Don't Get Married!!!

Not getting younger

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As long as you benefit her/kids you`ll be retained. You are however viewed as a disposable utility, I don`t know the percentage of divorces initiated by women,... 80% plus?
last I saw some years ago it was 70%

maybe some need to think about that. There’s a saying that when mid life hits, men buy toys, women buy lawyers.
 

Not getting younger

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Maybe Dvious. I know I got the short end of it.

However if we married for the wrong reasons, grow apart…how is that all her fault? Reading this thread, almost have to think guys are saints and women are just gold diggers..

Lack of commitment, financial challenges, and infidelity are some of the leading causes of divorce in the world.
Statistically we know, men commit adultry more than Women. And reading this thread seems like the assumption men struggle with commitment might also be true.


Maye we are the reason women initiate most divorces?
 
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Maybe Dvious. I know I got the short end of it.

However if we married for the wrong reasons, grow apart…how is that all her fault? Reading this thread, almost have to think guys are saints and women are just gold diggers..



Statistically we know, men commit adultry more than Women. And reading this thread seems like the assumption men struggle with commitment might also be true.


Maye we are the reason women initiate most divorces?
Yes perhaps, and this brings me back to my original point.
If you are an alpha or even a sigma, high earner, own assets…you are just asking for trouble allowing a woman to live with you and even more trouble if you sign legal government marriage documents.
If you are a beta…marriage will prob last longer cuz you’ll just do whatever she wants. If you’re a low earner with no assets you have very little to lose and you’ll always struggle whether alone or married.
I realize this is not a very romantic approach but in this day and age a man needs to protect his assets and all future earnings whether he’s a saint or a bang all bitches dog.
 

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Yes perhaps, and this brings me back to my original point.
If you are an alpha or even a sigma, high earner, own assets…you are just asking for trouble allowing a woman to live with you and even more trouble if you sign legal government marriage documents.
If you are a beta…marriage will prob last longer cuz you’ll just do whatever she wants. If you’re a low earner with no assets you have very little to lose and you’ll always struggle whether alone or married.
I realize this is not a very romantic approach but in this day and age a man needs to protect his assets and all future earnings whether he’s a saint or a bang all bitches dog.
Not only is marriage and Common Law a bad idea for wealthy guys, but if you are banging civilians not using a condom or not getting fixed can be problematic. Even if you are not married or living together, a pregnant civilian can sue for financial support (if the kid turns out to be yours). If you are banging civilians, make sure to use a condom or even better, get fixed.
 

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Not only is marriage and Common Law a bad idea for wealthy guys, but if you are banging civilians not using a condom or not getting fixed can be problematic. Even if you are not married or living together, a pregnant civilian can sue for financial support (if the kid turns out to be yours). If you are banging civilians, make sure to use a condom or even better, get fixed.
GO far away like 4 hours flight, call or give yourself a different name, and you live in another country. Like I say I am Joe from US/Nebraska. Not use my own car _ license plate - then have some fun.
Of course the best method to having fun is to have a FWB, someone who is divorce.
Or better yet see SP's for life.
It is okay to have female friends as long as she pays her own share and you established that foundation from the start.
 

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Not only is marriage and Common Law a bad idea for wealthy guys, but if you are banging civilians not using a condom or not getting fixed can be problematic. Even if you are not married or living together, a pregnant civilian can sue for financial support (if the kid turns out to be yours). If you are banging civilians, make sure to use a condom or even better, get fixed.
When younger dudes ask my advice about career/life, my #1 point is "Never, ever, no matter what she says or how good she feels....NEVER ejaculate inside a vagina. Anywhere else. Just not inside."
 
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I know this dude on the dole, a chick also on the dole moved into the other bedroom in his 2 bedroom unit. She would have fucked him, but he generally hated women and her in particular and had no interest in that direction. Welfare said, you guys are a couple, fuck you, you get less.
No actual evidence, both bedrooms used, but fuck them. Makes you wonder why they don't apply the same standards to same sex roommates.

When younger dudes ask my advice about career/life, my #1 point is "Never, ever, no matter what she says or how good she feels....NEVER ejaculate inside a vagina. Anywhere else. Just not inside."
Ha men don't have vaginas. To quote Stewie Girffin. Wouldn't it be just marvelous if we turned out to be homosexual.
No homo.
 

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GTA & Thereabouts...
I'd recommend getting married if you think she's truly the one and you're financially 'equals'. If there is one scrap of doubt, you should bail 100%.

Alluded to in other posts is the reality that you're getting married 'young' and there is a good chance you'll grow apart as you age. I think Religion helps shield you from the world and helps keep couples together.
 

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… you're getting married 'young' and there is a good chance you'll grow apart as you age. I think Religion helps shield you from the world and helps keep couples together.
So do Drugs. And Drugs can even help you die before you grow apart!
 
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If someone want to have kids, marriage is ideal.

Men simply have to choose more wisely than in the past, as many modern women may be realistically viewed as liabilities.

From the splitting of assets to the threat of hypergamous affairs to the insufferable gyno-centric political activism, long-term pair bonding requires more navigation than ever before.

Things to look for:

1. Family - she comes from a solid nuclear family led by the father
2. She's a virgin
3. She's religious - Christian, Muslims, whatever; indicates adherence to values
4. She has a reverence for traditional gender roles
5. She's apolitical
6. She loves the country she lives in and speaks highly of it
7. She prefers to dress down in public and has no or limited social media presence because she doesn't obtain validation through male attention
8. She prefers home cooking to eating fast foods
9. She's a home body and detests clubs and social gatherings
10. She doesn't smoke, drink, or do drugs (including anti-anxiety and anti-depressants)
You mean like find a unicorn
 

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You mean like find a unicorn
I think there are more than one might expect.

However, she doesn't have to hit all the points mentioned. But the more she does, the greater the probability of marital success.

Several old sayings come to mind:

"Don't let perfect be the enemy of good"

and

"Shoot for the moon, because even if you miss, you will still be among the stars"
 
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I think there are more than one might expect.

However, she doesn't have to hit all the points mentioned. But the more she does, the greater the probability of marital success.

Several old sayings come to mind:

"Don't let perfect be the enemy of good"

and

"Shoot for the moon, because even if you miss, you will still be among the stars"
To funny 😄
 
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