Her entire situation is extremely unfortunate and just goes to show you that you can be doing everything right in life and it can throw you a curve ball when you least expect it. RA and that family death are just the tip of the iceberg, none of which is her fault or cause of her own personal choices.

Some veterans are living in squalor and some are homeless. It doesn't matter what your profession is and that shouldn't determine the validity of your suffering.

I also think this thread should be removed. I'm frankly disappointed by how much information has been given and discussed about her already.