Don't Get Married!!!

jalimon

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No, but usually it's much better for the kids to have two parents, at least until their late teens. As long as the spouses are at least cordial with each other...
In Quebec we hardly marry anymore. And we have kids. And most live together. I splitted when our youngest kids was 6. It cost me because i decided to give a one time amount of $ to my ex so she could secure a house. That's it. She never asked for anything else except we split half all kids expense which is fair.

No one should stay away from having kids because of money.
 
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If you don't want kids, marriage is unnecessary.

Men are polygamous by nature anyway.

I agree with you 100% if you don’t want to have kids what is the sense of getting married just to stay with the same person for the rest of your life I don’t think we are humans are made to stay with one person for our entire life if we don’t want kids kids is what brings people together and I think what keeps people together.
 
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IM469

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Link A

" Under Ontario law, an unmarried couple are considered common-law spouses if they have cohabited — lived together in a conjugal relationship — continuously for at least three years. But that doesn’t necessarily mean living in the same home, the court found. "
What if one of both of the common law spouses are estranged - still legally married but living with someone else ? If an unmarried couple are considered common-law spouses if they have cohabited for at least three years, wouldn't they have two legal spouses ? 'It is a criminal offence in Canada to have more than one spouse. Section 293 of the Criminal Code prohibits polygamous relationships. '

Probably out of context but like prostitution, I hate when Canadian law tramps individual rights to follow a religious based moral code how people should live their lives.
 

Insidious Von

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Most couples get married/hitched too young. They need to spend some time in the "wilderness" before making the commitment. I would say wait until you're at least 32.
Dartsy why are you complaining, you're the guy who participates in co-ed nude football, you must be swimming in pussy.
 

dirtyharry555

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If someone want to have kids, marriage is ideal.

Men simply have to choose more wisely than in the past, as many modern women may be realistically viewed as liabilities.

From the splitting of assets to the threat of hypergamous affairs to the insufferable gyno-centric political activism, long-term pair bonding requires more navigation than ever before.

Things to look for:

1. Family - she comes from a solid nuclear family led by the father
2. She's a virgin
3. She's religious - Christian, Muslims, whatever; indicates adherence to values
4. She has a reverence for traditional gender roles
5. She's apolitical
6. She loves the country she lives in and speaks highly of it
7. She prefers to dress down in public and has no or limited social media presence because she doesn't obtain validation through male attention
8. She prefers home cooking to eating fast foods
9. She's a home body and detests clubs and social gatherings
10. She doesn't smoke, drink, or do drugs (including anti-anxiety and anti-depressants)
 
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probyn

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If someone want to have kids, marriage is ideal.

Men simply have to choose more wisely than in the past, as many modern women may be realistically viewed as liabilities.

From the splitting of assets to the threat of hypergamous affairs to the insufferable gyno-centric political activism, long-term pair bonding requires more navigation than ever before.

Things to look for:

1. Family - she comes from a solid nuclear family led by the father
2. She's a virgin
3. She's religious - Christian, Muslims, whatever; indicates adherence to values
4. She has a reverence for traditional gender roles
5. She's apolitical
6. She loves the country she lives in and speaks highly of it
7. She prefers to dress down in public and has no or limited social media presence because she doesn't obtain validation through male attention
8. She prefers home cooking to eating fast foods
9. She's a home body and detests clubs and social gatherings
10. She doesn't smoke, drink, or do drugs (including anti-anxiety and anti-depressants)
I concur. About 50% of marriages fail. But in marriages in which the wife was a virgin on her wedding night, the marriage failure rate is only 5%.
 

dvous11

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Marriage is for suckers. Only women want to marry so they can either be taken care of....or they have a plan to increase their wealth by robbing 50% of a man's wealth....and then maybe even doing it a second time to another sucker. The laws need to be updated to reflect how far women have come in society in terms of opportunity for great education and careers and being self sufficient. Until then....marriage is for suckers.
 

xix

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There are some members here that see SP's and try to propose to them or stalk them years later.
We complain when her service or act drops and price goes up but not when we wish we had them at home or someone (her) or like her body at home, and we don't say anything about that dream.

We as men ask for lawyer and doctor advice here, but not Relationship advice. Or what women want but will never get.

This thread is funny.
 

Not getting younger

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Marriage is for suckers. Only women want to marry so they can either be taken care of....or they have a plan to increase their wealth by robbing 50% of a man's wealth.
Interesting, because two of my divorced friends decided to live together. They got engaged. My female friend ( reasonably well off ) quit her job, moved in, to take care of the house, help with his kids. She poured quite a bit of money into that house, for Reno’s. Being a typical guy it was wanting. They sold that place, bought another as many divorced couples do.

It fell apart.
He went after her original house ( they decided to not sell that, rent it instead).

He tried to screw her for the division of proceeds from the sale of his place ( there’s a legal calculation that is quite fair) and despite being in debt over his head, he refused to sell their joint place so she could just get her equity out. Nor would he buy her out.

. Cost them both legal bills and $$. Because by the time the lawyers finally got him to sell, house prices had come down ( last year)…probably cost them a couple hundred grand.

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While I agree divorce law favours women, and men often get screwed. Plenty of male assholes out there too. Including dead beat dads.
 
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dirtyharry555

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Consistent with prior research, those with fewer sex partners were less likely to divorce. However, there are considerable differences by marriage cohort. For all three cohorts, women who married as virgins had the lowest divorce rates by far. Eleven percent of virgin marriages (on the part of the woman, at least) in the 1980s dissolved within five years. This number fell to 8 percent in the 1990s, then fell again to 6 percent in the 2000s. For all three decades, the women with the second lowest five-year divorce rates are those who had only one partner prior to marriage. It’s reasonable to assume that these partners reflected women’s eventual husbands. Even so, premarital sex with one partner substantially increases the odds of divorce.
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xix

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Jordan Peterson video
I knew you were going to quote him, I think I remember that video.

@hemiman at conception? come on, I guess they want him to pay for the free classes and revelation/gender party, etc?

@Not getting younger , what was the reason for their first divorce and second? Like history repeat itself, or was this a 8 year phase? Post56
 
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JethroBodine

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As someone whose longtime marriage unexpectedly imploded almost overnight many years ago, I don’t know what to say. ….
Other than I cherish the many great times we had and above all, I love being a dad more than anything else.
And I’m going to make passionate love next weekend to a few SPs less than half my age as part of my recovery efforts, which I anticipate continuing for many years.
 
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