you're right. there are hundreds, and all of them have fine print. i have spent days looking at them, trying a few out, only to be disappointed.
that's why i was asking for a recommendation.
for example, ive already paid for a name and hosting, and some only allow you to sign up for hosting with them. (this is where some 'free' building sites make money)
secondly, because of adult content, you can rule out many site building hosts, cause they will shut you down (which i have already been through)
i guess, more specifically, im looking for a builder that is easy to use, is relatively liberal (i.e does not specifically say no escort sites allowed), and allows me to use my own domain name, and hosting.
it's actually a tall order. thats why the posting