Emotional Attachments

jughead

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Interesting topic.

There are those women who play head game with every men they meet. My Best Friend's sister is one of those types. When I first met her she was happily married with kids. Her kids were growing up and there was no longer need to be a full time at home mom so she went back to school to become an RMT a good first impression a respectable person, boy was that wrong. All too soon the flirting started. I always considered her married and out of play so I never paid too much attention to it until I was introduced to her BF. The flirting continued big time, I started to really like this chick, but never show it one little bit (which may have been a good thing). As I was asking her brother (my friend) about her I told him that I like her and he said go for it. By now the BF had all but moved in and the flirting continued big time. She would say things like call me anytime for a free massage, lets get together an play cards ETC...You know that type of shit. After a while of being confused I knew I was in trouble, my truck was acting up a instead of replacing it with another like I wanted I bought a more family oriented vehicle, thinking that I stood a real change of landing her from what she was showing me. Some $20K in the hole later my Friend realized that I'm in real trouble and tells me that his sister plays men and she has never worked in her life and does not intent to ever. She use to work some where in the city of Ottawa some where men would give her tips, call her at home, follow her home. My Friend tells me that she has ended more than one marriage in her life and he has bailed her out of more trouble that he cares to remember. She need the attention men give her and flirts to make herself feel sexy, or what ever. My friend apologized to me for not warning me about her, she has never done this to any of his friends in the past, so he thought she would never do that to me

Since then I own my vehicle a like it it was a wise purchase (darn thing won't carry a piece of plywood though) My Friend a I still talk and are still close he keep his B@#$H of a sister away from me and all is good in the world.

This type of thing can happen to anyone!

Thank God for best friend he saved my bacon.
 

Oogabooga

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bbbl67 said:
One thing to remember is actions are louder than words. It doesn't matter if you're talking about a stripper or a girl you met during church. Asking them whether they love you, and getting a positive answer back means nothing. If they like hanging out with you, then they told the truth, otherwise they didn't.
True.

I was strange when I saw her recently - she acted like I "ended it" (?). Meanwhile - all I did was tell her - "I'll see you anywhere - except the club you work at".

Yeah, actions are louder than words, and I'm thinking she never did nor will have the time of day for me outside of a Champagne Room.
 

Oogabooga

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Thanks for sharing that story jughead.

There should be a thread for us to start - woman/strippers/etc to stay AWAY from!
 

jughead

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Yep I hear yo on that one.

I miss out on a chance on a lady who really liked me she got tired of waiting for me to ask her out and when I did another guy asked her out at the same time i did, he won i lose simply because of me waiting to long.
Oh well more fish in the sea or some shit like that
 

jughead

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no she was alady friend of mine she had mad it know that all I ahd to do was ask her out and she would say yes, could have been a good Reall GF
Oh well her lose!
 

Oogabooga

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Well if a real girlfriend is what you want - that would come naturally I guess. Wasn't meant to be.
 

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Bi-town ;)
jughead said:
no she was alady friend of mine she had mad it know that all I ahd to do was ask her out and she would say yes, could have been a good Reall GF
Oh well her lose!
Well, maybe that was an indication that that girl might not have worked out for you either. She said one thing, but when you finally did it, she was gone. Actions louder than words, etc.
 

jughead

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The RMT Who Played head games with me was over a 3 year time frame,
She had me hook line and sinker but never knew it, Thank god.

The Girl that was interested in me got tired of waiting and I do understand that. It is partially my fault,
and yes I do agree that she did say one thing and did another, which is why I have only talked to her twice since, she had her chance a forfeited it for the other guy.
 

Monamie

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SPs Who Make U Think They're Interested

It would be a good thing to know both for us and the ladies to know the ones who try and make you feel like you're special but instead use that to really obtain more from you. In most cases and in the end this leads to trouble for one or the other or in extreme cases for both.
 

parang

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Been There --done That

I was a moderator on this board for about a year, and I left for personal reasons, but was told by a friend about this post--"Being Duped" Guys trust me when I say this --BE CAREFULL--The one you trust the most will be the one who will Dupe ( I have stronger words) you and to the tune of many dollars.
Things like--my brother used me as a co signer--has run up serious bills and now I have to pay them off --Can you help? Another one--I owe income tax three thousand dollars--can you help? Guys its all Bull Shit..!! They are using your generosity and although they claim its a loan--they have no intention of paying it back and will use "blackmail tactics" to get you to back down.
Guys it happened to me---Call me stupid---But trust no SP. I wont mention the SP"s name, but if you want to know just ask around. Many know who I am talking about...
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hardlicks

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parang said:
I was a moderator on this board for about a year, and I left for personal reasons, but was told by a friend about this post--"Being Duped" Guys trust me when I say this --BE CAREFULL--The one you trust the most will be the one who will Dupe ( I have stronger words) you and to the tune of many dollars.
Things like--my brother used me as a co signer--has run up serious bills and now I have to pay them off --Can you help? Another one--I owe income tax three thousand dollars--can you help? Guys its all Bull Shit..!! They are using your generosity and although they claim its a loan--they have no intention of paying it back and will use "blackmail tactics" to get you to back down.
Guys it happened to me---Call me stupid---But trust no SP. I wont mention the SP"s name, but if you want to know just ask around. Many know who I am talking about...
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wow,sorry to hear about that. I'd like to know who that sp was. Is she still working? PM, it would be more discreet.
 

Tip-Drill

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parang said:
..... Things like--my brother used me as a co signer--has run up serious bills and now I have to pay them off --Can you help? Another one--I owe income tax three thousand dollars--can you help? Guys its all Bull Shit..!! They are using your generosity and although they claim its a loan--they have no intention of paying it back and will use "blackmail tactics" to get you to back down.
Guys it happened to me---Call me stupid---
It happened to me too several times over the last three years and every time I thought I'd be smarter the next time but I never was. However, now I've finally made the break and it feels so good. I've had ridiculous excuses like "My cell phone fell into the toilet and was ruined", "My handbag containing the rent money was stolen", "It's my birthday today", "My $2000 tuition fees are overdue", "I need $3000 to open an escort agency", and I could go on. I've related these stories before so I won't bore you again. And just last week it was "I'll have to declare personal bankruptcy if you don't lend me $2000". However, this time I finally fought back and said get lost and it felt so good. I've been sucked in hook(er), line and sinker several times, and for big money too, mainly because I led a very protected life when I was younger and didn't understand how things work in the real world. $25,000 later (which includes about $12,000 in "loans" to four ladies ) I'm a whole lot wiser .... It seems to me that SC dancers and student escorts are the most devious but it wouldn't be fair to paint everyone with the same brush as there are some very nice genuine ladies out there too.

Sometimes I think the best solution is to just rent a few XXX movies and mix a Manhattan ......
 
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