does this kind of service provider exist?

[stuffstuff]

I'm looking for a service provider who's a bit more mature and intelligent, and is as concerned with the money as she is with the person that she's spending time with.

Which doesn't mean that I don't want to get some action, but I'm not interested in most of the things on the regular 'menu' and really just want to find someone smart who I can chill with, talk about life and maybe get a hand job from at the end without spending an arm and a leg.

 

[Stoo]

So let me understand... You would like to hire one of the ladies here.... a more mature one, who is bright, charming and easy on the eyes... and ask her to not really do much of the regular "work" required?

Short answer... Yes. Several.

 

[MadonnaLove]

i'm sure theres lots of ladies that would like to chill with you and give you a happy ending

 

[Petzel]

I'm sure some would do this. Just be prepared to pay their regular rates.

 

[stuffstuff]

I guess my question isn't really whether they exist, but how I would find what I'm looking for.

If anyone thinks they might be what I'm looking for feel free to send me a PM...

I'm a decent looking, in shape guy in his 20s (living in toronto) who's as interested in conversation as I am sex.
That doesn't mean I'm not willing to spend money, but I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

 

[jonadams]

If you're looking for handjob only an MPA might be better option for you. Otherwise be prepared to pay the full rate for an SP. SP rate is determined by how much time is spent (ex. 1 hour, 2 hours...), not by itemized services (like hj costs x + bj costs y = ).

 

[gcostanza]

...... I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

Good luck with that.

 

[Art Mann]

. . . That doesn't mean I'm not willing to spend money, but I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

Hmmm . . . . well, yes, of course, that explains it all.

SPs are going to be falling over each other to snare your business, because this phrase is such an irresistible aphrodisiac:

But I'm young and good looking, so don't I get a discount?

 

[MadonnaLove]

...

I'm a decent looking, in shape guy in his 20s (living in toronto) who's as interested in conversation as I am sex.
That doesn't mean I'm not willing to spend money, but I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

your looks don't get you discounts sexy .....your not being cool at all

 

[Butler1000]

If you're twenties and easy on the eyes there are lots of ladies who are civilians who would be happy to do this. Cripes I didn't have many issues at that age hooking up and the girls weren't nearly as open as they are now.

 

[TRossi]

... how I would find what I'm looking for.

If you're serious about finding what you're looking for, the you're going to have to give up on this notion:

... I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

No SP is going to reduce her rates or give you a discount because you feel you are entitled based on your 'good' looks.

 

[Flapjack]

but I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

In that case, wait till your PM box fills up with offers for SP"s to pay you!

 

[Questor]

I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

LOL I was thinking you would be getting several PMs from the ladies, until I read that.

Maybe you should just go ahead and book with someone who looks interesting to you. Then, when you get there and she sees how good looking you are, ask her for 50% off the regular price.

Oh, and don't forget to write a review so that we know how it went.

 

[peter4025]

I guess my question isn't really whether they exist, but how I would find what I'm looking for.

If anyone thinks they might be what I'm looking for feel free to send me a PM...

I'm a decent looking, in shape guy in his 20s (living in toronto) who's as interested in conversation as I am sex.
That doesn't mean I'm not willing to spend money, but I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

do you believe that you are God's gift to all sps?

 

[Frosty]

What you're really looking for is a gf. Go find one. Not willing to pay the regular rate for a conversation and oh, some sex. You're in the wrong place.

 

[stuffstuff]

girls who're young and attractive charge a huge premium for their time.

it doesn't seem at all unreasonable that there would be women who take that into consideration when deciding on a price.

i'm not trying to say that i'm some kind of stud who just walks into a bar and gets what he wants. i'm far from that.
but the idea that i have to pay as much to chill and get a handjob as a 60 year old obese guy who wants to nut on a girls face is absurd.

if you think i'm being uncool for thinking that then we obviously aren't on the same page.
i'm just wondering if there are women out there who're willing to negotiate their time, and potentially have an ongoing thing.

What you're really looking for is a gf. Go find one. Not willing to pay the regular rate for a conversation and oh, some sex. You're in the wrong place.

i have non-exclusive girlfriends. i'm looking for open minded, intelligent women who're willing to negotiate.

 

[Malika Fantasy]

girls who're young and attractive charge a huge premium for their time.

it doesn't seem at all unreasonable that there would be women who take that into consideration when deciding on a price.

i'm not trying to say that i'm some kind of stud who just walks into a bar and gets what he wants. i'm far from that.
but the idea that i have to pay as much to chill and get a handjob as a 60 year old obese guy who wants to nut on a girls face is absurd.

if you think i'm being uncool for thinking that then we obviously aren't on the same page.
i'm just wondering if there are women out there who're willing to negotiate their time, and potentially have an ongoing thing.



i have non-exclusive girlfriends. i'm looking for open minded, intelligent women who're willing to negotiate.

That's thing.
More often than not the 60 years old obese guy has you said will NOT want to negotiate and will pay the price asking by the SP.
I don't pay my rent and bills by negotiating my rates because you think you shouldn't pay as much because you are good looking and just want to "chill out"
You would be surprise to hear that it's not all that uncommon for someone to pay for x time and spending 75% of that time talking and after that just receiving a hj/bj.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I'm a decent looking, in shape guy in his 20s (living in toronto) who's as interested in conversation as I am sex.
That doesn't mean I'm not willing to spend money, but I think I'm easy enough on the eyes that paying regular rates would be a bit crazy.

In the words of a now infamous SP...

ARE YOU FUCKED?

Where's the popcorn?

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

it still starts off with contacting a provider your interested in and letting her know what you are looking for.

 

[stuffstuff]

That's thing.
More often than not the 60 years old obese guy has you said will NOT want to negotiate and will pay the price asking by the SP.
I don't pay my rent and bills by negotiating my rates because you think you shouldn't pay as much because you are good looking and just want to "chill out"
You would be surprise to hear that it's not all that uncommon for someone to pay for x time and spending 75% of that time talking and after that just receiving a hj/bj.

if your schedule is booked solid then i can understand why you'd never consider offering a reduced rate.

it's not that i don't think i should have to pay as much - just that i'm not willing to spend $250/h at this point in my life, and i think there might be SPs who are willing to negotiate. so i'm asking. there's no harm in asking, right?

just like you're free to ask for $500/h, and it wouldn't offend our sensibilities.
and, i'm sure, there're men who you'll gladly spend time with and not charge anything.